I hope everyone is enjoying their Memorial Day Weekend!
I came across this short but valuable article that was posted just yesterday about what makes a provider's favorite clients special. Please gentlemen, keep these things in mind when reaching out for a date and for when we meet in person. Who wouldn't want to be someone's favorite?
"...My favorites read my website properly, learning my hours, fees, services and how I prefer to be contacted. They don't whinge (complain) if I ask for a deposit, and they don't request services I don't provide. They respect my time. They don't call with cocks in hand for free sexy chat, or show up early while I'm still lacing myself into my corset..."
When I ask a provider what makes a great client, they say the ones that pop in five minutes and can't go another round, but they still booked an hour or more.
I've tried to be a good client, but just can't fit into this group no matter how hard I try.
I think hookers should be asking how to become favorites, not browbeating weak minded men into begging hookers to accept their money.
The good news is, you live thousands of miles away from me, so you were never on my radar to begin with. If you had been local, a post like this most definitely would have taken you off my "to do" list if you had ever been there in the first place
OK, there needs to be mutual respect and many guys, like lady GAga, are dicks. I know that, but you are blinded by your sense of self-importance.
When you walk into any retail outlet, are you thinking how do I get them to like me more? Don't think so. You want your hairstylist to like you, but is that your main purpose for going or do you just like her service?
I do not have a problem with a deposit if I ask my atf for an extended date. She may incur expenses and I know I can help her out. It isn't a big deal.
If she incurs travel or hotel fees (say she's flying to him, or reserving an expensive room)... he will send the deposit w/o even asking...
That way, she is free from worry that he'll flake and leave her stranded in an airport somewhere. Or, that she'll front $1500 for a long stay at a hotel, and wind up out of luck and money.
Or (and this does not apply to me) if she is touring, he'll want to reserve his time and not have her worry (again) that she'll lose out on income if he cancels last-minute. One could say that this is just the nature of the beast of touring... cancellations happen... however, if she has enough demand to enact a mandatory deposit, isn't it smarter for her to do so?
Respect goes both ways, though. If he's that considerate, she'd hopefully go the extra mile (or twenty) to make him happy
...was quoting the author of the article. See the quotation marks? Another clue - the article is from the UK; the quote contains the word "whinge" - a British word. You owe Jenna an apology.
but if it weren't for your friends LTM's constant abuse of quotation marks, I might have given then quotes a bit more weight. Besides LTM, other people constantly abuse quotation marks often using them when only paraphrasing or even deliberately misquoting someone for effect.
That said, it does appear that perhaps I was a bit hasty I my judgment of the OP's intentions and I will use an old fallback for my defense, PUI. lol
My apologies to Jenna. It is the author of the article with whom I took umbrage, not you
You claim to PUI all the time. So I think there's only one explanation for this egregious error: PWS. Posting while sober. You may never live this down. *sob*
But today was one of those rare days (rare lately at least) that I saw two different ladies in the same day. and as CDL has used as an excuse, I guess I didn't have enough blood flow for both heads.
I am actually glad I got this one wrong, Jenna happens to be kind of cute and I hope she doesn't hold this against me for too long.
but if it weren't for your friends LTM's constant abuse of quotation marks, I might have given then quotes a bit more weight. Besides LTM, other people constantly abuse quotation marks often using them when only paraphrasing or even deliberately misquoting someone for effect.
That said, it does appear that perhaps I was a bit hasty I my judgment of the OP's intentions and I will use an old fallback for my defense, PUI. lol
My apologies to Jenna. It is the author of the article with whom I took umbrage, not you.
I don't give a hoot if I am everyone's favorite client or no one's. I kick ass and the people who have met me seemed to really like me. I would venture to say I am at least three people's favorite probably more. I get a ton of please meet me you seem adorable emails so I must be doing something right. I read the article and didn't agree with it a provider who likes old guys over 95 isn't doing this because she enjoys the sex. That's not the provider the masses would be going after. Why do I think so highly of myself you ask because I am an easy date and it doesn't take much to make me happy. I tip I am respectful and I am entertaining. I'm also good looking and a stud in bed. If your in this world looking to get laid and have a hell of a time. I could be your favorite client as well.
Posted By: JennaEvans
I hope everyone is enjoying their Memorial Day Weekend!
I came across this short but valuable article that was posted just yesterday about what makes a provider's favorite clients special. Please gentlemen, keep these things in mind when reaching out for a date and for when we meet in person. Who wouldn't want to be someone's favorite?
"...My favorites read my website properly, learning my hours, fees, services and how I prefer to be contacted. They don't whinge (complain) if I ask for a deposit, and they don't request services I don't provide. They respect my time. They don't call with cocks in hand for free sexy chat, or show up early while I'm still lacing myself into my corset..."
You forgot the part about popping in five minutes. I'm telling you, that is what they prize the most. I wish I could do it so they would like me more, but hard as I try, it takes me about 40 minutes. You're so lucky!!!
I don't give a hoot if I am everyone's favorite client or no one's. I kick ass and the people who have met me seemed to really like me. I would venture to say I am at least three people's favorite probably more. I get a ton of please meet me you seem adorable emails so I must be doing something right. I read the article and didn't agree with it a provider who likes old guys over 95 isn't doing this because she enjoys the sex. That's not the provider the masses would be going after. Why do I think so highly of myself you ask because I am an easy date and it doesn't take much to make me happy. I tip I am respectful and I am entertaining. I'm also good looking and a stud in bed. If your in this world looking to get laid and have a hell of a time. I could be your favorite client as well.
Posted By: JennaEvans
I hope everyone is enjoying their Memorial Day Weekend!
I came across this short but valuable article that was posted just yesterday about what makes a provider's favorite clients special. Please gentlemen, keep these things in mind when reaching out for a date and for when we meet in person. Who wouldn't want to be someone's favorite?
"...My favorites read my website properly, learning my hours, fees, services and how I prefer to be contacted. They don't whinge (complain) if I ask for a deposit, and they don't request services I don't provide. They respect my time. They don't call with cocks in hand for free sexy chat, or show up early while I'm still lacing myself into my corset..."
That's a hilarious, or maybe pathetic , post. He says he doesn't give a hoot if he's anyone's favorite client, then he goes on to brag about how he's every persons favorite. There is a difference between the guys that have a need to think they are favorites and the guys that truly are favorites. The guys that truly are favorites, these guys know who they are and so do their providers, don't feel any need to brag about it. In fact they don't want to discuss it or write about it at all. That's part of why they are favorites.
Are the guys who see me regularly - it's not all about the initial contact, though that may have helped in the beginning. I like guys who are clear about what they're looking for, appreciate my mind and body, are polite in interactions and communicate openly - in short the clients who treat me like a person and are business like but friendly and have fun with me!
ones that came to mind were the horny old priest and the young novice, and Torquemada and the naked Jew (BDSM?). Did you tell me about these, or did I just imagine you playing these parts? Lol
haven't done the priest yet, but i have literally just bought a sexy nun's costume for when one of my fav nyc ladies tours la again, which she promises will be soon. (she has previously been my secretary, with literally crawling under the desk where i was 'working' lol).
It was a good read and I second your favorite. I wish every man was that cool and easy to deal with.
Posted By: JennaEvans
I hope everyone is enjoying their Memorial Day Weekend!
I came across this short but valuable article that was posted just yesterday about what makes a provider's favorite clients special. Please gentlemen, keep these things in mind when reaching out for a date and for when we meet in person. Who wouldn't want to be someone's favorite?
"...My favorites read my website properly, learning my hours, fees, services and how I prefer to be contacted. They don't whinge (complain) if I ask for a deposit, and they don't request services I don't provide. They respect my time. They don't call with cocks in hand for free sexy chat, or show up early while I'm still lacing myself into my corset..."
I hope everyone is enjoying their Memorial Day Weekend!
I came across this short but valuable article that was posted just yesterday about what makes a provider's favorite clients special. Please gentlemen, keep these things in mind when reaching out for a date and for when we meet in person. Who wouldn't want to be someone's favorite?
"...My favorites read my website properly, learning my hours, fees, services and how I prefer to be contacted. They don't whinge (complain) if I ask for a deposit, and they don't request services I don't provide. They respect my time. They don't call with cocks in hand for free sexy chat, or show up early while I'm still lacing myself into my corset..."
is very similar to what makes a favorite customer for most of the providers. I am not in a position to talk because my latest situation gives limited time and opportunity so I am not nearly as active as I used to be.. I used to have a number of favorites. When I will living in NYC, I would see one ov my favs at least three times a month and she would come over if I was free some time. (Any sec was always in the clock.) The thing that made my favorites "favorite" was that with each of them i felt we were two friends (with of course respected limits) enjoying each others company and presence. The sex was always great, but so different with each. My very favorite four of all times were not particularly beautiful, but I believe we really liked each other each time. I have met at least three ladies since I stopped seeing my girl friend about three years ago who I would love to see regularly and often, but time and opportunity has not allowed. Each one was just a pleasure to be with. Each "took her veil off" a bit as appropriate and each invited me to lift mine as well. Each of the three is a really fine person. That is why I so enjoyed most of the comments above.
My fav clients...are friends with the boundaries of this very sensual world. They have positive energy...give from their true selves or the developed self from this hobby generously, not only in the traditional manner, but in their spirits. They truly care about me. I truly care about them. I look forward to seeing them...and they me. Yes, they keep in touch between meetings, but not excessively. They anticipate my needs...and any glitches that may encounter and communicate. Of course, they arrrive on time, do not freak out if the time is off a bity (nor do I)...leave on time or moreorless without the sense that I need to be accountable for asking them to leave. (Now that is alwasy uncomfortable and never preferred.) They are not robots in that the time we spend together is imaginative and dynamic. They pay creedance/have a preference to the wonders of a mature woman without too much emphasis on the differences between youthfulness and maturity- afterall that is what I offer. Etc, etc
My relationship with her was GFE...or maybe she just made that my illusion?
The worst pain I ever felt with her? Her being late by an hour because she had a photo shoot run long in Central Park, which caused an inconvenience meeting in NYC at our favorite hotel a couple of hours late. Happiness in the hot tub between the before and after in bed...she used female condoms...
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