Saw an ad on SB site. She will do anything to raise money for her dialysis treatments. Guilt trip angle or true story.
don't seriously entertain SB sites. I like to cruise them for entertainment, but I would not enter into any sort of SB relationship.
The beauty of the provider/hobbyist relationship is the honesty, simplicity and realness of the arrangement. I view SB's as upsellers, you may get a few good times for a bargain, but there is much truth to the following saying: if something sounds too good to be true, it most probably is.
I'm sure that there are a few lucky guys/gals who the SB/SD thing has worked out for, but at the end of the day she's doing it to get paid, so there's always going to be something going on behind the scenes or other motivations for the SB.
In P4P, you get X amount of time for X amount of dollars, and then you part company, and that is fucking beautiful/perfect. No bullshit, no drama, no further expectations, no worries. Each party gets what they want, it's so simple that its perfect.
It's just that not all guys know how to work it properly, or care to for that matter.
I fucked an SB yesterday, she had reached out to me a couple of days ago, she needed money for something, I can't remember what it was as the reason was really unimportant to me, well yesterday I had the time and the urge, I hit her back up and well less than an hour later we were between the sheets. Come to think of it I don't even remember her name, nor do I really expect to talk to her again until i feel the "urge" once again, just like a hooker. See how simple it can be? lol
BTW once we were done fucking, she didn't seem to be too eager for any chit chat, and neither did I, I of course being a bit drunk after golf, so by the time she had got out of the shower I was dressed and ready to leave, so that's exactly what I did, just like any other session with a hooker. I like it when a plan comes together. lol
as opposed to getting stopped and going to jail for "crooked driving" while drunk on the road. lol
I would hit a provisional then look for 5 minutes max...lol
and yesterday, despite consuming most of a bottle of vodka while playing, I managed to finish the round with the same ball I started with. I will confess to playing from the Sissy (white) tees yesterday. Golf is a LOT easier for a drunk like me when playing a course at about 6,400 yds rather than the 7,100 yards it measures from the tips. lol
What's the difference between a man looking for a golf ball and looking for the G spot?
He'll take five minutes to look for the golf ball!
The statement above is a ridiculous pollyanna description of the hobby. This board provides many examples of how dishonest, complex and manipulative the hobby can be.
One can only stare in wonder at the statement above. Where do you think you are? Welcome to the TER Discussion Boards, where there are hundreds of posts about hobby bullshit, hobby drama, and hobby manipulation (from both sides). Stop randomly typing whatever pops into your head. --z
ok, except the "real" world is full of dishonest, complex and manipulative people too. At least here, there are some guidelines to go by. I am wondering if guys just enjoy the Fantasy of what it is that they're dreaming of, or like russbbj, enjoy skipping the games and go directly to what it is that each of us want. Two different types of guys here.
ps., z... I know I'm new here and all, but I'm pretty sure it's not a good idea to tell people what to do. It's really two sides of the coin. Enjoy the Beauty of the Differences.
And, you have a FEAR of being wrong.
It's All Good! Make it a Happy Day Love!
From russbbj's post:
"The beauty of the provider/hobbyist relationship is the honesty, simplicity and realness of the arrangement."~russbbj
I like the way you think.