Back before I discovered the hobby, I used to frequent strip clubs. Many of the dancers were inked, especially in more recent years. Many of the tats, I thought, were unattractive and detracting...there was a barmaid at one of the clubs that I dated for about a year, who epitomized this: She had a tat near her crotch with an old BF's name. Definite downer.
But a year into the hobby, I met a lady at the first M&G I ever attended that had a series of interconnected tats that covered about a third of her body. I later saw her about a month later, and as we came to know each other over the next couple of years and 2-3 dozen rendezvous', I came to realize that her body art was a reflection of her personality, positively so, and that caused me to reevaluate. Now, it's a positive, and one my current ATF's, who had none when we first became acquainted, now has several. She did this initially in order to cover a relatively inconspicuous surgical scar, and the additional ones she's added were tastefully done. They enhance her beauty, not that she needed to do so. While body art is not a criterion for me in determining whether or not to see ladies, it no longer is a negative factor. As for activities, cool with most everything unless sh!t, p!ss, blood, or pain are involved. Have a good one...but now enjoy? Has the hobby broadened your sexual horizons?
In the beginning when I started out in the hobby world I only had experience greek once with a bf & didn't like it... Maybe it was the inexperience of the bf... But one of my 1st clientele I encountered when I started providing wanted Greek and I agreed & it was a totally different experience, euphoric/orgasmic, since then I'm a "Greek goddess" one of my fav things to do in my sessions!!! I don't charge extra for it, it's included in my GFE ..... 😁😁😁😁
hey hey hey. How did that client turn you? I mean, can you describe the technique that guy used to suddenly convince you to do anal?
I know lots of lube is needed, and the dick has to creep in very slowly as you relax your anus and accommodate.
Did your exbf just try to shove it in?
Silicone lube and she wears a female condom, which she can put in ahead of time. Bend her over, and fuck away or if the shower has a bench, even better. I love, love, love all kinds of play in the water, can you tell? lol
This is a public board so that's all I will say lol
... not because I was reluctant to try something. I just didn't have the opportunity to try such a variety of activities with women who were enthusiastic partners.
I still have self-imposed limits. For example, I'm not into anything that involves hitting or degrading a woman. I'm just an old-fashioned boy I guess. And I was asked once if I wanted to try sounding, and after understanding what it involved, I said "no thanks!!" And nothing bigger than a finger up my ass, thankyouverymuch. But I'm game for just about anything else with a woman (one or more!) that's consensual and fun.
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I have to admit that bdsm and bondage in general were always things I wanted to try and fantasized about but with this hobby I have turned my thoughts and fantasies into reality. Greek as well, I am still new to both but I am happy that I have found the courage to finally try what I've wanted to for so long... There is still things I havent been able to conquer yet, but I am sure they will be crossed off my list soon enough.
It is often difficult for me to verbalize what I want but as my experiences have broadened and my desires expanded it is improving slightly. I am learning to ask about the "specials" and not take for granted what I "think" is on the menu. I need lot's of help, any volunteers? LOL
I'd never leave the fucking house.
Had a dog that did that. He would never run off . Always stayed at home.
I know! If I could suck my own cock, I'd never gotten married and have saved a fortune..
My head would be saying "No, that's nasty", while my cock would be saying "yeah, suck it you nasty bitch!"
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Also, seeing gals with really heavy ink.
And then there's the whole golden shower thing too
Now that I have been with a few couples that truly enjoy sharing such an intimate occasion with others, I understand it better and enjoy being a part of what pleases them both.
The couple experience (either in a 3some or with another couple) can be incredibly erotic and touching. When a couple has a strong connection and involves others inside their passion (whether it is 1 other person or 2), you can wind up with an ultra intense time of intimacy. It's like having a catalyst take your sex life to a new level. It is one of the main reasons we have started providing companion services.
Tori & Nic
When I first started I used to be shy at role plays, giggling all the time, whip in hand....and mildly shocked at what I had to do...but now I love it and have become very good at it, inventing and performing wild and erotic senarios with relish... Golden showers too... I could not understand why....now I know...and enjoy...
I have realized while being a provider, how much fun and exciting it is to have an open and adventurously dirty mind...
Kisses
Frederica
a lady I had seen several times....with passion but not particularly 100% in to each other.....she asks "Fist me". I look at her, and look at my hands, and think..."This may be beyond my pay grade...." Ask, do you really want to try? She says 'yes'.....I let her choose which hand and try as carefully as possible! She appeared to enjoy the experience, and continued the next several times. Can still remember being so careful, but pleased that she was getting pleasure from something that would scare me senseless!
..never, ever liked anything in my ass but I was recently on a milking table and this girl was working wonders while also teasing my ass. Surprisingly I liked it. I asked for more. More exploration to follow soon. Never thought that would happen but this is the right person.
When I was in my teens I'd hook up with a Flight attendant whenever she had a layover in town.
She'd bring a dozen or so of those mini liquor bottles home with her .
She loved to Blow me while fucking me with a mini bottle. After I came she'd drink the liquor in the bottle.
After she drank three or four minis I was usually tired of BJ's, so she got Kinky to keep me entertained. 
...never, ever liked anything in my ass but I was recently on a milking table and this girl was working wonders while also teasing my ass. Surprisingly I liked it. I asked for more. More exploration to follow soon. Never thought that would happen but this is the right person.
Drinking mini bottles out of your ass sounds pretty kinky to me ...
She'd bring a dozen or so of those mini liquor bottles home with her .
She loved to Blow me while fucking me with a mini bottle. After I came she'd drink the liquor in the bottle.
After she drank three or four minis I was usually tired of BJ's, so she got Kinky to keep me entertained.
...never, ever liked anything in my ass but I was recently on a milking table and this girl was working wonders while also teasing my ass. Surprisingly I liked it. I asked for more. More exploration to follow soon. Never thought that would happen but this is the right person.
most want it and enjoy it.
When I was very young an knew nothing about sex a friend told me about t. Told me it was gross. Sai it was hairy an bloody. I've encountered his back in the day but never bloody. Bo was I naive. N
did duos with other providers, and it was amazing
at this point i have done it all i guess...
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I've always been open minded with women, having been seduced by older Gals in my
early teen years.
I was taught anything goes is the way sex is supposed to be.
I was instructed on DATY long before Drivers Education.
When I was booking providers I was never looking for anything Kinky beyond, or even reaching the limits of my civilian Gal experiences.
When I first tried providers as a hobby I'd already found enough spontaneous Kink with civilian Gals to last me a life time.
With hookers I always read her menu before I book, and follow the written guideline.
In my experiences with civilians, almost every time I've given a Gal my undivided attention and respect, there is rarely anything she or myself won't do in the bed, in the heat of the moment, when inhibitions disappear, of course.
Don't get me wrong, I've never crossed the line into sex that could make me physically sick, like being shit on, but I'm not judging anyone else for their cravings.
P.S. I don't consider clean rimming to be hazardous to my Health.
pleasing me (not that that is bad) but there was no FF interaction.
#2 was similar although I was led to believe they were into each other. Didn't turn out to be so.
#3 was with two ladies who knew each other and they each enjoyed pleasing both myself and the other lady.
#4 was with two fabulous ladies (one of which was new to me) who took the FMF meeting to new heights of pleasure. It was a total sensual blur.
#5 with be similar to #4 but it will be with two ladies who I have both seen individually multiple times. What a way to celebrate my birthday. But, I have to wait until the fall with my BD gets here.
as a non-gfe lady no kissing cbj etc.
Since becoming independent some years ago I realize I do enjoy the GFE part the conversation before the action.
The kissing and the bj with no rubber taste
Also I like role-playing and since hooking up out on a certain vegas hotel balcony what a rush.
You don't know who is looking or might come out on their balcony next door.I never thought I would do that...done it twice:
Sportsman's Double . . . . a mother/daughter duo. Was apprehensive the first time. Thought it would be too weird, but once I did it, I loved it.
Back before I discovered the hobby, I used to frequent strip clubs. Many of the dancers were inked, especially in more recent years. Many of the tats, I thought, were unattractive and detracting...there was a barmaid at one of the clubs that I dated for about a year, who epitomized this: She had a tat near her crotch with an old BF's name. Definite downer.
But a year into the hobby, I met a lady at the first M&G I ever attended that had a series of interconnected tats that covered about a third of her body. I later saw her about a month later, and as we came to know each other over the next couple of years and 2-3 dozen rendezvous', I came to realize that her body art was a reflection of her personality, positively so, and that caused me to reevaluate. Now, it's a positive, and one my current ATF's, who had none when we first became acquainted, now has several. She did this initially in order to cover a relatively inconspicuous surgical scar, and the additional ones she's added were tastefully done. They enhance her beauty, not that she needed to do so.
While body art is not a criterion for me in determining whether or not to see ladies, it no longer is a negative factor.
As for activities, cool with most everything unless sh!t, p!ss, blood, or pain are involved. Have a good one...
same way for several years. Then I met a muscular athletic Kgirl with a massive tattoo on her back and it changed my mind. I still don't like the way some tats look on "soft" curvy girls, but when they are lean and show some muscle definition, it is really hot IMO.
I used to be turned off by tats on civilian women, but I have met a few beautiful ladies (including Harlowe Dahl, Erin Black, and Roxanne Dupri) with stunning body art and now I actively seek out ladies of ink.
The biggest is BDSM play as both a top and as a bottom. I enjoy being tied down, impact play, being shocked, temprature play, position play and more as a bottom. I also like doing the same as a top if my partner enjoys it. I require a huge amout of trust to do this so PvP BDSM is out. But I didn’t get any of it till I tried it.
PvP has not really expanded my sexual horizons other the PvP itself.
From nipple clamps.
I rarely wear underwear, but when I do it's always something unusual.
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But now I find it a very enjoyable hobby.
I never realized how much I would enjoy the experience of transsexuals. It's still hard to believe that as a straight man, I love sucking dicks, cum in my mouth, and taking it up the ass...provided there's a stunningly beautiful woman on the other end of the dick. As far as "regular" women go, I've pretty much stayed the same way as I was before; however, I sometimes let my ATF run the show, and I've read some of her other reviews, and she is into some extremely kinky activities. So, my life could get more interesting as time goes on.
That there are several things I have tried in P4P that either I never thought I would do, never wanted to do and never saw the need for.
The first was a threesome. As a nerdy fat teen with glasses and no game I never thought I'd ever have a twosome, never mind a threesome, thanks to P4P, I got to experience this once.
The second, rimming, never did it, never wanted to do it, nor had any desire for it to be done to me. A provider I saw about 5 years ago was giving me a great BBBJ when she asked me to lift my leg, when I did, she dove down and licked my asshole. She ate it out pretty good, felt weird, but nice. Never needed it but it wasnt awful, like I said, kinda nice.
The third was female condoms.. Thought the whole idea was silly and redundant. I have since been converted by several providers into a believer! In p4p they are an awesome addition to a provider's arsenal as to how to make a guy feel great.
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About 25 yrs. ago, I went to a strip club in NJ that was renowned for pushing the elements. The night in question, I was with two friends, one of my final HS friends, and one of my younger brother's pals whom I knew was an a$$-hole...volatile mixture. There was this dancer there that was rather homely, and had recently given birth. It was apparent to me that she was lactating, but my friends that night decided to give her $hit despite her going naked. After I gave her the obligatory buck, they sassed her. She responded by grabbing her tits, coming in close, and squirting them both in the face. I almost died laughing at their stupidity...I can still see their reaction...! When she came back by a few minutes later, she blew them off, as expected. Not me, though...I gave her a fin, and had her gross out my buds more by squirting her milk into my mouth. She complied...it didn't taste all that good, but there are certain experiences in life that are priceless. They almost went into convulsions...I died laughing again. I would have fucked her if the opportunity was there, but I wasn't driving that night.
When my wife gave birth to my kids she lactated quite a bit but the babies just didnt want to latch on, they were getting malnourished so we went to formula. That left her with heavy aching breasts. She pumped to supplement the formula but one day in the shower I reached down and licked a drop off her breast and it was sweet. Putting my mouth over the nipple I began to play with it and then suck. My right hand played with her clit as I did this. She shuddered an "Oh yes!" As I began to drain her breast of milk. Must have drank 8 ounces just from the one breast. I played with her clit the whole time while the warm water cascaded down on is as we embraced in the shower. When I moved to the other breast for more, she shuddered and whispered "Oh God!" As she came. Continuing to rub her pussy and clit I drained the second breast. It was sweet and warm and had to be one of the most satisfying sexual experiences of my life. People say they don't like the taste, but I loved it! We only did it the one time, but it was marvelous. I know, not in P4P, but it was brought to mind by this post.
It tasted OK but it's never been my thing.
Let's meet if you will be in Orlando and wanting experience lactatio
There is nothing that I was reluctant to try, coming into the hobby, that I now enjoy.
As a young nerdy adult, I had troubles hooking up with girls I desired, but those who connected with me were by and large adventurous spirits, almost all of whom were awesome co-conspirators when naughty time showed up. And my long married life was a sex freak's dream come true. When I look back at my civvie sex life, I just bask: "damn, you have great taste in women!"
There ARE things I've tried for the first time in the hobby:
- Fisting. I was aware it existed, figured "meh", met a provider who asked for it. It was neat, but still I'm pretty meh about it.
- Squirting. The idea did nothing for me, the reality does, well, more than nothing for me, but still meh. It's just a thing some girls do & some girls really like to do.
The first threesome I enjoyed was in the hobby, as is true of every threesome I've paid for...
In general, I much prefer one-on-one, but there are things about threesomes that can't be experienced in a coupling. As a consequence, I want to try a foursome. It'll break the budget, and it might kill me, but WHAT A WAY TO GO (if it comes to that)!
Pissing in somebody's mouth. And when i was too nervous to get all of the piss in her mouth, i pissed in a wine glass and she chugged the rest.
Been there, done that.
I always use to say I'll NV touch another's ass..let alone I don't et why anyone would take that route ,let alone a straight guy..
However! I tried a strap on with a generous guy ..and every since then I've been tearing assess up lol I just like how wearing a strap on makes me feel..so empowering hahaha
Be careful guys ,there's a new dock in town tearing shit up!