Masturbate and continue to stroke it for at least one minute after you cum or missing out. You need to be laying or sitting so when you ejaculate it just stays all over the shaft so while you continue to stroke it you just get wetter and wetter.  

Simply put, when I masturbate I think of someone that I want to make love to and then think about what we would do or I think about a specific time I made love. I like most men have masturbated in many ways, positions, etc.... but fantasizing or re-living a great session while continuing to stroke and feel all of the warm cum is incredible. Don't get me wrong it is nothing like truly great sex but masturbating and shooting on a towel or your chest or or or ...... doesn't compare to handling it this way.  

Ladies, when you stroke your man (not in this world) with the mindset you will make him cum that way, do you feel stroking as I describe after he cums makes it hotter or do you have a better idea?