This has, in fact, happened to me a couple of times.  I just waited it out.  One gal was over an hour late.  (traffic, of course)

I hope you don't have anywhere to be too soon.

Just a pitfall of the outcall game

I'm an outcall only lady and while the stress is on us to show up on the dot, sometimes, there are things out of our control even if we do plan ahead. Communication is key when things are seemingly not going the way we hoped. I'd cut her some slack unless your date is already over lol.  

Patience is a virtue afterall  

She is on her way ...

her phone broke
she got pulled over
flat tire
abducted by aliens
her last date extended
pick one

So it depends on how tight your schedule is. If you're on vacation and have not much better to do maybe an hour or two is no problem. OTH if you're on a tight schedule anytime more than 30 min. is fair enough to cancel.

Then also factor in if this is a new provider where first impression is important or she's been a good regular in the past thus deserves a break.

I only do incall, but I have had to coordinate getting to her incall while she is also getting there. One of the most annoying ones was a missed date with someone I REALLY wanted to see. I'm there, she isn't. I call and she said, "It's raining!" Yeah, it's been raining all day and we spoke about earlier and "It's raining where I am too, and that's why I left 20 minutes early so I wouldn't inconvenience you."  

These days, googlemaps, Waze, and GPS can tell me fairly accurately about travel times, including traffic (Waze, especially). I would say, "Call me when you are out the door and leaving. Do not call me as you're leaving a bowl of water for your cat - something will happen. Do not call me when you are finishing your makeup or looking for your car keys. Call me when the door is actually locked BEHIND you and you are sitting in the car (or cab or whatever). And give me a convenient landmark near you [if you don't want me to know your address, of course)."  

A few keystrokes later and I will know if her lateness will fit in with my schedule. If it won't work, I can call or text her to cancel before she is 2 minutes from home.  

Google even gives you estimated travel times for Walking, Cycling, Public Transit and Automobile. You have to know an approximate travel time to get to your outcall destination AND USE THAT INFO TO LEAVE ON TIME!!

if you've seen her a lot and you like her .... then wait

If you can care less and can find a last minute date,
then cancel and/or reschedule. You've been around I  
believe, so there's only so many options. Jerking off
and save a few bucks or abstain until your next date.  

I'm a firm believer in patience. It's always served me  
well. I think I was only NCNS once in 10 years and that was with someone who I shared good times with (with whom I've shared good times, OK). I would have seen her the next day, no problem. But she never called me again after the NCNS.  

No reply to my holiday greeting, then I recently reached out just to say hello. She was upset with me ... lol. We shared so much OTC time I'd never find a reason to complain about the cost of the hotel.

Anyhooo,  she's getting new boobs and I'll hopefully be conducting an exam in my office in the near future. Or at least I hope to. If
not, nothing lost ...  

There's very little reason for ill will here ... we make our our pain.  
I prefer to forgive and remember ... the good times.  

I've made a lot of friends here. Yeah, I pay for the opportunity but I make the most of it. It's a lot of fuckin fun. And a lot of fun fucking.  

Sorry to ramble. Well, only a little.  

 


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Enough with the lame excuses for being late. In reality this is part of the hobby that is business. In business if you are late for an appointment you will hear about it twice. First from the person you had the appointment with and probably twice as forcefully  from the boss. Part of making an appointment is a respect for each other's time and schedule, each party has an equal responsibility for being on time. No excuses, bad weather, plan for it. Road construction, accidents, unexpected traffic, plan for it. Feeding the cat, watering the plants, come on man, this isn't high school.

I am sure this is not a popular post with some, in all probability that person has little respect for my time. Miss a couple appointments without compensation and I assure you that provider will be on time in the future.

As a hobbyist I make sure I am always on time. The other day I had a 2  1/2 hour drive to the incall site. I left early enough to account for all the possibilities and thankfully there were no glitches. I arrived in the area 90 early which I used to catch up on e-mails and reading. Rarely am I that early and in some cases I let the provider know I am available ONLY if it is ok with them. I don't expect or coerce in ant manner for an earlier start, just offer the option.

Expect and give respect, from and for the other person and there will be no need for excuses or concessions. Just my HO from my hobby horse😊

Well... considering the OP hasn't responded. ...

I hope she's fucking his brains out!  
XOXO,  
TL

One night in DC almost four years ago, we agreed to meet after the M&G.  I got there over an hour earlier, and there were a couple of ladies I knew from that wanted to go back and do a foursome with another dude who was there.  But I had already committed to my friend visiting from Cali, so I had to turn them down.  The lady from Cali showed up late, but the dude I alluded to earlier interceded, and offered her a two hour play that she didn't want to refuse.  I reluctantly told her yes, and went back to hotel on the Metro alone.  3 hours later, almost 1 am, she texted me, told me she had to go back to her room, and freshen up.  Hitting the cab, fifteen minutes away according to the cabbie.  I met her outside the hotel, walked around the block in Foggy Bottom, we went into a park overlooking the infamous Watergate hotel, smoked 420 and made out.  Then back to my hotel...it was everything we planned, and more  She left the next morning, after breakfast, to go about her business affairs.  Me, I was off from work, and spent the afternoon wandering the Mall.  As I was heading back to my hotel, I called her, and she said tonight was at her place.  Dinner with her at the restaurant at her hotel, smoking 420 with an unobstructed view of the US Capital a few blocks way, then back to room...

With the right ladies, give them some leeway, especially if you know them.  They might just blow socks off!

She could have lied about her location... (Does it matter?)

Just like any appointment, you can choose to end it when ever you want.

 
I've canceled OC apps when ever things were taking to long to get started.

45 minutes late... I was in no hurry .. so it was OK.. but I was in touch with her.. she went over 30 minutes without letting me know she was on her way.. in looking over her reviews, I see a few other comments about her being late as she only works on outcall..

With everything to consider in an Outcall Business, she should have known and planned for the unexpected traffic accidents.  She certainly should have given you some sort of "extra"  or a discount for her inability to keep an appointment that was promised at a Specific Time. It's part of integrity.

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Provider communicated and told me she was sorry for over sleeping after 30 M so we rescheduled for an hour later.     I took another little piece of Viagra and had a happy date.      The main thing is she communicated and took responsibility.    She didn't want to disappoint me.      If you let things that really don't matter a lot ruin your life you will be miserable.     She made it up to me when she got there ten times over and we were both happy.

If a lady contacts me with a ETA and its within a reasonable realm of our original appt I'm usually OK. But if we are talking about anything more than 1 hr I consider that to be a request to reschedule and will probably politely cancel the session suggesting we try another day and move to a plan B.
If she begins a series of  "I'm running 15 minutes late " messages I'll likely bail out and cancel after a couple .  If she's just 15 minutes away 2 or 3 times I'm pretty sure she's not gonna show.

However , if it's a fave that's running late and someone I kinda trust I'll be pretty patient. Actually since most of my outcalls have been in areas like Hollywood , Chicago , NYC and DC it's  not that unusual  for a lady to be a somewhat late. Since I'm not particularly driven by pride & ego I'll show a little understanding .

Once I cut it too close...  and half way there the sky opened up.  Amost every driver pulled over the shoulder...  I was taking my life in my hands by driving 30 on the interstate.  I called & rescheduled as she couldn't push our date back.  We had a great time the next day...  

Since then I plan to arrive early & then withdraw to the coffee shop to wait disceetly until my time.  
If I'd held my phone up she'd have been able to hear the rain & wipers on high.

Another time a diff Fav went ballistic on me.  I was driving & still an hour out.  She hadn't cooled of when I arrived that hour later.  (Apparently we had a comunications breakdown about the time of my visit. Of course, I think it was her fault, as I was on the usual schedule for our appointments but perhaps she confused me with somebody else.)  But I could have beeped the car horn to prove I was really in the car. I hope I never have this situation again but it is an off the cuff way of confirming the other is actually in the car.    

Another thing, remember it takes longer when you don't know where you are going.  

I think I'd draw the line at an hour late...  but I'd tell her that.

My time is important and I don't have time to waste holding my dick. I have a family that needs my time, businesses that need my time. And being late is not being respectful and buts me in a foul mood. If I am not happy, mister happy will not come out and play. If Mr, happy isn't happy and I am not happy what is the point?

I was late an hour recently....

It's in my lastest review, but I kept in contact via text & informed my client of my eta... It was due to the stupid traffic & the uber dricers sense of direction ...  Most important is to keep the line in communication open & update the client of eta!!  
 

All my outcalls are end of the night and I'm just going to sleep afterwards, but I've had 3 ladies show 90 minutes to 2 hours late.  1 I was texting the booker to cancel when she knocked - and she staying an extra hour at N/C to make up for it.  Usually there is good communication about it - so it's OK.  The radio silent ones get scary (lucky, never happened)

The pisser is when you plan for 10pm so you can be in bed by midnight for that 8am meeting - that's when you have to start second guessing.  Which is more important - the work or the fun?