I don't believe it for a second. Having said that, He is owning up to his mistake by getting tested. If he needs to believe it was an accident in order to be able to sleep at night, that's his own problem. As a provider, I appreciate hobbyists getting tested to prevent future infections with other providers they may frequent. Most of us do bbbj so sticking it bare in someone's pussy and then putting in someone's mouth is still a risk. So instead of bashing the guy for his "accident", let's just be grateful he took action to make sure he didn't catch anything.
To the OP... Please avoid having future "accidents". Us providers would really appreciate that.Accidentally did BBFS with someone i know but was still worried about catching anything so i took the STD comp test.. i was worried for a week while waiting for the results and was so happy it was negative all around.... I guess for me the nervousness of catching something outweighs doing any BBFS unless with GF/Wife.....
Do a little more reading and maybe go back for another test in a month or so
The negative results may only mean that your partner is safe. I hope your Dr. explained this to you. Whether viral or bacterial, the reliability of the tests will vary based on time since exposure
Advise is a verb. Advice is a noun. If you speak English it's best to know the difference.
He only learned English as a first language.
This is a very serious issue. It can be a matter of live and death. Why would anyone waste our time by making an irrelevlant and foolish a joke about it. not funny
Grow up
and made you pope of this dump? Okay, so you saw three providers and got herpes or aids? Or was it from one of those gay trysts in the men's bathroom at the Shell station?
You have a right to be angry if you got a disease from this hobby, but that anger should be directed at yourself for being stupid. You don't have a right to tell other people what to post here. You see it as serious, but I see it as humorous when guys do stupid things when they should know better. If you can't take it, then hit ignore and I will disappear from your screen. Otherwise, STFU.
when your right your right.
Why would anyone about this very serious issue. It was childish at best.
Thanks for showing how us how much you knowe adout Engleishe.
Let's all stop this. We are hear to help each other
PS: You spelled "Engleishe" wrong. Perhaps it's not your native language?
Just trying to help.
You shouldn't say "native" to a guy named Kimosabe. Its not PC.
Both look dumb
the one with a bug up his ass.
How soon after the incident were you tested? Did they give you any info about incubation periods after exposure? You don't always get a positive after a day or two; the negative result could be a true negative or a false negative because there weren't enough bacteria or virus particles yet.
Do a little more reading and maybe go back for another test in a month or so.
Even close to being out if the woods yet. Good luck stalling your wife off for six months. Hope she doesn't take a boyfriend because she's not getting dick. You're between a rock and a hard place.
But you need explain how BBFS happens accidentally? That's a new one on me.
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newer, 4th generation antigen/antibody tests have a window of about 4 weeks. The testing has gotten a lot better in the past few years. No need to wait 6 months for a retest anymore (assuming your lab is using the newer test methods).
How soon after the incident were you tested? Did they give you any info about incubation periods after exposure? You don't always get a positive after a day or two; the negative result could be a true negative or a false negative because there weren't enough bacteria or virus particles yet.
Do a little more reading and maybe go back for another test in a month or so.
You ACCIDENTALLY
Did BBFS ….ACCIDENTALLY? really it was an ACCIDENT?
Are you kidding?
Neither of you realized you did not have a condom on.
I hope she gets tested too
You’re ACCIDENTALLY Welcom
Right?? That's exactly what I was thinking lol
That would be accidental 😕
When it broke I wonder how many minutes he "accidentally" waited before he pulled out. It's kind of like the movie Animal House when the Devil pops up on one shoulder and the Angel pops up on the other shoulder. Angel says - "You should pull out right now" , Devil says - "I will in just a minute, it feels so fuckin good!".
Let's be more supportive. He messed up, he got tested. At least he was intelligent enough to try to do some damage control. I recommend another std panel in three months. As other people highlighted, incubation period.
supportive of people who messed up, as long as they own what they did. He's trying to pass it off as an "accident." Do you believe it was an accident? Or do you think they knew they were going BB at the time? Its hard to for me to be supportive of someone who's trying to give me a snow job.
It only happened to me once, but I glanced down at her pussy while we were fucking and saw the rubber limply hanging out of her. I immediately pulled out an told her, and put on another. I have been tested many times since then, always negative. I have no idea how it happened.
I don't believe it for a second. Having said that, He is owning up to his mistake by getting tested. If he needs to believe it was an accident in order to be able to sleep at night, that's his own problem. As a provider, I appreciate hobbyists getting tested to prevent future infections with other providers they may frequent. Most of us do bbbj so sticking it bare in someone's pussy and then putting in someone's mouth is still a risk. So instead of bashing the guy for his "accident", let's just be grateful he took action to make sure he didn't catch anything.
To the OP... Please avoid having future "accidents". Us providers would really appreciate that.
His "action" in getting tested is taking responsibility only for damage control to himself after the fact. That alone really doesn't help anyone else in the community unless he also refrains from further hobbying until a sufficient incubation period has passed and he gets tested again.
Better to be safe than sorry! I've gotten myself tested quarterly for the past 18 months.
On one occasion we discovered the condom and come off and was up inside the provider.
I think Demcc recommended every 3 mos - I agree and would add to test at any time you think you may have symptoms.
Regular tests are both more useful diagnostically for your Dr. and more useful for your ongoing anxiety, as they remove the unknowns of incubation periods, false positives and false negatives, etc...
When it comes to STD's, you really only need to know three things that are independent of playing or debating the odds of STD transmission (an exercise in mental masturbation, since the odds are the odds and talking about them does nothing practical):
1. The condom's only purpose is to directly prevent contact and transmission of STDs. It is your main line of defense. Nothing else does what it does.
2. The only purpose of testing is to detect disease so that it can be treated early and to prevent additional spread of the disease to others. Testing does nothing to directly prevent contracting a disease. It is purely a secondary, surveillance, measure.
3. If you contract an STD, treatment and abstinence until a cure is proven (again, by testing) is the only way to responsibly (IMO) rejoin the ranks of the sexually active.
There really isn't much more you can do.
As for the "accidental" BB sex - I'll reserve comment.
This is the only other scenario besides the condom breaking that I can think of. Man and woman get falling down drunk, man and woman bareback because of impaired judgement. But could that actually be classified as an "accident?"
it was with friend i know not a provider... and yeah a bit drunk too....
acronym? BB.U.I.
Especially when client and provider decide to take things to a deeper level.
What's surprising is the reluctance that some gentlemen have when asked.