There are a LOT of prejudices in the hobby; this is one that, quite frankly, I feel is both harmful AND stupid.  
(Many are just stupid.)

 
Yes, I've known people to say that TS providers are far more likely to engage in unsafe sex than others.... but I personally have no knowledge of this.  I HAVE known more than a few gg providers who do BBFS with their regulars.  

Who's to say which group is doing it more often?  Certainly not me.  

And I don't see any of us providers raising our hands to allow researchers from the CDC to witness & document our activities for the purpose of gaining accurate study results on this issue.  

Anyway, it sucks you have to deal with it!  Hopefully, times are a-changing.... and sooner rather than later!  

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