I get a few PM's but it's no big deal... I just figure I got bigger fish to fry.
WTF. My reviews are pretty explicit and self explanatory, and honest. If your experiences and taste do not match mine, then thats on you. Sometimes the ladies respond well to some guys but not to others. Maybe you smelled bad, maybe you said something that turned her off or tried to change your deal, or you came late or early or whatever that threw her off and made your experience less memorable than mine. YMMV.
I mean, I dont mind if someone asks me something like general area questions, like "does she go to x county or y neighborhood", if I know, I will help a brother out or refer him to the providers website or their TER #, but stupid crap like ""How did you rate this one so high/low, my experience was different" is a rude question IMHO
Yes, sorry, had to vent, lol.
I need to try it someday. I am often bored and this will be a nice suprise for everyone. xo
...I also often get PM's asking me to elaborate on certain sexual aspects from my reviews, along with questions that are obviously addressed in my review. What cracks me up is that my experience can not really equate to 99% of other reviewers here, yet I am asked some questions that aren't even relatable. Makes me wonder if they even bothered to read my review fully. But I do enjoy yielding questions that other hobbyists ask that are along the lines of whether their wife or gf would enjoy the provider for a couples session. At least that type of thing is more pertinent.
And of course there are always the PM's that are looking for more fapping material. They are always entertaining!
erhaps yours are completely honest, but not most others. I know I'm not, I gloss over certain aspects because they don't bother me or are maybe a one time thing, or may not really matter to me since I'm not intending on repeating.
I see one of my regulars at her place when she is not touring. She has cats, the litter boxes are in the bathroom and it can get a little gross. But hey, she's a college student. You'll never see that in my review, and I am betting its a big surprise for somebody if she brought them home, too.
Another fine lady, the first time I saw her she was pretty late. So late that she actually pulled up next to me in the lot while I am killing time waiting for the room number. After I got up to the room 20 minutes later, she told me she just had been to the doctor, as she had a pimple on her ass that got irritated, grew into a boil, had to be lanced and cut open, and that is why she had a large pancake sized bleeding bandage on her butt cheek and could I help her with the tape and can we please not do doggie? She's very sweet, matter of fact and down to earth, why would I slam her in a review?
More facts have been left out of reviews than have made it into reviews, and not just in mine. You'll know this if you have any experience in this business. I generally don't reach out to other mongers, as I am OK with taking some risk, but I can see guys trying to minimize their exposure by getting some BC info.
Getting fap worthy info from another monger, yeah, I don't get that
Agreed. If a gal has a temporary black and blue on her shin because she kicked the table by accident thats not making the review, likewise something wrong with a hotel room or motel room (she doesnt own the place) it wont make it into a review. I have cut down on my number of reviews. If a gal is a 7/7, I may still enjoy her company, but I am not going to shoot myself in the foot as a "low reviewer" and be ghosted by higher rated gals I might want to see. Now, while I I am still brutally honest in my reviews, I only review the really good ones or the really bad ones (thankfully no one truly "bad" has come my way due to diligent research). So most of my recent reviews are with gals who stood out from the crowd. If I saw her and didnt review her, it was either by request for no review, or I honestly thought she was under an 8. My early reviews on TER show my early brutal honesty and I got shit for it.
And I do leave certain things out of reviews. Anything off the menu I don't mention and I never get specific as to OTC time.
I mean, I dont mind if someone asks me something like general area questions, like "does she go to x county or y neighborhood", if I know, I will help a brother out or refer him to the providers website or their TER #, but stupid crap like ""How did you rate this one so high/low, my experience was different" is a rude question IMHO.
I get a few PM's but it's no big deal... I just figure I got bigger fish to fry.
I appreciate that sentence.
Reviews are definitely important, as they open up a portal into what a session is like with a provider. At the same time, they can't be the sole metric used to accurately portray what YOUR session will be like. I know I give all of myself in my sessions, to ensure my gentlemen feel very comfortable/at ease. There's always external forces outside of my/our control.
It sounds like there's a lot of fear here; a let's-navigate-life-via-the-worse-possibilities energy. I understand, and there's always other variables at play. I would do some more investigative work if there's a provider you really like. Read her website copy a few times (hell, that's why I describe myself at length on mine). Check out her twitter, there will most likely be some recent selfies. Get in touch with what those fears are and how your choice provider allays them via her visualness; how she describes herself, her service and the world around her. And of course, the famed review :-
what they are asking. If, as you say, they are challenging your score or your review, then fuck em, but if they are asking for clarification on something in the ad, or something I did not cover in the review, then I will always do my best to give a meaningful answer. The questions I most often get are about profile stats in the CV ads and how close are the photoshopped photos.
Agreed, but it was a direct challenge to my score via PM by someone who disagreed. That struck me as rude. After posting this thread he sent me another PM trying to "clarify" that he thought it might be bait and switch and he saw someone different. Not the case.
Up to you as to decide whether you will answer. Over the years, I've fielded a few, some of which have asked things that I couldn't answer, or wouldn't. One of the things I would advise...never answer questions from anyone who has no reviews or history here or elsewhere whom your perception/gut feeling tells you that they should know better, or whose history is negative. Just delete and ignore.
Kinda what I already do.