Many guys as they get older have a harder and harder time cumming inside a condom. I too was a "two pump chump" in my youth, I could go a month without sex and still last a half hour before cumming as long as I was using a condom, well that would be if I could actually go a month without sex, perish the thought.lol
As for jerking off, I doubt if I rub one out on my own more than once every six months, why would I want to jerk off with all these beautiful ladies available for my pleasure? and you are fooling yourself if you think every lady is going to be satisfied with a good tongue lashing, but only a couple of minutes of intercourse. I actually had to train myself to last longer for a civvie GF who loved the way I ate her pussy, but still needed at least 20 minutes of actual intercourse to have an orgasm. This is not the case with all women, but it's a higher number than many hookers will lead you to believe, them wanting you to feel all studly of course, even if you bust your load in the first 30 seconds.lol
to determine if he has a noticeable "limp" and take appropriate action early on.
SMH... If you know it takes you a while to climax, then you should plan accordingly. Besides, as long as you enjoyed the journey, does it really matter where you end up?
We can't control your bod anymore than you can...no matter how good anyone is
Hey it is what it is. Honestly if you can't get off in an hour or two what exactly do you expect me to do? I understand every once in a while we just can't cum. I have those days myself once or twice every year.
I guarantee you there would be loads of guys loading up on the little blue pill who have no need for it, just so they could fuck away to their hearts content, turning hour long appointments into three hour fuck fests.
Speaking as a guy who often uses up every bit of an hour getting a single pop in, I still have to concede if you can't get it done in an hour, tough shit. Either accept that you had fun for an hour or book more time. I have left without cumming more times than I can count, and I never felt like I didn't get my money's worth any one of those times.
If we're professional we'll have done our utmost to get you to the money shot in the time you've booked but with the best will in the world sometimes it just ain't happening that day.
I can usually tell within 30 minutes if I'm going to cum. If I'm struggling, I'll start pushing hard then. I always like a little time to trade hobby lies, so if I haven't cum at the 45 minute mark of an hour session, I'm done. Time to go home. What's funny is that because I have her hot pussy fresh on my mind, I always go right home and cum for days on end. Unless of course, I have a date the next day.
Of course if some of the reason is "poor time management" on her part. (So waiting for the last 5 minutes in a HE massage to start the happy part.) I still would expect to leave or pay more, but I'm not likely to repeat.
Mind over matter. So have a convo with your mind first...the rest will come lol
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Cumming isn't always the end all be all and nothing will fuck up a session faster than trying to cum in five minutes when it's clearly not going to happen. Besides a nice steak (or cheeseburger) awaits post session so don't view it as a failure and stop jerking off so much LOL
When that time expires the party is over. The lady has no obligation to extend the session due to your inadequacies.
What do you do ?
Thank the lady for honoring the time you've purchased and leave.
What does she do......well that is entirely up to her. Some might give you a few more minutes. But none are any obligation to do so.
If you start pressuring her to extend your time for free she'll probably make up some excuse as to why she has to leave.
If a one hour session is not enough time for you I'd suggest you relax and start booking 1 1/2 hrs. Maybe take the pressure off of yourself
Agreed it's on the client, but that doesn't mean the provider can't try to help it happen. And as noted above, the mind is truly the most powerful sexual organ. With that in mind, ladies you can make it more likely with some "spermy" talk. Examples:
Oh God, I
Need your sperm in me
Want to feel you cum in me
Need your cum
Want your sperm
Need you to fill me with tour sperm
Need you to fill me with your seed
Etc.
Please
Sperm me
Breed me
Give me your cum
Fill me with your sperm
Make a baby in me
Shoot in my womb
Etc. Etc.
You get the point. Examples are endless. Just use the word sperm or one of its many variants. CFS, doesn't matter, the fertilization talk just goes straight to the brain's "HELL YES" zone
And call me crazy, but I'm not the least bit turned on by mentions of sperm.
Oh God, I
Need your sperm in me
Want to feel you cum in me
Need your cum
Want your sperm
Need you to fill me with tour sperm
Need you to fill me with your seed
Etc.
Please
Sperm me
Breed me
Give me your cum
Fill me with your sperm
Make a baby in me
Shoot in my womb
Etc. Etc.
You get the point. Examples are endless. Just use the word sperm or one of its many variants. CFS, doesn't matter, the fertilization talk just goes straight to the brain's "HELL YES" zone
1) I seriously doubt Mr. Chz. is advocating BBFS, just talking sexily about it.
2) I also doubt he (or anyone) thinks it matters whether or not you personally find such talk sexy. It's about what buzzwords will make the client get a nut.
Fair enough, but you can't have a cream pie without BBFS. Just ask Tobi!
You know I was talking to the Tobster, right? Just replied it off your post b/c agreeing with you.
In any event, if edification is needed:
If we're totally going at it when your time is up (meaning you're actually hard & straining, NOT that we're still trying to wake Mr. Happy up to play!) then I'm not going to suddenly tap out and present you with your options i.e. "leave or pay up". Not unless you've already been an asshole, that is.
No, I'll give ya a few more minutes of whatever-we're-doing in the hopes of achieving the desired result..... good customer service means attempting to make sure your customer is satisfied, within reason.
So yeah... a new guy will get a few extra minutes' effort out of me. If one of my regular friends were to have similar trouble, I would likely give him even more leeway because I know my guys will take care of my need$ later. 
HOWEVER, once you get there or we both just give up, the correct thing to do is take your leave quickly.
DO NOT lie back down for several minutes of pillow-talk and cuddle time, or decide to take a shower. Nope.... you just used up your post-coital cleanup and chit-chat time (and then some!) by playing no-pokey-hokey for a full hour+. It's time to go.
Unless you're planning to pay for that extra time, of course.
Now, I personally feel the nice thing to do is to tip the lady for such a clock-runneth-over session either right then or later on. I've received post-date e-gift cards and also had guys give me an extra envelope with a tip in it, thanking me for the last time, upon a repeat visit. Oh! and one not-so-bright-but-well-meaning individual who left a sealed envelope at the front desk for me, simply saying it was for the "lady in room number 123".... sigh. Had to cross that hotel off my go-to list lol.
As it happens, just within the past month I've had two related incidents: in the first, the guy wasn't having difficulty, he just didn't want to come yet. So I told him our time was up and if he wanted to hold off longer he'd have to extend our time. He agreed, no problem.
Second sitch: Mr happy no so happy. Long story short: he admitted he had a lil of the medicinal just prior to arrival.
Guess what? I stopped trying. Time to go.
I have a robe which I even call my "time to go robe". If I get up and put it on for no apparent reason?
Uh, yeah, it is time for you to go. LOL. 
Hmmmmmm..... I seem to have rambled away from the point. Oh yes....
OP: if you know your time is up, don't make her have to present your options to you. If you want to extend your time, ask her for that. Otherwise, it's time to wrap it up and take it to go.
If you booked an hour and you couldn't get it going she had to work extra hard
You can either pay for extra time, if she is amenable, or reschedule. Don't know what else to say...
..and when it does it makes me feel horrible, no matter the reason for it occurring.
When I was a newbie escort it was tough managing time during a session. I had such an overwhelming need to please that I rarely took charge for fear that I might seem rude and cold. I spent so much of the session showering him with oral pleasures that by the time he would ask for a cover..there would only be minutes left to our date. I understood quickly that in this scenario, it was my fault for not being a good host and while I wanted so badly to extend our date to show him that I actually cared..unfortunately, I couldn't. When I first began, I wasn't independent, so it was next to impossible to go over time without a confirmed extension request. Thats not to say anything negative about agencies or girls who don't manage their own schedules... I'm just saying that, if she's not independent and this happens to you..I think it's better if you discuss it with the agency director rather than make the girl feel like shit because she's leaving you high and dry. Usually the agency owners will give you a discounted rate next time...because, Hey..it happens.
As an independent, I still experience this happening every so often. It's rare that he doesn't cum at all, but at this point..it's more so about the 2nd, 3rd or even 4th cup. One of the perks of setting your own schedule means that you can always add buffer time..which is why I'm always willing to go over a bit. HOWEVER, this only usually happens with gentlemen who have a tough time either way.
Guys! Please understand your bodies! If you're capable of cumming more than once, then get the first one out of the way within the first 10-15mins! If you can only cum once...then let her tease and pamper you for a large part of the beginning of the session. And if you have a hard time cumming at all? Let us know! We're professionals and well equipped to get the job done IF we're informed
..not cum during a session because of something the provider legitimately did or didn't do?
Meaning...you usually have no problem at all finishing but for some reason (apart from bad time management) she either turned you off or couldn't arouse you enough?
And if that's ever happened to you..did you tell her that she's the reason? That maybe her breath smelled or she tasted weird?
The times that come to mind are the women who act like they can never get "comfortable" and make sure they keep their body's angled as to prevent any real penetration and the moment you actually do get more than a couple of inches "in" they change again.
The thing of course is that I have no desire to stay past my time with a woman like this, quite the contrary on the handful of times this has happened to me I have always left early
BTW, your advice in your previous post is spot on. I am usually a "one and done" and I take my sweet time "getting there" I usually cum about 45 minutes into an hour session, but on those rare days that I am feeling froggy and want to try for a second pop, I make sure to get right to it, I don't "hold back" at all and try to get that first pop in within the first 10-15 minutes to give myself any chance of filling a second cup. It's still rare that I actually finish again within a one hour appointment and I hardly feel like it's the lady's obligation to let me pound her for another 45 minutes in a futile effort to finish, but I will admit there have been a few times where I knew I was "close" as the hour was nearing it's end and I have gone over by a few minutes in order to finish in those cases, but those instances are quite rare for me.
I probably only have a happy ending MAYBE 10% of the time. I don't hold back, its just something in my brain that stops it from happening.
Once my time is up I politely tell them its not going to happen and end the date. Its no big deal as I still enjoy my time !
I had one lady ( smoking' HOT ) kinda get mad and kept going after the hour was up . After another 10 minutes she asked what she could do to get me to cum . I'm relatively shy, but I then guided her for another 10 minutes and still nothing . We are now 20 minutes over and I'm ready to go .
NOPE !
She got back down on her knees and kept going for ANOTHER 10 minutes .
Finally she said if I was not going to orgasm then she was and said she enjoys greek A LOT !
That did it ! I think I lasted about 5 minutes and BAM ! Needless to say I became a regular because of her actions to make sure I left satisfied !
It still was hit or miss with her but we ALWAYS had fun and she ALWAYS got her O !
First thought is how much time did you book? Knowing yourself did you book the correct time or did you "discount" your experience? If you did the latter, did you really plan to see where you could push the limit to get extra time that you really did not contract for?
Given that I feel I gave it my all to get you there, I would go a little longer if it felt that we were going to be successful relatively soon. If it really was not going to happen...and you know what I mean, then I would suggest our time together was very sensual and stop the session. I would definitely explore with you if you wanted to return for another meeting and what you would like to strategically plan for a more "successful" outcome OR ask if that is really not what you are looking for.
I know this may be shocking to some men but I have had encounters where the hobbiests withholds the happy ending- difficult as that is, they did it by plan. Some men just do not always come to that point any more whether that is age related or just them. The clock thing can get to any man if he not accustom to that...
So it really is not a one size fits all answer. I will cease to accept dates if I feel someone constantly tries to run over time or somehow "blames" me for his experience. We really are only as good as the effort you all put into the moment as well. I promise you I will come to the happy ending if I choose to as I have claimed my own sexuality...I know my body.
As clche as this sounds, it is the time we spend with you that is what is being compensated and gifted, NOT the how we spend it together so whatever happens is just beautiful.
just ram her finger up his ass....if that doesn't do it...it ain't gonna happen.
I'll go over time (to a point) trying my best to get him to cum.
Since we have reviews to enure that we go above and beyond for EVERY client EVERY time (lol), I'll go over time up to an hour for a shorter appt (1-3 hours), up to 2 hours for a longer appointment.
I won't *expect* a tip. I've been with a lot of guys (especially agency clients) who barely even thanked me. BUT, if you don't do SOMETHING (book a longer date next time, and/or do something nice for me - monetary or otherwise) you will get placed on my only-see-when-broke list.
Reviewers are the WORST about this type of thing. They'll purposely initiate another round of play, like, 5 minutes before time is up. They know we're kind of stuck. If I sense that the guy is doing it on purpose, I'll actually think about putting him on the blacklist. Plus... say a girl emails me 'regarding your OK for John-S-XX-XXX on p411.' I'll give her the skinny. So while a guy might save a little $$ in the short run... well, "word gets around" as they say.
every fucking day. Give your nerved endings time to rebuild, and you'll be more sensitive. You, not the provider, are responsible for your own orgasm.
In my case, I have the opposite problem. It's like no matter how much I jack it or try to hold back, I'm going to pop in 5 minutes. So DATY is a must for me, so I can make sure my ladies get their pleasure, too.
Many guys as they get older have a harder and harder time cumming inside a condom. I too was a "two pump chump" in my youth, I could go a month without sex and still last a half hour before cumming as long as I was using a condom, well that would be if I could actually go a month without sex, perish the thought.lol
As for jerking off, I doubt if I rub one out on my own more than once every six months, why would I want to jerk off with all these beautiful ladies available for my pleasure?
and you are fooling yourself if you think every lady is going to be satisfied with a good tongue lashing, but only a couple of minutes of intercourse. I actually had to train myself to last longer for a civvie GF who loved the way I ate her pussy, but still needed at least 20 minutes of actual intercourse to have an orgasm. This is not the case with all women, but it's a higher number than many hookers will lead you to believe, them wanting you to feel all studly of course, even if you bust your load in the first 30 seconds.lol
Bwwaaahaaahaaahaaa...I may be arrogant sometimes, but I'm no youth. I'm 41, which, last time I checked, means I've been middle aged for about 6 years now. I don't get as hard as I used to, but I can still bust a nut in no time. It'll be interesting to see how things work when I'm in my late 50's.
35 is most definitely a kid on TER, unless of course you are provider in which case half of us will consider her "over the hill" and the other half will still consider her a kid.
I am late fifties and while I still get as hard as I ever did, It's a rarity that I can bust a nut even in ten minutes and quite frankly I am fine with that.