Carolinas

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SouthernGent51 10 Reviews 596 reads
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Sometimes it clicks and sometimes it doesn't.  Perhaps expectations were a little too high and those robbed the spontaneity of the truly special moments.  

Playtime is best when the mind is willing to relax and enjoy at your natural pace and rhythm and your partner has a few special surprises.

So I get back from my most recent date, and while it was good and I got what I needed I now have this empty feeling in my stomach.  Why?  I have been spoiled by my ATF.  She's everything I want and my latest date, a repeat, just didnt do it for me completely.  I was able to finish but I had to finish myself.  While I was able to have a happy finish ON my date it just wasnt the same.  Now let me be clear, Im not in love with my ATF, by any stretch, but she's at the forefront of my sexual thoughts.  So how do you get over the spoiled state?  Maybe Ill cool off the dates for awhile and let my friend get anxious again.  Thoughts?

Sometimes it clicks and sometimes it doesn't.  Perhaps expectations were a little too high and those robbed the spontaneity of the truly special moments.  

Playtime is best when the mind is willing to relax and enjoy at your natural pace and rhythm and your partner has a few special surprises.

Wouldnt be the first time my mind has played tricks on me.  Probably wont be the last.  I also was a bit peeved from the get as my original date (not my atf) bailed on me and I had to get a backup.  That always stinks, because you get a good battle plan in your head then it all goes to crap.....

Posted By: SouthernGent51
Sometimes it clicks and sometimes it doesn't.  Perhaps expectations were a little too high and those robbed the spontaneity of the truly special moments.  
   
 Playtime is best when the mind is willing to relax and enjoy at your natural pace and rhythm and your partner has a few special surprises.  
   
 

So very true sir, if you don't put your mind at ease and don't relax more often than not you will leave disappointed in the encounter and yourself! Happens to me more than I like.
I also have a lady friend that I always return too, that I never have this issue with.  

Unfortunately the grass always looks better elsewhere !!!

Posted By: SouthernGent51
Sometimes it clicks and sometimes it doesn't.  Perhaps expectations were a little too high and those robbed the spontaneity of the truly special moments.  
   
 Playtime is best when the mind is willing to relax and enjoy at your natural pace and rhythm and your partner has a few special surprises.  
   
 
-- Modified on 10/18/2014 9:29:34 AM

If she's around, then definitely forgo the rest and spend all your money on her until she moves away/leaves the biz. If she's gone already, then all you can do is get to shopping around - just make sure that you're having fun per each individual experience and NOT trying to recreate that ATF experience. Take a break if you're not having fun. All things must pass and all we're left with are the memories...

No the problem is she's so far away that visiting her can prove difficult.  Difficult enough I couldnt do it on a regular basis.  Otherwise I would just see her all the time.  :-)

GaGambler334 reads

I don't have ATF's, I actually hate the term, but I certainly have "current favorites" when there is just something about the pussy, or I guess more accurately the woman that owns the pussy, that I just can't get enough of, for a short time at least.

I can't speak for every guy, but I find that these things seem to run their course and rather than "taking a break" I just let them run their course, enjoy the ride, but know deep down that eventually the endorphins are going wear off and that I will be moving on to the next woman that completely rocks my world.

Isn't P4P great?

Im pretty sure that at some point this will happen and at some point a new girl will be my favorite.  I just use ATF because its a well known term.  Yes P4P is a good thing.  :-)

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