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Re: Don't worry, she doesn't want to have your baby.
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Posted By: cocktail-party
Are you that clueless about the lifetime of responsibility that having a kid entails?! Any woman with half a brain is not going to take that on in the hopes of securing some meager child support payments (which is still no certainty for her after a protracted legal battle, denial of paternity, and skipped payments by YOU).
Good point

Would you do this activity with a provider-assuming you are ok with the other considerations about Bbfs with a provider who sees others-if you are wealthy and she knows it? How about a girlfriend? How do you know they are on the pill?

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Posted By: utheryeats
Would you do this activity with a provider-assuming you are ok with the other considerations about Bbfs with a provider who sees others-if you are wealthy and she knows it? How about a girlfriend? How do you know they are on the pill?
 
I see a provider BBFSCIP. I've known her for a few years. So I know she's good. Does she see her other clients BBFSCIP? I'd say no. I've never had an issue or problem with her.

Do you really trust her that much she won't have a child? She past menopause? That's 18 years of indentured servitude for you if you miscalculated.
 

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Posted By: utheryeats
Would you do this activity with a provider-assuming you are ok with the other considerations about Bbfs with a provider who sees others-if you are wealthy and she knows it? How about a girlfriend? How do you know they are on the pill?
   
   
 I see a provider BBFSCIP. I've known her for a few years. So I know she's good. Does she see her other clients BBFSCIP? I'd say no. I've never had an issue or problem with her.

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Posted By: utheryeats
Do you really trust her that much she won't have a child? She past menopause? That's 18 years of indentured servitude for you if you miscalculated.  
   
   
Posted By: ROGM
 
     
Posted By: utheryeats
Would you do this activity with a provider-assuming you are ok with the other considerations about Bbfs with a provider who sees others-if you are wealthy and she knows it? How about a girlfriend? How do you know they are on the pill?
 
     
     
  I see a provider BBFSCIP. I've known her for a few years. So I know she's good. Does she see her other clients BBFSCIP? I'd say no. I've never had an issue or problem with her.
 
After seeing her for over three years she's never gotten pregnant or had an STD. After three years I would have known a long time ago. So far zero issues or problems.

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That's why none of them have kids. Sheesh, do I have to teach you everything??? lol

Fair point.  

Posted By: GaGambler
That's why none of them have kids. Sheesh, do I have to teach you everything??? lol

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If you guys were offered BBFSCIP with a provider, I'll bet most of you would go for it. You guys that stand up on your soapbox ranting that BBFS is wrong and dangerous are full of crap. At least I admit going BBFSCIP with my current provider.

Mscurious472 reads

Whoever does bbfs with a provider is nuts crazy insane whatever you wanna call it!find yourself a civie hookup if you want bbfs.civvie women don't go through hundreds of men a year

Because civvie hookups are not protected most of the time, who knows how many unprotected sex partner she's had. He's more at risk because if he encounters a slut. He'll get something ;) civvie sluts are dirty. Mehehehe  


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Posted By: Mscurious
Whoever does bbfs with a provider is nuts crazy insane whatever you wanna call it!find yourself a civie hookup if you want bbfs.civvie women don't go through hundreds of men a year
 
So civie girls don't go through as many men as a provider. OK I'll buy that. But does that make civie girls safer than a provider for BBFSCIP sex?  

At this point I'd rather see my BBFSCIP provider over a civie girl at a social event or bar.

at who has HIV and all kinds of STDs. My best friend works at a place that specializes in STD and HIV. And everyone and their grandma comes in HIV positive! The stories she tells me about cheating spouses(men and women) having BBFS, blows me away! In other words, be careful out there people! Teens to seniors catch diseases of all sorts! Way to dangerous to be having BBFSCIP with anyone!!  
Unless u wanna die of course  

#justsayin


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Posted By: Dallas_texan
My best friend works at a place that specializes in STD and HIV.
where the government wants to abolish abortion but they (somewhere) have a place that specializes in disease.

Are you that clueless about the lifetime of responsibility that having a kid entails?! Any woman with half a brain is not going to take that on in the hopes of securing some meager child support payments (which is still no certainty for her after a protracted legal battle, denial of paternity, and skipped payments by YOU).

Posted By: cocktail-party
Are you that clueless about the lifetime of responsibility that having a kid entails?! Any woman with half a brain is not going to take that on in the hopes of securing some meager child support payments (which is still no certainty for her after a protracted legal battle, denial of paternity, and skipped payments by YOU).
Good point

USA Illegitimacy rate by race:

72% Blacks
53% Hispanics  
29% Whites
17% Asians
41% national average

I'm not sure "wanting" or "half a brain" covers it.  So cover it.

BlueeyeJack537 reads

I have had bbfs with several SB's over the past several years and require testing (for both) before.  My last SB wanted a baby and stopped taking the pill which caused me to withdrawal.  No more kids for me!

So I don't need to worry about getting anyone pregnant.  However, that still leaves the problem of STDs.  And compounding that problem is that some STDs can be passed even if you're wearing a condom.  So I'm going to play it safe and leave the au natural (barebacking) to SOs.

had one 6 years ago. best thing I ever did for my sex life.  I use protection to prevent STDs, but love the added peace of mind that i won't be involved in a baby momma drama

ROGM516 reads

The same guys who are so adamant against BBFSCIP are the same ones sending me private messages asking who the provider I'm seeing is. Talk about Hypocritical. Say one thing on the board to impress the ladies. But do the opposite.  

 
If you don't like BBFSCIP use a condom. But don't rant against those that like BBFSCIP.  

I'm not revealing who my provider is. So you guys can stop sending me private messages asking who she is.

They're asking so they can avoid her, not so they can get bareback action

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Posted By: vantheman666
They're asking so they can avoid her, not so they can get bareback action.  
 
 
Yeah right! LOL!!!!!! If you believe that then you must believe that Santa Claus exists. LOL!!!!!!

Even if a provider offered BBFSCIP here's an Einstein Idea, use a condom. I'm sure she won't object.

Posted By: utheryeats
Would you do this activity with a provider-assuming you are ok with the other considerations about Bbfs with a provider who sees others-if you are wealthy and she knows it? How about a girlfriend? How do you know they are on the pill?
i have gone bbfs with several providers and bbfscip with a couple. I am clean and tested and have never had an STD in 20 years of mongering.

I never push the subject. If she says no, then I don't ask twice. But there is nothing like the bare feeling

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