Bait and switch means I walk out with the payment and leave an honest review of what happened.
Bonus points for telling the provider this is about to happen. Double bonus points for not getting your teeth kicked in by her "driver". Triple Double bonus if her driver turns out to be an even hotter Russian girl who hooks up with you for free.I booked a date today with a Russian visitor through her booker, confirmed the donation and that "language lessons" were at no additional charge. When the moment of truth arrived, the provider told me that the lessons cost more. She was desirable but, what do you do?
Namaste.
most prevalent with Russian and Eastern European providers. After I got disgusted with the game from a half-dozen similar expereinces, I quit seeing girls from these two groups. That was about four years ago. It looks like they're still at it.
With that said, as long as you actually saw her, you're able to write a review about the experience, naming the girl so that your fellow hobbyists know not to see her. If you don't name her in a review, then you are assisting her in conning others in the future. If you feel like you benefit from being part of this community, naming her to warn others is a way to give back.
So I'm told by the booker that the Russian provider understood "language lessons" to mean oral while she understands Greek to mean a--l. Could be. Euphemisms can be ambiguous. What do you think?
Must be something lost in translation. When I read your OP, I thought Greek.
Now if I booked with a Russian Agency and the provider was advertised as GFE, I would assume that oral was included and apparently I'd be wrong with this girl since it sounds like both oral and greek are extras.
Now putting myself in your shoes: I walk into a room, meet a gorgeous lady who's first language is not English and probably hasn't been in the US for a year, we start to become intimate, and then I ask her if she gives "language lessons" and she's confused. I wouldn't blame her.
If this is how it went down, chalk up a learning experience and next time try sign language.
I asked about "language lessons" in an email sent over 3 weeks ago. The response at that time was 'they are free'. I used the euphemism language lessons in order to comply with one of the instructions on her website, "Please be discreet and do not use explicit words." On her P411 profile she characterizes herself as "Girlfriend".
ASL or RSL-Russian Sign Language?
I'd blame the booker for not being clear in their response, after all it's their job, but if I was interested in making like an Athenian, I'd probably ask if she's ever been to Greece.
Did the provider know Greek was expected i.e. did she seem prepared?
Bait and switch means I walk out with the payment and leave an honest review of what happened.
Bonus points for telling the provider this is about to happen.
Double bonus points for not getting your teeth kicked in by her "driver".
Triple Double bonus if her driver turns out to be an even hotter Russian girl who hooks up with you for free.
...oral sex. They also used to ask if French was spoken with or without an interpreter, meaning with or without a condom.
Greek is rarely referred to as a language. Usually, it's "visiting the Mediterranean" or other similar euphemisms.
There are other sexual terms such as "Russian" and "Italian" so simply saying "language lessons" can be too vague, especially when communicating with a booker whose first language may be Russian.
Were you the one who used the term "language lessons?" If so, the booker may have thought you meant oral sex; that's why he or she told you it was no additional charge.
up charge to me is bad business, however, to play devils advocate, if i were a girl and you were doing a qv for example and asked for greek outta nowhere. up charge! if you agreed to an hour visit and then the girl was like, i take off my clothes for "up charge" insta-limp. and angered. i suppose everything depends. and if you know there is wiggle room or could be then you prepare for it. like FBSM, topless/nude/body slides/bbbjcim/69/fiv etc. there is typically something noted, either on the review or on the ad. western block Europeans are notorious for this in the hobby, its annoying and one reason why i try avoiding them.
But in all my readings, I've understood the term language lessons to mean oral. Now, Greek lessons, Greek, anything about the beautiful isles or the Mediterranean, etc, that's obviously anal.
Just another example of why this business being illegal is just dumb. Sorry your date got disrupted. Did you pay it or did you leave?