Just curious as to why most women civvie or providers always seem to say they lose concentration on their partner while performing this act? Do the guys feel that they also lose concentration on the ladies? Just curious as this is one of my favorite positions I find it highly erotic and it really gets my motor running
besides, when giving I prefer the other angle, I find I can control the pressure and I have better access to the clitoris that way.
but you aren't doing this to please me, if you enjoy it, who cares what other guys have to say on the subject?
Sorry, babe, but the term "servicing" is not exactly sexxxy to me. 
wouldn't it be great if you could get both at the same time? Nothing worse than down time waiting for car service of any kind.
Maybe even full service? Would get new meaning to "complete lube job."
While I enjoy it for a couple minutes, I can't do it for any length of time. Not only is it distracting, but I have never found a comfortable position to do it. Angles are wrong. body torso lengths don't match, I'm not a contortionist, etc.
No I dont, I just wanted that Naomi/Storm/BP flow to continue. Lol
Doesn't like 69...shit, I'll bet you love mani/pedi's too, don't you? 
chew gum and walk at the same time.
Take it as a compliment. It means you are doing right by her and so the pleasure YOU are giving to HER is distracting her from giving you her best effort in return. Evidently, you're getting their motor running, too. Keep up the good work. Maybe you can teach a course at JDU.
...well said!
you mention. Not everyone's cup of tea, but no great deal to ask if she likes it.
My first boyfriend and I did this often. It made me feel as if I were with two men at once. I am sucking one and the other one is licking me. My explosion was incredible. The best way to bring out my slut feeling sexually is if I were to feel as if I were with two men and I am not!
Because the better I am for her, concentrating my energy and attention, the more she might be willing to go the extra mile for me when its her turn to please.
Not to mention, I love the mind fuck that occurs in my own head when I make a woman cum. (I know, I know, many providers fake it, but so what if they are good enough actresses I won't care). In my experience, either most women are freaking awesome actresses, or I do something right.
Its a feeling of power/pleasure at helping another human being feel wonderful. Its a mental orgasm. For these reasons, I like one then the other rather than at the same time. Once I have pleased a lady, then it make my own pleasure just that much more.
and it can get uncomfortable to be in a cramped up position too long.
Trading off DATY and BJ seems to work out better for me
With me as far as the classic position - it seems to work better with shorter (and lighter...) women.
I am 6' - the ideal height for me seems to be just under 5'6".
Actually, what I have found works better than the classic position is a deconstructed 69 - side by side with her head resting on my thigh just playing around with each other and some toys and the occasional oral excursion... tends to be nice and relaxed... until it isn't... Height and weight aren't quite as much an issue that way
I think there's some truth to that. I either enjoy the giving part of it, or the receiving part. But not both... At least not equally. Interesting. To start understanding the why, may be pointless. We like what we like.
I 69ed with a TS, and THAT was a little awkward...especially because I was on the bottom, and trying not to choke on it!
its definitely an art to do 69 with a ts. she has to be flexible and know how to avoid choking you while doing it.
I agree with some of the above statements. I totally enjly giving, and I enjoy receiving, but when both are going on at the same time, I feel like I can't enjoy EITHER to the fullest, so my preference is one at a time please!
And, yes, I realize you asked the "guys" point of view - but I'm giving mine, just the same
And, yes, I realize you asked the "guys" point of view - but I'm giving mine, just the same!
Now you're talking!
farting during DATY can be somewhat of a mood killer for some of us. Just FYI.
The infamous foul-mouthed comic, Cha-Cha Rodriguez had this to say about that:
He said" "Thank you for that breath of fresh air.
... that avoids the concentration problem: Provider 1 sits on my face while Provider 2 administers the BJ. Really fun!
I've found some women like 69 and some don't care for it (the concentration issue etc) so I ask if they like doing it. If not, no biggie. As was mentioned, the frontal approach is a better angle for oral play, especially when combined with g-spot massage.
people on a job works in many areas, so no reason to expect two providers can't get the job done better than one. I agree with you.
Sorry I wasn't clear I wanted everyones opinion the ladies and the gents! Ladies reply away!
But I hope the lady gets her(s) before mine which is usually the case, because when I'm done, I'm done for a bit
It's never going to be on my favorite things to do in the sack list. I am much better at sucking dick from other positions and I like it that way 😊
won't get much of an argument from your victims ...lol