So the Provider vs Civie sex thread got me thinking about this since my ED is what got me looking into Providers in the 1st place. Once I got ED Civie sex was disappointing at best to humiliating at worst. Too make it worse I am one of the unfortunates that Viagra and the like do not help. So while I can get semi erect and sometimes pop from oral or manual I can't get enough for actual penetration.
I got fortunate as my Provider was real cool about it and actually made me feel comfortable. Her "well let's see what we can do about that" attitude was so different to the reactions I had gotten that it was almost stress free. It didn't hurt when she seemed appreciative of my love for DATY.
Was king of curious about how it is from the Provider side - if it makes it (well don't want to say harder) more difficult or easier to deal with client.
it works good for some people to help the blood floor where it needs to be....
on personal note, i think that for a lot of females touch and human connection means more than actual penetration...just keep that in mind when taking civie to bed...
I know a urologist who recommends a vacuum pump and cock rings.
I am in the same boat.. Started hobby to see if I just lost my attraction to my SO.. But proved otherwise. Still challenged to get it up. V and C cause me extreme heartburn sometimes throwing up. Currently checking out "natural" enhancers. My greatest success was orally, again usually semi flaccid or maybe getting a decent erection JUST before orgasm. The problem is I sometimes wake with extreme morning wood... not piss hard-on. I have a provider tell me I just have to get out of my head, and relax and enjoy the session... But then I feel guilty for being a non-participant. Yea, I know.. if I answered my original question, why am I still hobbying.. Well, its just fun and nurturing to be laying agains a beautiful woman, especially one with my cock in her mouth
There are a few guys I have known who can touch my skin and I can feel their hand all the way through to the other side of my body.
No ED and a topical touch is nice, but I'd choose ED with the touch that melts my body any day.