It seems to me that one of the top subjects on this board is GFE. I realize that the term means different things to different people, but overall it really seems to be the focus of many reviews and posts.
The reason I ask, isn't because I care what other people want, but more so because it's a level of intimacy I don't think I'm ready for. Don't get me wrong, I'd enjoy some flirting and conversation - I don't want a robot. I'm just not into the "deep passionate kissing" that so many covet.
I'm sure some can't understand how you could engage in sexual experience with someone, but think kissing is too personal, but that's OK - it's just kind of how I feel.
What do you all think? How do you let someone know without offending them?
That's the thing - I'm not looking for "smash and dash" (Hell, I'd never even be able to say that to a person).
can't wait to see that menu option on your next ad!
Pre-appointment prep is so much easier when you don't need to brush your teeth.
I'm pretty sure a provider won't be offended if you don't want to kiss. Might be a bit difficult if you are a provider and your client wants it.
kiss - yes, without tongue
'nuff said!
Me? I want everything I'm supposed to get, just like with a prix fixe meal. If the menu says the GFE comes with tongue, I want the tongue.
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I've seen clients write that they prefer a good mechanic with a friendly but arm's length distance attitude towards the goings-on, and that is perfectly understandable.
As for myself however, I prefer to lose myself to the moment, and the more passion the better; though I'll admit that from time to time I've gotten more than I bargained for.
As for myself however, I prefer to lose myself to the moment, and the more passion the better; though I'll admit that from time to time I've gotten more than I bargained for.;
They're out there! 
Or try to find someone who will discuss "details" a little bit prior to meeting face-to-face. Because if you do meet a GFE lady without telling her of your preference in advance, and you pull away when she goes in for a kiss..... it can be an awkward moment.
And sometimes.... it's hard to click after that.
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I'n sure she won't mind. After all it's your dime and time. She might be "grateful".....ya never know.
when you meet you are not into kissing nothing about her but it's just not your thing.
Not every gent likes kissing some don't do it at all or just a closed mouth peck.
I wouldn't be offended.
We won't be offended....just like we wouldn't be if you wanted CBJ instead of BBBJ.
Good luck! 
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Just so the provider is aware and won't be thrown off guard, especially if she gives GFE. I usually ask my gentlemen what their desires are while finalizing plans for our time together, so I can tailor my entertainment to meet their needs.
But overall, I personally wouldn't be offended if a gentleman didn't want to kiss. Whatever floats his boat!
kissing at all. Also, there are guys that only want CBJ. To each his own.
Every guy has his preferences and the better encounters are when the guy's preferences match-up better with a provider's menu.
If it's strictly kissing that bothers you, just tell them.
Non Gfe normally means CBJ, no DFK and no Daty. If you want non gfe there are plenty of girls out there at much less than TER prices. See if your regional area has a board.
What are "non-GFE" prices? I've never seen that one used.
I've noticed it occasionally when I see a super hot woman with lower than average rates and review scores, almost every time when I check her profile I find she only offers CBJ and no DFK and that's what keeps her in the sub $300 price range.
OTM is actually correct about this. If GFE is not something you covet, why pay the extra money for it?
So you have money left over to get your nails done too ...
OTM is actually correct about this. If GFE is not something you covet, why pay the extra money for it?
You kind of suck at it
Do what you you like it's just that simple. Just because I love making out doesn't mean I will be rude to you because you don't.
Nothing turns me on more than making out with a gal.
The reason I ask, isn't because I care what other people want, but more so because it's a level of intimacy I don't think I'm ready for. Don't get me wrong, I'd enjoy some flirting and conversation - I don't want a robot. I'm just not into the "deep passionate kissing" that so many covet.
I'm sure some can't understand how you could engage in sexual experience with someone, but think kissing is too personal, but that's OK - it's just kind of how I feel.
What do you all think? How do you let someone know without offending them?
None of us would be even remotely offended if you just explained what you've said here. That you like the look of us but arent looking for any kind of intimate service but more of a smash and dash thing. I like a frantic quickie as much as the next man )
As many have said here, most GFE ladies will be happy to give you less than GFE if that is what you request, but you will still pay them the same amount. They charge by time not service. On the other hand, as OTM said, there are a lot of hot non GFE gals out there that charge lower rates. Why not seek them out if that's what you want. Search and read reviews.
...are you still looking for other activities that are considered "GFE"? Because if you're still looking for a bbbj as well as daty, you're going to have to hire a GFE provider and just tell her that you're not into kissing.
You may also want to look for providers who offer shorter periods of time, like half-hour sessions. When I used to offer half-hour sessions, it was much more "fuck on the fly" experience that often didn't include much more than the fucking itself. Lots of gals who offer GFE do also offer 30 minute sessions, though rarely ever at half the price of their hourly rate.
You've got options, for sure. As a provider, i just can't see a non-gfe (or non-kink) session going for any longer than an hour.
Hope you find what you're looking for!
If you are not comfortable with kissing, but just want to have sex, that is up to you. Not being able to kiss the woman makes everything very clinical, and just like glorified masturbation, takes all the pleasure out of it for me. If you are in the adult hobby, and feel kissing will cause you to fall in love with the service provider, then find another hobby or grow up. And, I am guessing the service provider would not be offended if you just told her you do not do the kissing thing.
Awesome! Any guy that doesn't like or want a provider that does GFE, there has to be something wrong with you.
Im still learning what all the a acronyms are, but for me, I'm more of a conservative person and do not desire a high level of intimacy and all the positions I read in so many reviews. So to newer your question, yes, there are some of us that are not looking for GFE specifically.