Some of us are. Also sometimes getting ones profile pulled can be tricky. I has a friend that couldn't get hers pulled because cityvibe wouldn't pull her ad for some reason or another. Also she might not care if her profile is up or not. There is lots of reasons for this kind of thing.

Unless she has indicated otherwise to you, it's not your problem.

People who are already "out" don't have to worry about getting "caught" because they are already out in the open.

If this bugs you so much, why don't you take the advice already given here and just ask her? Be prepared for a "mind your own business" a LOT harsher than anything you have gotten here so far though.

The more advanced a person is about sexuality,  
the less they care about what Society, Religion, and Politics thinks about promoting
 the number one,
 all Natural,  
Health-giving  
PLEASURABLE activity .

I would be proud to marry a provider. They are without any doubt my most favorite people.

And I would enjoy it if she were to keep providing, I'd love to hear about her sessions afterwards, in fact if it were plausible I'd hide in the closet and watch her sessions. But then, I'm a little fucked up in the head, and I am most definitely a voyuer.

I think you'd have to look at it this way, she was a provider when you met, and this is the woman who you admire so much that you'd want to marry. So asking her to be someone who she is not, seems quite stupid. If she wants to quit, that's her decision, but this whole notion of asking someone whom you care about to change, is in my mind ridiculous.

To be clear, there is a better chance of me getting hit by lightening than there is of me getting married again, my point was merely to illustrate that what someone does for a living, who they've fucked and how many people they've fucked, if anything, attracts me more. I adore sluts, and I find prudes to be repulsive, especially self righteous, condescending prudes.

At least one of my providers was married -- she talked about her husband's hobbies.

I've also had an affair with a married woman where her husband definitely was not aware.  (That was kind of hot!)

So lots of different stories out there.

Providers have a whole other life outside of this and some are more public with it then others. I myself am not married but there is absolutely nothing wrong with being an escort and a wife. Good for her for having it all is my opinion!

I will answer each question as best I can, from my own perspective.   But I have quite a few questions of my own for you.  

 
If you don't wish to revisit this topic publicly, please PM me as I think this could be a very interesting conversation.  

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