I don't know how this is coming across, but lately I've been enjoying the pure physical connection I have during my sessions more than anything else. I've always been an advocate of charming conversation, but I find it so much more fun to cut the bullshit and explore one another's body's. Is talking really that important?
Nah, just kidding this time. I actually agree and I have had great sessions where the lady and I haven't even shared a common language.
I know I am TER's biggest blabbermouth, but when it comes to BCD, talking is highly overrated.
I'm less likely to book extended sessions when the provider is not a good conversationalist, or else not really into the social connection that comes with good conversation. Just sayin'.
does your family knows you do this? why and how did you start?etc ...
Let's leave the talking between cups 1 & 2
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The first thing I do when I meet my date is LFK, then DFK. Then, when we're still standing in the hotel room entryway, I slip off my coat. Underneath, I'm wearing sensuous lingerie, stockings, and stiletto heels. I notice his immediate erection, so I drop to my knees in front of him, and unzip his pants and push them to the floor. While looking up at him, my tongue teases the head of his hard cock. Then I enjoy giving him a deep throat BBBJ, while he leans against the door. His cock swells and he fills my mouth with a load of his warm cream, and I savor every drop. I stand up, smile, and say, "Hi, I'm Robbin, it's nice to finally meet you." We both laugh, and are instantly at ease in one another's company.
After more passionate sex in the bedroom, in between pops, is when I talk. I tell him, "When you're tired of listening to me, kiss me, or stick 'something' in my mouth." Again, we laugh.
When we're snuggling, I don't talk. I like to relax and enjoy the quiet intimacy, we're sharing with one another.
Robbin you have an excellent way to break the ice!!! You can't get too many complaints from that.
I hope every provider I ever see again, learns from you. Great advice.
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After more passionate sex in the bedroom, in between pops, is when I talk. I tell him, "When you're tired of listening to me, kiss me, or stick 'something' in my mouth." Again, we laugh.
When we're snuggling, I don't talk. I like to relax and enjoy the quiet intimacy, we're sharing with one another.
the one time i kept talking to a minimum the girl wouldn't see me again because she thought i was creepy.
my personality is my sexiest asset.
And then some convo at the end of the session. Sometimes you don't need a "connection" for a great first session.
While there's nothing wrong with body exploration (that's why we're aboard the HMS TER), we've both got an array of thousands of wild and crazy TER stories. Since my stamina isn't quite what it was in the old days, it's likely we'll have time for SSJ/MJJ story time. I have no preconceived fantasy that I'm your only one, so one of my favorite parts of any session is listening to, and telling a wild and crazy hobby story or two. In fact, once a lady or gentleman becomes an atf, both are much more open in sharing such adventures. But even on a first date, a great story can be a cool ice breaker.
So, is it really necessary to talk?
In any case, I cast my lot with this guy:
So, yes, I prefer some nice, deep intellectual conversation. A woman who's not talking is going to come across as unfriendly, and make me nervous.