I don't have much experience.  That's why I'm hiring me some tutors!

In general you're right.......guys shouldn't be looking to date or marry a provider but I do know of 3 girls who did marry a client (2 are now divorced)  And for example, I've never had an appt with someone 20 years younger than me, I'm mid 40's and the biggest gap was a fav of mine who is 36,  Everybody plays this game a bit different, Just have fun, forget the bitterness

I can only speak for me.

I have had plenty of experience's with women thank you very much. Some positive some not so much.
You don't know anyone here from a hole in the wall. just because we are portrayed as something doesn't mean that's who we truly are.

Until you sit me down at a table and have a conversation with me you have no idea the type of person I am. My references adore me. The people that I have met are better for having the opportunity to spend some time with me and the same goes for me towards them. I have never fell in love with anyone here and I go at my pace. You might think I am an idiot doing this wrong but did you know that I only started this after losing the love of my life at 30. Never cheated on anyone I have ever been with. I take care of my aging parents and paid a nice chunk of my sisters wedding to give her a dream wedding.  

Who the fuck are you to judge us?

I have dated some amazing women. I hit a rough batch and decided to give myself a year in this world to see if it caters to my needs. I hope to learn more about me thru the hobby and won't be here long term.  

I can tell you I dated a neurologist a Broadway Actress and a dentist. You don't date those type of girls if your not special or good with your game.  

If you want to be condescending find another room. I don't want to hear this shit.

Have a good night.  
Z

a warm human experience with an attractive woman.  On a number of occasions in the past, some of these have blossomed into friendship and a wonderful familiarity.  Many times where the only difference between my experience with a certain provider was little different from my experience with a friend with benefit except I would give her money at the beginning.  
I some how have much less free time now than I used to so, while I have greatly enjoyed a number of the women I have met during this period of activity, none of these meetings has had a chance to blossom like that, tho there were a few which certainly could have if I were free enough and we lived in the same cities

... that a beautiful, sexy woman, model material even, would have anything to do with a guy 20+ years older!  Nah, we're not Prince Charming.  

But wait a minute there...

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is that there's a little bit of everything here.  For the johns, it ranges from Jeffrey Dahmer to Christian Gray and for the girls, the range is like Alleen Wuomos to Vivian Ward and beyond.  The range is too wide to make any real sweeping conclusions.  

I have plenty of experience, having well over 100 civvie encounters, most of which happened when I was between 16 and 30.  Being in my 40's and with an SO, I'll just say my looks and game isn't bad, but they're not getting any better either.  Like GaG has said, I consider myself at this point to be "not repulsive".  

I like hookers, because it's the easiest way for me to satisfy my sexual appetite and seriously avoid RL "affair" type drama.  I find, that I actually tend to click with hookers for some reason.

I actually believe that there is a fair amount of real attraction in this P4P world.  I don't follow rules. am horny, and I like pleasing and being pleased by dirty girls who fuck really good.  I have no hang ups about girls who like to fuck guys for money nor do I mind paying.  In fact, I'm attracted to women who are able to become that confident and empowered.  I believe there are a fair amount of girls here who genuinely like and are even somewhat attracted to non-repulsive, twisted guys who don't judge and also fuck good.  

I see it somewhat like swinging.  The majority of the population out there is so close minded, they cannot wrap their head around the concept of swinging.  It's an absolute deal breaker, won't even consider the thought.  But then there is this faction of people (men, women and couples) who have somehow overcome all of that and are completely cool with it and have discovered this amazingly tantalizing world.  It's "this" type of personality I click with the most and I think "this" type of personality bleeds into P4P as well and when those "couples" find one another, genuine attraction DOES happen.  From there, there is a seemingly infinite number of possibilities as to what happens next.

I haven't noticed a rash of clients on here saying they've fallen in love with providers recently. Overall, I've probably seen providers say they have feelings for a client almost as often as I've seen clients say they've fallen for a provider. I said almost.  

More importantly, why do you give a fuck what other guys do with their cocks or hearts, lol? So random. Just do your thing the way you do your thing. Who cares what everyone else is doing? LOL! So freaking weird to me when people wanna critique how others hobby.

As was said, why you bitter? I don't know the first thing about you and I'm not jumping to conclusions, but I do see why your post would raise suspicions that you gave your heart to a provider and she stomped on it.

Don't worry, as we progress scientifically we can start a cloning program which can clone millions of extra hot women so then we won't have to pay.  They may have to start paying us, in fact...  It's only a matter of time so we are just seeing providers in the interim.  

In fact I have given up on real world dating and much prefer to date someone I meet as a client.. I know of a few girls that have also married a client..

Single guys don't always have 'no game'.. more often then not they are just time poor due to their careers etc etc

Oh... I'm thanking you already.  

After your (amazingly astute) and completely subjective analysis of why any/every dude does this, I'm curious about your insight on why us dude-ets do...(ya know----us girls). Is it because we've only had a wife to have sex with, and then she stopped? Or, are we single and have no game and have to pay escorts to ever have sex?  

I'm trying to contain my emotions..but being a girl and all,....you sound like a guy who can really get me back on the right path. So... you think I should "just fuck the escorts, pay them and find another shiny new toy tomorrow"?

Whatever the rude truth is,...and, I'm sure you do hate to break it to me. But....I'm sitting down. So, let-er rip.  

 
 Fellas, if you had lots of experience wouldn't you tend to look at this differently?  Seems that so many guys only had a wife to have sex with, and then she stopped.  And the single guys have no game and have to pay escorts to ever have sex.  
   
 Nothing wrong with paying escorts, but please try and contain your emotions.  I am certain the escorts don't love you, and probably don't even like you aside from getting paid.  This craziness of falling in love with them is hilarious to read.  I am sure that many of the dudes are really lonely, and latch on to an escort because she was nice to him.  But c'mon guys, it's just an illusion.  Think about it for a minute.  
   
 Why in the hell would a 25 year old woman who is decent looking consider getting involved with guys 20+ years older than her?  That movie always ends the same way.  Just fuck the escorts, pay them and find another shiny new toy tomorrow.  I hate to break it to you guys, but you're NOT Prince Charming.  
   
 You'll thank me later.

What makes you so sure...

A better question than " why do YOU do this" might be ..." uhhh , who are you , again"....lo

Because it's a cheaper release than a wife and with the money he saves he can buy a bigger and badder scooter? One with extra flags!!!!

Everybody believes a braggart. The way hookers chase you I would think you could get the sex for free from civvies without having a relationship.

The more insecure a woman is, the more her need to CONTROL you and what you do with your dick, the more her "Lack-Of-Worthiness will boil up and over when she doesn't get her way.