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OuNoU812 315 reads
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How do people even blow a load with CFS? A quality BBBJ all the way!

Posted By: emsjhs2009

It depends on the skill level of the giver of the BBBJ.  If she's really good and knows how to bring a guy to heaven with proper edging technique as well as paying attention to "the boys", I find that a properly given BBBJCIM is better than covered FS.  However, IMHO, very few providers are experts at giving a BBBJ the way I like em.  They do a good job, I climax, etc., but there are a select few that I have met who are true artists at the task.  Those providers who are just average with their BJ's make it up (sometimes) with amazing FS (covered).  Everyone else gets a 7 or lower.  A 7 from me, means, yeah, I had a good time, I came, yay.  Possible repeat.  An 8 or above shows special skills as I wrote above.  Its all in the reviews people

What guys really want is real word sex which is BB** CIP. The closet we usually get to that from hookers is BBBJTC-CWS. A great BJ feels better to most guys than any type of covered sex.

No one disputes that bareback anything doesnt feel better than covered, but FS is infinitely more dangerous in terms of disease spread.  As a guy with a vasectomy you dont think I wanna just go to town bareback? Sure I do, with no pregnancy possible, why not?  I'll tell you why not, HIV, syphilis, gonnorhea, herpes, etc.  If a provider is barebacking me, then she is barebacking others... and I dont want what they may have.
Its risky enough with a BBBJ, but FS? No way man.  I save that for the wife (for when she bothers to allow it)

Providers supplement my sex life, they arent ALL of it.

ROGM363 reads

Posted By: Fridays117
No one disputes that bareback anything doesnt feel better than covered, but FS is infinitely more dangerous in terms of disease spread.  As a guy with a vasectomy you dont think I wanna just go to town bareback? Sure I do, with no pregnancy possible, why not?  I'll tell you why not, HIV, syphilis, gonnorhea, herpes, etc.  If a provider is barebacking me, then she is barebacking others... and I dont want what they may have.  
 Its risky enough with a BBBJ, but FS? No way man.  I save that for the wife (for when she bothers to allow it)  
   
 Providers supplement my sex life, they arent ALL of it.
I haven't had a single problem in over three years Barebacking my ATF. I'm not Married. So my ATF is pretty much my Sex Life. Although I do have a few girls (using a cover) I see on the side.

GaGambler465 reads

As one of the "old guys" here, I often have a hard time finishing without "skin on skin" contact, so starting off with a BBBJ, moving on to CFS and then back to BBBJ to finish is a pretty common for me.

Talk about a false choice. The world I want to live in is one where no one would even have to consider choosing between a BJ or CFS. From my perspective, I love partaking in both. And it can be even more of a pleasure filled experience switching back and forth and back and forth between having my kitty worked and having my throat fucked whilst my face is smothered with balls that are dripping with my own spit. That's one of the reasons why I love wearing internal condoms to allow the ease of seamlessly shifting between fun activities.

As is cumming multiple times with no time limit.  Throw in copious amounts of DATY and fingering in between BBBJ, FS, etc. And you have all the makings of an epic time.  But... in the framework of the question asked, I will stand by my answer.

it would be BBBJ. A total winner hands down if it is CIMNQNS.

Good thing that's not a choice I have ever been required to make. Starting with a BJ, then CFS and finishing (or 2nd pop) BJ is an ideal way to spend an afternoon.

ROGM549 reads

Depends on the provider I'm seeing;

My ATF- BBBJ is OK. But I go BBFSCIP with her.  

My backup ATF- Awesome BBBJ. Covered Full Service. I finish BBBJ with her and she swallows.

bonordonor502 reads

your ATF is your wife & your backup ATF is your daughter?

GaGambler394 reads

Having your wife as your ATF that is. lol

I think an awesome BBBJ is the icing on the cake.  If I had to choose I'd go with CFS, I mean it's the reason we see the lady right?  I sometimes excuse a provider who doesn't offer BBBJ because at the end of the day I'm there to bang.

OuNoU812316 reads

How do people even blow a load with CFS? A quality BBBJ all the way!

Posted By: emsjhs2009

As far as I'm concerned, the bj is only the appetizer for the main course. I'm not there for a bj. I'm there for her and all of her.

To take her. To be in her. To make her mine.  

God it's a lovely thing!

For the aesthetics and eroticiscm, covered intercourse is way better. But for the tactile sensations on genitalia, bbbj is way better. I'd have to say I much prefer bbbj, because fs covered for me is like trying to fuck a pool of warm water.  

Posted By: emsjhs2009

It is just so boring. Why wouldn't talk about arts, literature, music here? Ok, in the context of the hobby. Who can recommend me a book about sex life of different species? By a good biologist preferably. Thank you.

Symphonies are often depressing or over pompous. Not bad to f*ck to baroque though. xo

choose. Come on, man! No more short stays, OK? Book the time for both!!  

Alright, alright, I'll play by the rules (although it pains me to do so): The baby batter belongs in the baby box [sic]. CFS all the way.

More sensation vs. less sensation. How tough is that to choose?  God I miss the early 80's when you'd ask a gal "are you safe/on the pill?"

ROGM295 reads

Most guys that responded to this posting prefer to go BBFSCIP. About time you guys finally admitted it.

LedZep4382 reads

CFS is fine, but I lose so much sensitivity that I rarely can finish that way.  I can feel snugness and heat, but I can't feel smoothness or wetness.  Those last 2 are the turn-on for me.  

Some women are really good at FS, some at BJs, and some at both.  I'll take whatever is better, though generally prefer the silkiness of a sexy mouth, lips, and tongue.  I must note that I have had some bad BJs, including from the top ranked provider in a certain major city.  She had a small mouth and nice teeth, but there was so much dental contact that I was wounded.  BJs should NOT be painful!

I have to admit, I rarely blow my load with a BJ...even when I was younger.  There ARE exceptions though! :-)  Switching from BJ to FS back to BJ works too.  When I've done this the second BJ is "mutual-" we both work it.  I jerk a bit and she does her thing.  We alternate back and forth until I blow and sometimes her and I will work it together.

D.

Some providers don't have a clue about how to do one satisfactorily. They are all over the place with actions that do nothing but distract.

Happily, I've found that many providers are indeed skilled at doing it gracefully and will respond well to coaching during the act. In my case, I keep asking them to slow down the frequency of the back-and-forth. I'm a 0.5 Hz guy -- whereas many gals tend to be high-frequency oscillators!

Smiling up during the act is crucial.

I don't care if they spit. Frankly, I think it's more healthful for all concerned if they do spit

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