Anything you've contributed.
I am about curious about how a woman hobbyist (straight, bi or gay) would review a provider.
I know that female hobbyists are so rarre they are practically "unicorns"
Are there any who post reviews
...search for her posts and check out her reviews. There are two or three others but I can't remember their handles since they don't post much and they haven't stuck with me.
Seems that review wouldnt provide much info for the male reader.
Anything you've contributed.
What am I going to do with an evaluation of a providers pussy eating skills? lol
Here's a short list of what a male monger might learn from a female monger's review:
1) Does she look like her pictures?
2) Is she a clock-watcher?
3) Is she "really bi?"
4) How does she prefer DATY?
Etc.,etc.
I would personally love her perspective and experience with a provider but since I'm not presently a VIP member, I can't search her out. Any bro's care to give a bro a link?
is an integral part of getting the most out of this hobby. Its cheap in the relative scheme of the hobby big picture. If you can't afford or justify a VIP membership then maybe this is not the right hobby for you. You don't need a VIP membership for masturbation, so there is where you can save some more money.
I was a VIP member for years when I started the hobby. As time went on and I learned more, I let it lapse, but thanks for the condescending lesson on masturbation. It is obvious you are very knowledgeable on that subject.
There are many experienced hobbiests here who are no longer VIP.
it looks like the "many years" of VIP membership might be about two years. If you already know the value, why are you asking other members to link you in to freebies for which they are paying by way of their own cash or reviews. It makes you look cheap by your own words, so that is why I suggested masturbation as an alternative. Actually, I'm not an expert. I don't need to do it at all. If I wake up with wood, I go see a provider. Its a foolproof system.
I know there are other experienced hobbyists that are no longer VIP, but many are retired and don't hobby anymore, and none that I am aware of are begging for handouts, except you.
LMAO! You are really thin-skinned, aren't you? You NEVER masturbate?! You took the time to look up my membership history?!
Your French handle suites you well....overly sensitive, cowardly defensive, arrogantly didactic and obviously insecure about his sexual prowess.
I might actually get back VIP status in order to read lopaw's reviews. I'd rather hear what she has to say than anything from you. LMAO!
I know there are other experienced hobbyists that are no longer VIP, but many are retired and don't hobby anymore, and none that I am aware of are begging for handouts, except you.
which one of us is thin-skinned. Your contrived overreaction says it all. The fact that you had to put LMAO at both the beginning and end shows your insecurity.
That's right, you don't have to believe it, but I don't masturbate anymore. I'm 55 and I hobby an average of 5-6 hours a week, sometimes more (Did 8 hours one week last month), so no need to do it myself. I don't have to "look up" anything. Your review history link appears in your post. It was one click.
You like to use one adjective with each noun, don't you. Shows some intelligence, but not a lot, but then you used "suites" in place of "suits" and degraded yourself even further.
You really should be VIP so you can read the full reviews. It's just too bad I had to shame you into it. I expected the personal attack. It's what the weak-minded do when they have no substantive defensive argument left.
That's right, you don't have to believe it, but I don't masturbate anymore. I'm 55 and I hobby an average of 5-6 hours a week, sometimes more (Did 8 hours one week last month), so no need to do it myself. I don't have to "look up" anything. Your review history link appears in your post. It was one click.
You like to use one adjective with each noun, don't you. Shows some intelligence, but not a lot, but then you used "suites" in place of "suits" and degraded yourself even further.
You really should be VIP so you can read the full reviews. It's just too bad I had to shame you into it. I expected the personal attack. It's what the weak-minded do when they have no substantive defensive argument left.
A female review would be of little to no use to the average guy who just wants to dip his nacho. It would be just as useful however for a more sophisticated man who is in touch with the various dimensions of his body and mind, or other women of course.
My own theory is that lopaw is a very cool dude with long hair 😍
performed DATY on a woman. Lopaw's intel is top-notch for those of us that like that particular activity.
Since FatVern doesn't have any reviews, we don't know if he has ever performed DATY on a woman either, and that would explain his narrow view of the crossover between MF and FF sex.
My point is a escort may perform very differently for a remale partner versus a male partner.
I donn't know why Im stating the obvious, lowpaws reviews could provide usefull information to some.
Since FatVern doesn't have any reviews, we don't know if he has ever performed DATY on a woman either, and that would explain his narrow view of the crossover between MF and FF sex.
about the warmth, intelligence, sense of humor, passion, and responsiveness of the provider. One of my ATF friends with benefits was very bi. She loved to give control of her climax to a woman as much as to me. She would come with a female friend and stay over for a long week end. Hearing and seeing them interact showed me what I already knew about her sexuality and openness.
On top of all that imagine what female reviewers had to teach us about techniques.
I would love to interact with any female reviewers.
I always read her posts - she provides a unique perspective, and is as knowledgeable as anyone else here.
As any of the rest of us . . . maybe more, but not absolutely sure, because I have not looked through the closet peephole yet.
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Thank you for all of your thoughts. My humility requires me to admit that despite years of trying admit I barely understand anything about women (LOL)
I suspected that for me to understand the encounter through the eyes of a woman would be one way to glimpse the thought process of a woman and how she looks at sex, and intimacy.
COMMENT: I'm not as clueless as I might appear, but I also have an appreciation for what I do NOT know.
I'm just surprised there are not more women hobbyists posting reviews.
Did we miss anyone?
Any other women hobbyists
... figuratively and literally 
@asiannyc- during my years of mongering I have run into several other lady hobbyists who are just as rabid and dedicated to this hobby as I am, but they are much more shy and discreet than I am. While I'm very comfy throwing myself out there and not shying away from visibility, most other female hobbyists are not. To my knowledge none of them have posted a review here or anywhere else. If you think that the stigma for male participation is high, imagine what it is for women! Personally I enjoy sharing my experiences in this hobby, but many don't.
I'd like to hear what hobbyistfemme (the only other gal monger that I know of who also posts reviews here on TER) thinks about all of this.
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TER has actually tweeted snipits of our reviews a few times!!!
(raising my hand) here i am 😊 i enjoy writing reviews periodically & think they're probably just as useful to mongers as anyone else's. after all most men could use some daty instruction 😜
where lady hobbyists review male providers. I don't think I can post the link here, but PM me if you want the link. Fabulous reading!!
I know that female hobbyists are so rarre they are practically "unicorns"
Are there any who post reviews?
I love learning something new every day! Thanks for starting this thread.