I didn't like them at 20 either. At 20, I was banging a 45 year old. Went to a 21 year old, and I was like wtf is this bullshit. (I'm an old soul.)
By the way, buddy - I guarantee you I could beat you hands down in a contest on who's the bigger pro in the sack, so you might want to re-think your ego there a bit.-- Modified on 6/8/2016 7:50:37 PM
many providers will list a minimum age to see a client. do you have a similar guideline? I won't deal with provider a younger than late 20"s. don't want to feel like a creepy old man screwing one of my daughters' friends. no upper limit. heck, one of the best fucks I ever had in civvie life was 75.
I have seen a few guys in their early twenties but I didn't feel sexy doing it, more like I should have been checking whether they're eating properly and doing their homework!!
I like them young and perky for looks but find that with early twenties the date is more likely mechanical. By the late twenties the skill increases. Every once and a while I have hit the jackpot with a 20's yo provider that absolutely rocks you. If the looks are interesting, I would and have extended my upper range but generally have been a little disappointed as the pics seem to be 5-10 years old so in person the provider is even older. I guess my sweet spot is 25-30 but wouldn't hesitate to go to 35.
as the old joke goes. Do you only date younger women? Well, I pretty much have to.
you are so adorable
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I guess my minimum would be 18 and my maximum is that they be younger than me. Although, I tend to see ladies between 25 and 50. I used to try to not see any ladies younger than my daughter, but that went out the window when she turned 30.
we all simply become "adults" together, and that is that. Much younger women, as you said, and I might feel a bit creepy (and that is not what I'm looking to feel like)
Truth be told, because looks and youth are a huge turn on for me I'd go for an 18 y.o. escort if I was pretty sure she was reliable. On the other end, I'd go as high as late 30s, just haven't done so. Nothing personal for the Over 40 gals, but I might as well stay home with the wife.
I've had great sex with gals in their early 20s, but formed better relationships with women in the late 20s to early 30s range
I will occasionally go over or under for someone I really find attractive.
Personally for me I am all about the chemistry. Young guys are fun to look at and flirt with but they do nothing for me overall. Except for the one Boston guy who is just that irresistible and he is close enough to 40.
gotta agree...right now for me, minimum is 35, but that may change the older i get
Dear Erin:
Do your choices in the hobby with respect to age tend to mirror your choices if you were to date as a civvie?
Yes they do....I wouldn't consider dating anyone younger than myself. My ex husband is 5 years my junior and that was an epic failure...EPIC! lol I prefer older in the civvie world though. In my experience +5-10 years my senior = better chemistry, sex, companionship and bsc laughter
Do your choices in the hobby with respect to age tend to mirror your choices if you were to date as a civvie?
...but I felt that I was pushing my luck at that young age. Most of my youngest dates have been with 27-28-year-olds. On the other end, I've very much enjoyed a couple of 55-year-olds.
...I don't have an upper limit as such. I've not seen anyone over 50 but I would if she was attractive and got my attention some how.
I like my clients over 35... They seem to know what they are doing in the bedroom. The older the hobbyist the professionalism gets better.. I'll take older hobbyists anyday!!!
Also younger or my age clients I've encountered in the past have been "headaches" & unprofessional. I just had one recently who's in his late 20's drunk calling me at 2-3am wanting an appointment without verification, even after I refused he proceeded to call & text & did it again the next night.
My preference is to be with ladies close to my age, which if nothing else allows common interests in music and other cultural interests. They may call themselves cougars, but hot damn, do they like sex, and so do I! Until/if ever I meet Ms. Right, The Game goes on!
19 - 50+ and have to say I prefer late 20's to mid 40's the best. The few mid 50's gals I saw were gung ho (sorry for the pun) but not as good as the late 30's to mid 40's gals. Their skills are phenomenal (from practice I guess) and generally still look great. The ones in their 20's and late teens may be tight and toned but as others have said in this thread, they are a bit more mechanical and generally are rushing through like they either dont.want to be there or have the "its just a job" attitude. In other words, the younger they are, the less experienced, thus not as good a time IMHO.
That being said, all this goes out the window because people are individuals and no.matter their age, 18 - 55, ANYONE can be a 10, its all in the service and packaging, no matter the age
No age limit but for sure an age preference...and more important a maturity preference. I role play and enjoy age play. So the Mrs Robinson role can be fun along with the older provider guiding a new young kitten in a threesome role. A young soul that is seeking proper and sensual teaching is always a gentle approach.
The other extremes are older men...70 and up. 83 is my oldest to date. Love the birthday year of 69!!! Seems to be an adventure year! Older men offer a sexy and flirtatious giggle level---again comfortable with themselves and truly loving women
Jesus 83? And he probably fucks better then half of the guys on this board!!
Well, this has been around before but it's always worth bringing up. The mathematical theory is that the best age relationship for a guy and a gal is the following: Take the guy's age; divide it in half and add seven. Go ahead, plug in the numbers. No matter what age you put in, it seems to work pretty well (at least for us guys). LOL. Ciao!
Half my age, fine. I am 57, which means women 28-29 are in my sweet spot, which is true. Half plus 7 puts the women I am "supposed" to be with at mid to late 30's, which is most definitely too old for me.
I recently saw a guy in his late 20's, and I was a tad iffy about it - but he was smart and very mature via email. Boy, was that a fun time, but I couldn't do that every day lol!
Why not? Not enough energy?
I didn't like them at 20 either. At 20, I was banging a 45 year old. Went to a 21 year old, and I was like wtf is this bullshit. (I'm an old soul.)
By the way, buddy - I guarantee you I could beat you hands down in a contest on who's the bigger pro in the sack, so you might want to re-think your ego there a bit.
-- Modified on 6/8/2016 7:50:37 PM
You get paid for sex, and I don't, so I guess that makes you more of a pro.
That's quite a defensive reaction for a fairly innocuous question.
Gents in their late 30s usually 37+
I don't see guys who are in their 20s or early 30s.I find that I really prefer 40+ but I have had some great dates with gents in their late 30s.I also see many gents who are 55+ and have a great time.
I find with older gents the experience is different most of the time they book multi-hr dates.
It is about the experience not going through the motions and leave.
I have had some tell me I am the age of their kids.
I don't really think I have a maximum. If you're 80 and still providing and still hot, I'll see you.
I'm currently 30 and I've seen providers 15 years older twice, and both times were awesome (27-42 and 30-45).
Once, I've gone younger (30-25 I think, I know she was in her mid 20s), had a great time, and would see her again, but I prefer older.
I think part of it is I had a late birthday, so in school I was constantly surrounded by people older than me, so subconsciously I am more comfortable with older people.
Don't really see myself going 18-20 in the hobby life or in my personal life. If I can't take you out for a drink, then I don't want to date you.
I base my interest solely on performance reported in reviews.
Her website, if she is younger, can be written by anyone, older,
so it's riskier to solely rely on the "feel" you get there...
If her reviews are good, and reviewers portray her a " mature for
her age", I like that a lot.
However, I gravitate toward older providers because of experience
and their propensity toward understanding my needs with less
direction. I love an intuitive session where pleasure seamlessly flows in both directions.
I've fucked young girls and a woman or two in her 50s. Great sex is great sex and is WAY more desirable than looks or age. IMHO
Legal is fine - just saw 2 different 19 year olds recently. For the upper limit - I stop around 35. If I wanted to sleep with a 40 year old, I'd sleep with my wife.
The best tend to be upper 20's - experience and still super hot.