had an ATF who I saw frequently for 8+ and for the first 6, her CBJ skills were so good, it didn't matter. I'm thick, she went deep ... game over.
Then CBJ made me lose my erection. It pained me to cut back on seeing her. In the end, we respected each other's boundaries and needs and still keep in touch. One of the best fucks on the planet, we rocked each other's world, but if you can't keep it hard .... and I'll take some of the credit for that. I never saw anyone else that advertised CBJ, nor wI'll I. I have learned that in many cases bbbj is a YMMV situation. That's where reviews are critical to check out. Profiles aren't always accurate. Same for anal.I like to read reviews, especially if there is the potential that I am going to visit said provider. A couple of things catch my eye, one in particular is when a client indicates that he performed DATY on the provider, but in return got a CBJ. Providers/Clients what are your thoughts on this?
That's how I feel. If the guy ask for a CBJ that's one thing but if she advertises CBJ she isn't the provider I would be looking for.
Many times I've thought of working at a brothel, but the downside for me is...they insist on CBJ's. I've said it before, and I'll say it again...I love a Deep Throat BBBJCIM, and savoring every drop of a man's cream
And thats why you're one of my favorites Robin
Anyway from the lady's standpoint she is trying to be safe. There is less STD risk in oral sex than intercourse or anal, however there is still risk, and in the case of oral, both BBBJ and DATY have more risk to the giver than the receiver. So yes from a safety standpoint, it is not "fair." Now I have seen a few reviews (years ago though, none recently) where DATY was performed with dental dams.
In any case it doesn't really bother me and I have seen a number of providers who only do CBJ, but allowed DATY. Do I prefer a BBBJ? Of course, but there are other things I look at, and if those other things are all good, I will see a CBJ gal. If she allows DATY and appears to be clean and has no weird smells down there, I am happy to perform it.
I know some providers who allow DATY but detest CIM. So they do CBJs, at least until they know the monger well enough to be certain he won't CIM.
Although I prefer BBBJ, CBJ isn't a ball-breaker for me. Especially when the CBJ is done very very well and the overall experience is good.
that is not a fair exchange. Communication is important between both parties to dispel any health concerns before the session starts. Personally I dislike a CBJ.
had an ATF who I saw frequently for 8+ and for the first 6, her CBJ skills were so good, it didn't matter. I'm thick, she went deep ... game over.
Then CBJ made me lose my erection. It pained me to cut back on seeing her. In the end, we respected each other's boundaries and needs and still keep in touch.
One of the best fucks on the planet, we rocked each other's world, but if you can't keep it hard .... and I'll take some of the credit for that.
I never saw anyone else that advertised CBJ, nor wI'll I. I have learned that in many cases bbbj is a YMMV situation. That's where reviews are critical to check out. Profiles aren't always accurate. Same for anal.
His provider was happy to allow BB Greek, but then wanted the ensuing blowjob covered! No clue why the disparity?
Given the other thread about GFE being favored over PSE, I'm assuming your friend's provider didn't like the taste of her own ass?
Then for CFS, we might as well fuck a rubber doll...just saying...
Didn't think so.
Did her profile and/or reviews indicate CBJ? If not, then you'd have a reason to fuss
But that's probably because of my ATF. She does CBJ, but she does them so well...she gives the best blowjobs I have ever had. Now, if she weren't letting me eat her out, I might be a bit hurt.