I recentlu started sessioning with a bodybuilder / model girl who lives near me. She is very UTR -, no ads or reviews and in the very first session with her when I said "let's fuck now" she climbed onto me with condom. I never do this sessions with ter girls, but it felt great and I went with it. Saw her again last week for two hours, two pops both with no condom. That time i ask her if she was using birth control and she said yes.
Am I crazy to keep doing this? I love this girl, she is pure physical perfection for me. Her GFE skills are very high, maybe not the best I have seen, but very good. I can't wait to see her again, but I let her set the times, seems like we are setup for every two or three weeks. Funny what can happen in the hobby
In private life, I think we have all gotten carried away on a date or something in our youth. But, with the hobby - not just no! If a relationship starts (extended sugardaddy/sugarbaby type thing) I can see it - been there, done that. I would never on a first/second/etc date or meeting with anyone close to being a provider.
Of course it feels good! Isn't that the reason we get into serious relationships?
If she is sleeping with you without a condom she's likely doing it with others.If you want to participate in high risk activities,I recommend you to get tested on a regular basis.Stay safe!
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As long as you realize 4 things:
1. You aren't the only man (civie or hobbyist) she's fucking bareback!
2. You don't mind the probability of contracting STD/STI's!
3. You realize IF she's actually using birth control, it doesn't always work!
4. You are thinking with your LITTLE head, not your BIG one!
Am I crazy to keep doing this? I love this girl, she is pure physical perfection for me. Her GFE skills are very high, maybe not the best I have seen, but very good. I can't wait to see her again, but I let her set the times, seems like we are setup for every two or three weeks. Funny what can happen in the hobby
Exactly. I can't believe this still comes up as a topic on ALL the hobby boards. Always cover that shit up. At least when they ask he helps me build a list of who NOT to see.
What's the worst that can happen?
There are antibiotics for most infections.
I'm sure you know that she's also going BBFS with all the other guys she's seeing. But then I guess you're going BBFS with all the gals you're seeing.
I guess you can also be named in a paternity suit in a year or so.
Good news for you however. We love the entire family at Walt Disney World.
Am I crazy to keep doing this? I love this girl, she is pure physical perfection for me. Her GFE skills are very high, maybe not the best I have seen, but very good. I can't wait to see her again, but I let her set the times, seems like we are setup for every two or three weeks. Funny what can happen in the hobby
Especially Goofy
There are antibiotics for most infections.
I'm sure you know that she's also going BBFS with all the other guys she's seeing. But then I guess you're going BBFS with all the gals you're seeing.
I guess you can also be named in a paternity suit in a year or so.
Good news for you however. We love the entire family at Walt Disney World.
Am I crazy to keep doing this? I love this girl, she is pure physical perfection for me. Her GFE skills are very high, maybe not the best I have seen, but very good. I can't wait to see her again, but I let her set the times, seems like we are setup for every two or three weeks. Funny what can happen in the hobby
Are Walter and Wally perhaps affiliated?
You guys are all hilarious. Some good advice there too. Should I ask her if she is going bareback with others?
her if she is BB with others. You will feel a lot more comfortable when she looks you in the eye and says, "No, honey. Just with you." It will sound especially sincere because she says it often.
To answer your question, Yes, I think you're crazy. I know it seems like 'fun' but the risks are not worth it. I have talked with a couple of providers who ended up pregnant, and also the reprocussions are there for the men too.
moved past crazy and gone on to insane. First appointment? And you didn't even bring it up first? Dude, you should be looking up STD's on the internet so you will recognize the symptoms of the ones you get. Just my opinion. Others may think differently, especially if their brain is being eaten by syphilis.
Don't do BBFS with a provider period! ( or civvie strange for that matter)
Use a female condom, it is almost like BBFS really
Get tested I would say. If it's normal for her to just hop on a random sans coverage then you're not her only sexual partner :/
Heard of hiv or AIDS ???? yikes
When AIDs started, they expected prostitutes to become a major transmitter. It did not turn out that way. At least in the US transmission to men from women is minimal (though probably not zero).
As a guy who has participated in BB before (and so far never caught anything), I will agree that it is not worth the worries or getting some disease.
But the risk of HIV is way down in the list of probabilities.
If both of you are fine with it and know the risks enjoy it. I have a UTR girl I see Bareback. More than three years seeing her I've had no problems or issues.
Imagine when you fall in love with someone, and you have to tell her that you have HIV.
P.S. You think she will tell you the truth if you ask her if she does BB with others? lo
Heterosexual transmission of HIV from intercourse is rare, more so in transmission from female to male
That was the tremor of a thousand escorts putting you on their DNS list.
Exactly.
To the OP: You sir are a total fucktard...UTR?? The STD rate among single civie people in many large market areas is over 25%..and you stick your lil curse into a paid girl without a wrapper...Someone is truly an idiot.
WOW!
Completely bullshit stat for midtown NYC. Might be true in a 'large market area' like downtown Bangkok.
Of course condoms are safer, but the odds of catching an STD from anyone is nowhere near as dire as the chicken-littles would have you believe.
Read this for some clarity http://markmanson.net/std-guide.
Now that there is funny.
To the OP: You sir are a total fucktard...UTR?? The STD rate among single civie people in many large market areas is over 25%..and you stick your lil curse into a paid girl without a wrapper...Someone is truly an idiot.
WOW!
Understand the risks and decide what you can live with.
Reading through the posts below, most make sense. I have seen several providers who do bareback. I always love the experience and hate the worries afterwards. I get tested and have never caught anything (full STD screening)
A few responded that you will catch HIV. This is highly unlikely. In the US, transmission of HIV from women to health men is very very low to almost non-existent. Herpes, Syphilis, Gonorrhea, etc... are far more contagious though.
A few things will help the odds.
Always make sure she has no sores.
Make sure you have no sores or cuts on your penis or in your mouth.
I always soak my penis with alcohol afterwards (burns like hell, have cold water available to rinse).
Always pee afterwards (urine is a great disinfectant)
Best advice (something that I need to tell myself more often), is to keep it safe and use a condom. Or get her to be exclusive with you (and then both of you get tested)
Get her to be exclusive ... I almost pissed myself laughing.
Get her to be exclusive .... Now there's an idea!
Understand the risks and decide what you can live with.
Reading through the posts below, most make sense. I have seen several providers who do bareback. I always love the experience and hate the worries afterwards. I get tested and have never caught anything (full STD screening)
A few responded that you will catch HIV. This is highly unlikely. In the US, transmission of HIV from women to health men is very very low to almost non-existent. Herpes, Syphilis, Gonorrhea, etc... are far more contagious though.
A few things will help the odds.
Always make sure she has no sores.
Make sure you have no sores or cuts on your penis or in your mouth.
I always soak my penis with alcohol afterwards (burns like hell, have cold water available to rinse).
Always pee afterwards (urine is a great disinfectant)
Best advice (something that I need to tell myself more often), is to keep it safe and use a condom. Or get her to be exclusive with you (and then both of you get tested)