For me, appearance is the quality that will make the initial attraction, but repeated visits are the result of intangibles such as personality, sense of humor, disposition, hygiene, skills and enthusiasm. On the first visit to the provider who became my ATF I was surprised to find that she was a large lady. Her website skillfully concealed of her true size, but conversation was great and we laughed a lot. She was open to almost anything and whatever it was, she did it well, too. I never felt rushed and she always made me feel like I was the only man in her life. Today, about 8 months after her retirement I still can smell her freshly shampooed hair.
Which made me wonder...how many of you men will see a provider solely based on her looks even if she is a terrible lover? One of my clients is obsessed with a provider that treats him like complete shit but she is so hot. I used to criticize him for being used by her but after watching this porno and noting my reaction, (I continued to watch even after it was apparent she was the worst* lover ever,) I started to sympathize with my client a little. How far do looks take a provider in this industry?
That starred the MOST physically attractive woman. Beautiful, natural breasts and a gorgeous face. Such a turn-on! As the porno progressed, my boner went away because she was the most robotic, boring, lazy sex porn star I've ever seen. If it weren't for her physical sex appeal, I would have closed out and found a different movie.
Which made me wonder...how many of you men will see a provider solely based on her looks even if she is a terrible lover? One of my clients is obsessed with a provider that treats him like complete shit but she is so hot. I used to criticize him for being used by her but after watching this porno and noting my reaction, (I continued to watch even after it was apparent she was the worst* lover ever,) I started to sympathize with my client a little. How far do looks take a provider in this industry?
This is one of the reasons reviews are important. I am looking for both. If I had a session with a smoking hot lady and the sex was not good, I would not return. So, to answer your question, IMHO, looks are the initial attraction, but without any desire or excellent acting ability, then I suspect any success the woman has would be short lived.
Now, you have to understand that looks are highly subjective, and what I find attractive, others may not and vice versa.
Solo mis dos centavos.
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If she is young & really hot and the price is right, just lay there...I'll let you know when I'm done. Hell, I'll even wake you up!
Funny thing. That isn't a website that I made. I think a client made that for me in hopes to help, and TER refuses to pull it from my provider account. I also tried countless times over the duration of a year to contact the website admin to have it removed. No luck.
when you're over 50, service trumps looks every time.
don't have to do as much lol
Which made me wonder...how many of you men will see a provider solely based on her looks even if she is a terrible lover? One of my clients is obsessed with a provider that treats him like complete shit but she is so hot. I used to criticize him for being used by her but after watching this porno and noting my reaction, (I continued to watch even after it was apparent she was the worst* lover ever,) I started to sympathize with my client a little. How far do looks take a provider in this industry?
... not long ago I TOFTTed a provider who advertises herself as having a "10" body. And I think that's justifiable. She is physically about as perfect as I've seen, especially for someone pushing 40 (which isn't close to the age she advertises, but I digress). But experience-wise, it was a 6 if I wanted to be charitable. It was clear to me she believes her looks alone are worth the price of admission, that I should be honored just to gaze upon her perfect body.
Needless to say, I won't be returning. I know several 8s and 9s who are beautiful people inside and out and have their egos under control. And they're also a lot of fun. 
Of course look goes very far in this industry. Nobody even bothers to read further in the ad if look is not up to par. So basically to even get started one has to have look.
"Good lover" is overrated IMO. I'd be perfectly happy with the described robotic, boring, lazy but absolutely gorgeous porn star.
That is as long as she lets me do pretty much everything to her the way a porn star does: filling up her 3 holes with my bare dick! Of course this is just a fantasy...
Of course looks are the first attractor ... but that can mean a lot of different things too, of course. In my day the debate was Ginger vs Mary Ann. I think most guys picked Mary Ann. (Youngsters probably don't know who I am referring to.)
So saying "looks" are first really doesn't predict much about what they will really look like. So in the end it is behavior that seals the deal. I agree that some guys like being abused. I think there are more guys that want to be submissive but there is a shortage of dommes. I think there is probably money to be made due to the shortage. But I digress.
I've had half-dozen encounters so far and all have been excellent (because I picked highly rated escorts.) But if I were a repeating kind of guy and got treated poorly or disinterestedly, no, wouldn't go back. Too many beauties I won't get around to as is.
The key is the connection, and you can usually tell if this is there after the first time. In my experience, it only builds after that, and it's possible for these relationships to last for years.
As for porn, most of what is out there commercially seems contrived compared to reality. Especially if you ever to get to meet any porn stars that provide...they all acted totally different than they do in the films. All I've known (4) were as GFE as non-PS ladies, though I suppose I could have inquired or asked that they be PSE. I guess they want a laid back, and comfortable experience that they can enjoy as well...
The activity (more perverted, the better), and production values such as direction, editing, lighting, camera work, etc. are way more important
For me, appearance is the quality that will make the initial attraction, but repeated visits are the result of intangibles such as personality, sense of humor, disposition, hygiene, skills and enthusiasm. On the first visit to the provider who became my ATF I was surprised to find that she was a large lady. Her website skillfully concealed of her true size, but conversation was great and we laughed a lot. She was open to almost anything and whatever it was, she did it well, too. I never felt rushed and she always made me feel like I was the only man in her life. Today, about 8 months after her retirement I still can smell her freshly shampooed hair.
Which made me wonder...how many of you men will see a provider solely based on her looks even if she is a terrible lover? One of my clients is obsessed with a provider that treats him like complete shit but she is so hot. I used to criticize him for being used by her but after watching this porno and noting my reaction, (I continued to watch even after it was apparent she was the worst* lover ever,) I started to sympathize with my client a little. How far do looks take a provider in this industry?
Unfortunately, there is only so much you can do with surgery and aging...
Which made me wonder...how many of you men will see a provider solely based on her looks even if she is a terrible lover? One of my clients is obsessed with a provider that treats him like complete shit but she is so hot. I used to criticize him for being used by her but after watching this porno and noting my reaction, (I continued to watch even after it was apparent she was the worst* lover ever,) I started to sympathize with my client a little. How far do looks take a provider in this industry?
Yes, I have to find her attractive. No, she doesn't need to be a perfect 10. And cold fish had best warm up, or they will wind up being thrown back in the sea.
I was sorely disappointed. Looks may get me in the door but it will not get me back though the door.
Both are important to me for a session, if I am not turned on by her looks she needs to have great skills for our time together to turn me on, but if she is just looks super hot & has a limited menu or just does not participate equally in the session I may leave with blue balls.