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I totally agree with Dr. joe !
xxldog24 126 Reviews 310 reads
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Youth is wasted on the young.
I absolutely LOVE Smart, Beautiful, Wonderful and Caring women of all ages. However, as an old guy I have learned that most of the ones I enjoy being with are in there late 20's to mid to late 30's even into their 50's.
No age discrimination, just plain facts.
Sure I've seen some mature providers who are smart in there early 20's , but they are exceptions.

I always thought that you guys wanted a "fresh" 19 , 20 , 21 young girls ...

68firebird799 reads

I can only speak for myself, but I'm betting that a lot of other guys on here feel the same way.  Men want an experience, not just a place to stick our member into, no matter if the lady is attractive and young.  

For me, the experience I'm looking for is often defined as "GFE".   This term is not exact, and subject to several definitions, but it means something approaching a real-life interaction with kissing, bbbj, msog, and an enthusiastic partner who makes me feel that she is enjoying what we are doing and is genuinely trying to make sure I enjoy myself, as well.  I've had amazing times with mature woman, who are not super-models (hey, neither am I), but whose skills and attitude made the experience memorable.  While every lady is free to define her own comfort zone,  I personally would not see anyone with the limits that I've read in your reviews.    I'm not trying to be mean, just giving you one answer to your question.

Good luck, do your research and read reviews of very successful ladies and decide see if you want to emulate their approach.

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I agree with what was said. Young can be good, and so
Can looks. That might get a look at a web page to find out more.  Being in my mid-40's, I'm looking for an experience, too, and I prefer something that seems as realistic as it can. I like one who
Can relate to me, who I can have a conversation with, laugh with, and then we move to festivities where things aren't forced or just seem natural.

Both parties get their enjoyment out of it! It's not all looks and age. So yes, I am looking for that GFE experience, too. And then go back to my life. And maybe, just maybe, find a favorite along the way.

For me, the pleasure comes from the quality of the interaction with the provider. A  beautiful face and body is always wonderful, but much less important than the intelligence and personality of the lady. I enjoy the company of women rather than "young girls."
I know I am an old guy, but I have felt this was as long as I can remember. .

Posted By: Layonaisthe1
I always thought that you guys wanted a "fresh" 19 , 20 , 21 young girls ...
You think that way because of your age. No offense intended - I probably thought that way too when I was 20. You should be glad to know that men will want you for decades to come. ;)

Youth and experience each have their own advantages, for women and for men.

It is not that you are lacking a thing.   You are perfect.   It takes time and experience to season the body and the soul to a sensual level of what an older woman (and man) can offer.  Since I matured, I am more open, more free, more genuinely me...I can truly let go and be present.  Obviously if I could have been mentally where I am now with my 20 something body, now I would have been quite the vixen.  Just rarely works that way so thank you hobby explorers for appreciating the caliente of maturity.   And as for you, young thang, enjoy the journey to womanhood, sensuality...the men here can teach you many things.  Consider a threesome partner with an older lady to have a peek!

Youth is wasted on the young.
I absolutely LOVE Smart, Beautiful, Wonderful and Caring women of all ages. However, as an old guy I have learned that most of the ones I enjoy being with are in there late 20's to mid to late 30's even into their 50's.
No age discrimination, just plain facts.
Sure I've seen some mature providers who are smart in there early 20's , but they are exceptions.

But I have had my share of twenty-somethings, and occasionally I run into one who has a real good head on their shoulders.

That's real paradise, I have to say

GaGambler371 reads

I am going to disagree with the crowd here and state my preference for the younger gals.

But in answer to the OP herself, I would have to take a pass on her, despite her youth and beauty due to her rather limited menu. I love young hotties, but not enough to book with a woman where I know going in that there will be no DFK or BBBJ. Yes, I like youth, but not without passion, even fake passion beats none at all. and passion without kissing is an impossibility to me. Sorry.

FatVern330 reads

Especially civvis at that age, it's not like they give me the time of day I just find myself lusting after them. Now if I only could get the hookers in that age range to answer their phones. Young women generally make for lousy escorts.

Posted By: Layonaisthe1
I always thought that you guys wanted a "fresh" 19 , 20 , 21 young girls ...

In my experience, the younger women stick to a formula that should work for everyone. The more experienced and older women adapt better to an individual. I am not saying that younger ones are bad but I like a older woman who is confident in the fact that she knows she can do the right things just by being with an individual.

JakeFromStateFarm417 reads

People are people and you can't make broad generalizations about them based on age.  I can recall a couple of girls who claimed (and seemed to be) 19.  They were wonderful, sensual and skilled.  I've also been with women well into their 40s and it was the same thing.  So I don't see anyone simply based on a number.

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No matter what her skills are. 19 is still 19. Just barely an adult and not even of legal age to drink. How can you remotely compare the two on life experiences even let alone everything else. Mindboggling even for you to say it.  

A number is a number. Keep telling yourself it isn't.

JakeFromStateFarm325 reads

What a shock.  I can only speak from my own experience.  In the past few years, I have been with women who said (and appeared to be) 18 and 19 years old.  And they were amazing.  Sorry if you are so arrogant you don't get that.
Now go take your Namenda.  Put on some Depends.
And go to bed.

Nor come up with anything original to say. And stop using my lines already.

Posted By: JakeFromStateFarm
And go to bed.
The only arrogance here that reeks is the farm you live on Jake

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JakeFromStateFarm332 reads

I'm done trying to explain the obvious to you.  You really aren't the brightest little piggy on the farm. But you may be the most arrogant.
Great marketing!

Seeing a 19-y-o because I want to have a drink.  I am renting a magical place that is warm, wet, and tight to park my duck for an hour.  If I want a drink, I will ask out a 40-y-o to buy me one.

Brilliantly stated. One of the best single-line posts I've read in a while. ;-)

Posted By: Erin Keevy
A confident, mature woman can walk in and own the room.



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The first is that it's hard to tell the difference between a 16 year old and a 19 year old...and there would be obvious legal problems for me if I inadvertently banged a 16 year old.  The second is that 21 is the legal drinking age, and I like to hang out with women who I can enjoy some wine with.  That gives me an age range of 21-50 to pick from, and of course, there are millions of women in this age range.  And as for the frustrated 19 year old who wants a piece of me?  She only has to wait two more years.

that cannot comprehend the reasons that some gals do really like mature and older gentlemen  

it is not all about hard dick and multiple pops

I have seen providers in their 30s and providers in their early 20s, the youngest was 20. Comparing the two, I can agree the experience factor counts.

However, I've found the younger girls have a beauty, grace, delight, and (seeming) innocence that I haven't found in the more (dare I say) jaded providers.  

At the end of the day what I'm looking for most is physical beauty. While the older providers I've seen definitely have that, I do believe it flows most abundantly from the fountain of youth

About my age then lmbo !! Hahaha just kidding lol

I'm too old for 19 year-olds now, but I have great memories from college.  :)  Plus that, The Dan left a great song...

And les jeune filles have problems peculiar to the age we live in. One provider seemed addicted to her cell. The first half hour of our session I spent waiting for her to stop texting. Another was just TOO much into toys. So I've just stopped seeing women under the 25-30 age bracket, and the best sessions I've had have been with women between the ages of 30 and 50. Maybe it's just a matter of how people of different ages can connect. Or even just relate to each other.

The truth is that while youth and fresh beauty is sought after and idolised and many men want that connection to youth and physical perfection, which I completely understand, there are also many men who value the skills, experience, sheer womanliness, that comes with a provider who's taken care of her body and mind, who cherishes male energy and appreciates their contribution, who has become a master if you like, of sexual arts, communication, touch, empathy, wise counsel, intelligence, worldliness, affection etc.  
In short what a mature lady lacks in unlined and unblemished physical attributes can be more than compensated for with all the other things she has to offer to the right thinking man :)  

Damn I should be writing this shit down for my adverts!!

souls_harbor271 reads

Actually I am lucky that as I've grown older, my tastes have expanded to include women of my age.  So obviously my options have expanded as I've aged.  Which is good for me.

Of course I still like young women.  That hasn't changed.  But my willingness to turn lust for them into action has changed.  Part of it is simply not wanting to be a corrupting influence.  An older gal has made her choices, and I trust she's had time to evaluate the consequences.  I believe she wants to do what she is doing, or at least finds it less objectionable than a day a the office.

But what is a young gal thinking about what she is doing, where she wants to be?  It's just hard for me to enjoy myself with her when there is a great possibility she might end up resenting the relationship.  I guess I am cursed with a bit of empathy I can't quite shake.  

On the other hand, if she's offering a discount ... :-)

I am a bit ashamed that after more than 20 years of on & off hobby activity's I am still attracted to to the tight skin & thin body of a 19 or 20 yr. old, while it's true that most 30 to 40 yr. old providers are much better knowing what a client wants some of these younger providers can be pretty wild.

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