Given that most of the ladies here are beautiful, I've always found it is easy to hobby, and for my expectations be exceeded more often than not. IMO, it's the meeting of minds that is the most important factor.
So I've been using this local Asian agency with fairly attractive, eager to please girls that I've had a good time with. Then, out of the blue, the site has 3 real hotties (IMHO) a few notches above the normal rotating line up. There's a price bump for these girls, but its insignificant. Prior photos have been spot on, so I have no reason to doubt.
I book an appointment with the first one of these beauties who is available close to my neck of the woods. She's new, and only has 2 reviews. One was ok and one was luke warm. I arrive and she opens the door and there stands a provider who I'd say is in the top 2 of providers I've ever seen looks-wise. Totally stunning. She's wearing the same outfit as the website and total knocks my socks off with her looks. I'm in heaven.
She's sweet, some LFK, the she's on to BBJ in the first few minutes. Then she pulls out the cover and is on top of me. She's so hot, I don't last long. We talk, cuddle and she's sweet as can be. I'm ready for round 2. She tells me she only offers one round. This is new to me. We have had a great rapore and I use my charm and negotiation skills to convince her for a another round. It's great and I'm totally satisfied.
On the way home as I smiled I thought, what if she didn't go for round 2? Would it have been worth it? As I said, she was sweet, but her performance was far from the best I've ever had with a provider. But her looks did a lot for me. So I wrestle with the question, do I prefer super-hot, less than great sex or, less than super-hot, and great sex.
Call me shallow, but my eyes like what they see. A level of attractiveness with a decent attitude make want to come back for another time over the good-looking, but not super hot great performer.
What I like is what I like. Others may choose differently. I'm curious to hear agreement or other points of view.
If she performs well she will be attractive to you
...she is new, not because she is gorgeous. Try her again in a couple of months when she has had more experience (but before she gets worn out).
Most guys here are fucking ladies they would never see in the real world. Theb occasionally the nirvana of perfect looks and performance comes together. Yay. Enjoy it. Enbrace it. Because like all things in life it will change. I can think of 5 times in my life where the stars aligned and all things sexual blew my mind. Number 2 was with my long term SO.
a provider or any other service. All human endeavors are entirely subjective!! Ever heard about appraisals or performance reports? We have yet to find a way to objectively measure human behavior of any sort, because human behavior is a subjective construct. A perfect 10 in performance in one client's eyes may not be so for someone else.
TER reviews come to mind and are an example most hobbyists/providers can relate to.
since childhood, so they sorta get used to not having to work so hard to earn things
it is all about adaptability...less pretty girls have to work harder to catch up to pretty girls and be equally desirable
it is a nice combo when girl has both looks and work ethics
I noticed that in Medellin, the women there are all so freaking hot, that women who could legitimately be gracing the cover of a magazine have no idea that they are "hot" in their own minds they are simply "average"
Yes, it is a nice combo when a girl has "both looks and work ethics"
...Five young guys from England became international superstars with a song about this subject:
age. Read hundreds of reviews and you will see that for older guys, service always trumps looks. For the 30's guys, looks are more important. This is especially the case with Asian girls. I think the reason is that, for us guys over 50, ANY 30-year-old looks pretty good, so it comes down to the service.
Given that most of the ladies here are beautiful, I've always found it is easy to hobby, and for my expectations be exceeded more often than not. IMO, it's the meeting of minds that is the most important factor.
The biggest sex organ is your brain. If you find a woman attractive, she turns you on, then even if she were basically not great in bed, you still enjoy the experience. As a wise man once said "Your eyes control your dick, you cannot lie to your dick with your eyes. That is why you have to have sex with ugly women in the dark."