Providers and Hobbyist: Just curious as to if you enjoy using message oil during normal love making and foreplay?
Not talking about FBSM but just normal love making.
I personally love oiling up my lover during love making. Both visually and physically!
clean up shower is on the clock. That stuff just won't come off easily.
We all know it isn;t really "love", but we like the performance and atmosphere to resemble it, hence the term GFE. Why else would we revere the gfe experience so much.
I think the term "love making" went out of style a number of years ago when it was almost unanimously decided that sex and love had nothing to do with each other. Similar to the term "balling", which had noting to do with either sex or love.
Yes, I guess I am showing my age.
but I retire completely January this year at 56 so I don't really give a damn.
UNLESS my lover's oral skills is legendary and memorable. I'm talking about a tongue that suckles the clit and and a pair of lips that suck on my lips . . . where every flick of his tongue makes my whole body quiver with delight for at least 30 minutes . . .
Anyway, before I digress!
I really, really, REALLY enjoy a good massage with coconut oil/lotion beforehand. There is something to be said with a man who knows how to put a woman's body at ease. If you rub my feet, I might just fall in love with you, lol.
Nonetheless, us women enjoy being pampered
When I've had the opportunity to give my massage it DOES include the feet and depending on who I'm with, can lead to DATY as part of the massage. I usually have used grape seed oil or coconut oil but rarely any of the lotions.
I wouldn't use oils specifically for massage for anything else though.
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Oil does nothing good for my skin and it ends up in my hair. That's so unsexy!
I wouldn't use oils specifically for massage for anything else though.
D.
So you would like us to pay you for the privilege of giving you a REALLY good massage?
REALLY???
Anyway, before I digress!
I really, really, REALLY enjoy a good massage with coconut oil/lotion beforehand. There is something to be said with a man who knows how to put a woman's body at ease. If you rub my feet, I might just fall in love with you, lol.
Nonetheless, us women enjoy being pampered.
It's no different than sitting back and getting your cooter ate. Essentially, getting paid to just moan. Haha.
One of my favorite ladies uses this, and swears by it. I have no problem with it, even if smells like...coconuts. Slippery, but no so much as to reduce necessary friction.
I've also heard that that coconut oil is the best and most healthful oil nutritionally and for cooking save for olive oil. That comes from my favorite alternative health newsletter, though I haven't had reason to switch from Extra Virgin, at least in cooking and food preparation.
Other oils, I avoid, except for petrol that powers my car. But that's just personal preference...YMMV.
As for whether I prefer using oils during sex? If she wants to, who am I to argue? I'm good either way...
...extra virgin olive oils are about as virginal as providers.
Olive oil is NOT healthy when cooked at high heats. It is very healthy for use in raw dishes, such as salads, or a dipping oil for bread, etc. At high heats though, it turns carcinogenic. Coconut oil is a great option for high heat cooking!
Olive oil is quite safe to cook with, I use it for everything but "deep frying" personally.
...for her body. Droopy too. This is TER - gotta keep it on topic!
Oh sorry, "athletic."
She's probably my in the 31-35 age group too. 
Of course I just got back from a SB date with a young (19) lady who was a lot more than "athletic" she was only "athletic" if bon bon eating has become a competitive sport. What was even more ironic is the fact she was a vegan, but I suppose cattle are vegans as well. lol
... you keep the heat on low or moderate. So let's not condemn the stuff completely for frying.
If you worry about having your smooth-top run the heat up too high, consider cooking with corn oil, canola oil, or safflower oil instead.
Bon appétit!
-CG
I have personal favorites when cooking, but any suggestions that might be better are appreciated. Thanks, bro! It's always good to experiment.
I hate when the guy bring oil.
I have to agree that the feeling of oil is good
but usually the guy uses a lot of oil. after the session my hair is pure oil, oil is everywhere that you can imagine.It is a mess
I have to stop my life to wash and dry your hair
It also has a long shelf life, and remains pliable after applying for a long time.
Coconut is my second favorite. It has a delightful scent. Neutrogena sesame oil is also wonderful
Always be sure that if you are using the oil everywhere, that it is condom compatible. Coconut oil, and many others are not safe for use with condoms.
My favorite, is Jojoba. It is the closest you can find to our own natural skin oil, which isn't really an oil, but sebum. Jojoba is safe for use with condoms, doesn't stain sheets, and really doesn't leave you feeling like a giant grease ball.
I love incorporating massage into my time with a man, both giving and receiving. I always travel with a bottle of Jojoba in case a guy wants to trade massage, but has brought a product that I don't enjoy.
To me coconut oil is just too greasy for massage, and it stains sheets really bad. I love cooking with it though!!
This is really dumb..
Oil is greasy like water is wet.
My 2 cents
I am amazed at the topics you guys conjure up. What MAN gives a fuck about the benefits of almond oil over coconut oil? Really? This is big pussy.
Coconut oil is bad for condoms? Well who the fuck is using it on condoms? Why use oil on a condom anyway?? KY jelly is water based.
Unlike petroleum-based lubricants, K-Y is generally biologically inert, and contains no color or perfume additives. The lubricant is extremely popular because it does not stain and is easily cleaned up.
Anyway, I feel you guys are ovulating and need your space.
Tenn Gambler is NO relation to GaGambler and personally I too believe oil is for cooking.
As for using oil on condoms, it can't be said too often,(ok I suppose anything can be said too often) that most oils break down condoms and only water based lubes like K-Y should be used with condoms. It's like telling a grown man to wash his ass before seeing a woman, it should be common knowledge, but common knowledge unfortunately is not the same as universal knowledge.
Yes, Definitely not related, but enjoy your post and experience (knowledge) of the business As I am only about into this adventure.
But let me add to your statement that Female Condoms are not made with latex so oils will have no effect on them
Not talking about FBSM but just normal love making.
I personally love oiling up my lover during love making. Both visually and physically!
we really do need to lighten up her
I love rubbing in all over the body. It feels slick and silky. A bit messy, but it's fun to roll and slide around in.
If you lay a tarp down, the clean up is quick and easy. Shower is a must afterwards, that could lead to more fun!