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Her business will fail because she won't see black guys? You're delusional. (eom)
FakawiTribe 500 reads
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dipstick502313 reads

I was checking TER the other day and one of the providers stated that she only services AA Men.  I can't recall seeing such an add before and so I was wondering if this a trend that is taking place?

dipstick50591 reads

She clearly stated AA Men.

Posted By: EroticRobbin

Posted By: dipstick50
She clearly stated AA Men.  
   
Posted By: EroticRobbin

dipstick50630 reads

I DON'T THINK SO.LOl All I can say is I saw the ad this morning and she was a pretty blond chick and she was reviewed and working in the DC area.

Can you post a link to the ad? As an AA man in the DC area, I wanna see if she's in my price range.

Posted By: sdottaylor
Can you post a link to the ad? As an AA man in the DC area, I wanna see if she's in my price range.
I have a question for you, if you don't mind me asking.  Is it common or a rarity, to see providers post ads seeking only AA men?

Please know, I'm not a racist (I civie dated 'The Rock'), but I am curious as to why a provider would exclude Caucasian hobbyists.  I would imagine, only dating hobbyists of a certain race, would substantially limit her income.

Thank you, in advance, for your reply.

Robbin
xoxo

I wouldn't seek out providers that see only AA men. I seek out providers who are within my budget, are attractive to me, have good reviews and seem like I would enjoy hanging around with.

I looked up the TER ID the OP posted about, don't have VIP so I have no idea if she's within my budget, pictures I've seen are attractive, reviews aren't good and don't really know if I'd enjoy hanging around with her so I wouldn't see her regardless of her policy

Posted By: sdottaylor
I wouldn't seek out providers that see only AA men. I seek out providers who are within my budget, are attractive to me, have good reviews and seem like I would enjoy hanging around with.  
   
 I looked up the TER ID the OP posted about, don't have VIP so I have no idea if she's within my budget, pictures I've seen are attractive, reviews aren't good and don't really know if I'd enjoy hanging around with her so I wouldn't see her regardless of her policy

JakeFromStateFarm527 reads

OK. As the official representative of The Rock I am Officially Embarrassed. Are you his Mom?

Posted By: JakeFromStateFarm
OK. As the official representative of The Rock I am Officially Embarrassed. Are you his Mom?
Do you know the difference between Dwayne and yourself? While you're sitting on a discussion board belittling me, he enjoyed civie dating and passionate intimacy with me.  Obviously, why 'The Rock' is a winner! ;

JakeFromStateFarm418 reads

Your naked efforts at relentless self-promotion have the smell of desperation.  Not the scent of a winner.

dipstick50594 reads

You guys just want me to give her a bunch of free publicity.Lol  Her TER # 295308

GaGambler791 reads

by AA I wonder if she means

African American

Asian American

Asshole American.  

I am sure I could qualify to see her depending on which one of the three she prefers.

GaGa,  
Using your yardstick, ya think she's looking for Tiger Woods?

Posted By: GaGambler
by AA I wonder if she means  
   
 African American  
   
 Asian American  
   
 Asshole American.  
   
 I am sure I could qualify to see her depending on which one of the three she prefers.

GaGambler463 reads

and he hits one out of the park. lol

Good one.

...what if the dude is black but Canadian? LOL

only Alcoholic Anonymous men?

6-pack_abs523 reads

but a very prominent AA woman in SD, CA with the initials LL will not see AA men which leads me to question WTF.

GaGambler554 reads

You would be surprised at just how many women still have this policy well into the 21 century.

and you'd be equally surprised not only at how many women claim their policy isn't rooted in racism, but how many guys will back them up on it.

I say in a free country you do have the right to be a racist, but for fucks sake at least admit to it.

Or the white women with AA civvy boyfriends who say no AA men?

My guess is most of it is based in racism, but I can't tell who is, and who is not racist, based soley on that one policy. I would need more info to label someone a racist, especially with the evidence you point to.

Some of it is based on bad personal experiences, some based on misinformation, some based on prejudices that are enhanced every night on local news in big cities showing many AA men doing horrific things, idk for sure.

Is any of this fair to AA men? Of course not. I am sure it is hurtful and frustrating as hell.

But as men, we have our preferences in p4p, why can't the women?

Based on local news??? What about Tim McVeigh, Ted Bundy, David Koresh, Charles Manson??? Seems to me that the most heinous crimes are commited by white men.

souls_harbor645 reads

For the decade 2000-2010 serial killers in the USA were 59% black, 32% white, 8% Hispanic.  Considering there at eight times as many whites as blacks means that any given black man is 16 times more likely to be serial killer than a white man.

Posted By: python97
Based on local news??? What about Tim McVeigh, Ted Bundy, David Koresh, Charles Manson??? Seems to me that the most heinous crimes are commited by white men.

I think we're pushing the boundaries of the term "low volume provider" for the 0.002% chance of encountering a black serial killer to be a meaningful basis of prejudice.

Posted By: souls_harbor
For the decade 2000-2010 serial killers in the USA were 59% black, 32% white, 8% Hispanic.

So by these claims, none were asain, middle eastern or otherwise? At least their cultures should be happy about that. (Real comment not sarcasim) Or maybe these stats are automatically questionable because they arent all inclusive of every race/background???

I see more and more ads with this exception. It is interesting that some of the ladies with the exception are black too. There may be a minority of ladies that just have a preference in the people they want to see, based on race. I am sure some of the us guys here have a preference towards a specific type; and this may be skewed towards a particular race too. I may not like it, but I just have to move on. There are plenty of ladies to chose from, especially when you live in a large city. Not so much in a small town. Now, when i asked some of the ladies, the answer is consistent. Rudeness, attempt at robbery in some cases, and the sense of entitlement. Because they are paying for a service the think they can do anything. I guess we have a case of few bad apples will end up influencing general opinion...

As a young black woman, I used to hear that all white men have small penises. I had my first white penis after my divorce. He pulled it out and I almost ran out of the room but I was there for intercourse so I stayed. Big, thick, circumcised and ready! We went three rounds with me shutting my eyes really tight and holding my breath. He gave it to me good! Since then I have encountered many white men that are quite hung. Two were so big the dates almost didn't happen. I was like WTF are you planning on doing with that? HUGE! Oh my!!! Now I just anticipate girthy pink meat to play with. ;)

it spells  AAMBAPHDEELLTOD.  Coincidence?  I don't think so!

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GaGambler546 reads

He just isn't too smart, not delusional. Ok, lets call it like it is, he's stupid. it's the reason that he is way out in front, almost ready to lap the rest of the field in this years SPOTY.

I suppose he could be delusional AND stupid, but I've got my money on stupid.

Obviously there are hundreds of hookers who do just fine with a NBA policy. Now the lady with the "AA only" policy???, That's a different story and not a recipe for success unless she is in a city with a lot of well heeled black dudes to support her. Refusing to see 80+ percent of the potential marketplace due to race doesn't sound like a great business plan to me.

JakeFromStateFarm635 reads

Have you heard of a single girl whose business failed because of a "No AA men" policy?  I haven't.  I'd say if a girl is hot and skilled, and runs her business well in other respects, she'll be fine.  Bear in mind there are lots of AA hookers who won't see black men.
My position is that this game is a special exception because of the nature of the service.  And there are lots of women who won't see guys under 30 or over 65.  Lots of Korean women won't see Korean men.  And on and on.  Don't worry about it, just move on.

I wonder if the OP would be willing to post the ad and her ID because I don't think she's low end but mid to high end.  

While the celebrity dating and marriage database isn't exactly science of the masses, it would lead me to believe that a lot of AA guys enjoy the company of white women (maybe even blonds, to an excess). Who are the Kardashian husbands and boyfriends? I see lots of BM - WF couples where I am. The AA guys who are NOT getting it for free or by marriage but still crave it can get it the same way we do: $$$.  

If she is "exclusively AA" she probably loves the AA guys and might as well brand herself as being exclusive. I think she'll do just fine with a bunch of upscale AA regulars.  

OP: post the ad for us. I want to see if I'm right

zorroasster533 reads

here we go again. all the philosophic blah blah about who to see and not see just bolls down to someone telling you what to do. funny to see all this pc talk within what is still an illegal activity.

seen those words in the ads I peruse in the San Diego area.  In fact, I see the opposite - providers do not desire AA men.

If you browse BP IN Phoenix roughly 80-90% of ads say no AA. That is a huge number and it is equally that high for the black providers.  If your own race won't see you, I'm guessing the issue isnt about race.  I asked three separate girls about this and they all said roughly the same thing. The black guys in this area were generally too aggressive and there was a lot of activity in trying to "recruit" girls to work for them. Stalking, violence and intimidation were the methods...there's a relatively small black population here so I'm sure it doesn't affect their business at all.

This is the general reasoning why providers in my area (of ANY race) prefer not to see African American men.  Some of then are overly agressive, intimidating, disrespectful and as mentioned above, some try to recruit you by any method they can get away with.

D.

Most of the psycho clients wouldn't slip through a double screening policy of requiring 2 recent referrals and employment verification

I am an equal opportuity kind of gal...I find all of them fascinating and being intimate with someone is a chance to travel in a very unique way without ever buying a ticket anywhere!  Attraction is a very personal thing so to each his/her own, I suppose.  

I once responded candidly here to a gent's inquiry as to why some providers exclude AA men...to my chagrine, it appeared racist.  I am not at all associated with that term anymore than we all fight our inner programming.  I understand on a very personal level the intense manly quality of eroticism that AA men offer...I suppose she is marketing to her personal desire OR seeking to see if there is a niche market less explored.

souls_harbor495 reads

For the ten thousandth time, it isn't race, it is culture.

We can and should judge culture or subcultures.  Some can be odious.  They should be shamed out of existence.

You can't do anything about your race, but while you may be born into a culture, you can reject it eventually.  If you don't reject the bad parts of your culture, well, reap the consequences

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