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But out of 8 civies I got 3 STDs (if you include crab lice.)

That's telling me something

Has anyone ever contracted an STD or infection from an escort? I've always practiced safe sex when I see a provider. But I am concerned about the little genital rubbing that can occur during the 4-play and the possible transmission of fluids. I've read that the risk factor is low since HIV degenerates fast under open air. Love to get any feedback.

It's a legit question as to rate of occurrence.

ThePeopleRule539 reads

In the 12 years since I joined TER, I have been with around 80 providers, including around 10 in Tijuana, and and have always tested negative.

I have sessioned two TER providers in their 50's who swallow (and talked with a 3d online) and they told me their tests have always been negative.

People here have cited CDC and other sites as to the dangers.  What does one think government agencies are going to say:  "The risk is not high, do what you want"?  Since they are spending tax dollars on disease control the standard information is to avoid unprotected sex.

Okay thanks. Because I'm only worried about possibility from genital rubbing. Every time I've wrapped and the provider told me they were clean. But thanks for the reassurance.

Skyfyre338 reads

Of course the OVERWHELMING incentive from the power-that-be is to discourage any remotely risky sex with SCARE TACTICS by exaggerating and over-emphasize risks no matter how small.

So expect to be scared shitless if one goes to any source of "official" source or for that matter, semi-official.  

The smart and savvy hobbyists know how to look at circumstantial evidences around them to come to more accurate picture of risks.

For example, how many people here remember and/or realize that for a while sex was completely unprotected in prostitution-legal Nevada? I started my hobby with the brothels of Nevada when the only protection used to be soap and a bucket of water for before and after the session.  

And for a long time nothing drastic ever happened to the Nevada sex industry until the AID scare forced the use of condoms.

passed on to me from the hubby that he go from a vegas provider.......even WITH protection it can happen!! lucky for me it was easily fixed.

Posted By: pbruin
Has anyone ever contracted an STD or infection from an escort? I've always practiced safe sex when I see a provider. But I am concerned about the little genital rubbing that can occur during the 4-play and the possible transmission of fluids. I've read that the risk factor is low since HIV degenerates fast under open air. Love to get any feedback.

I don't believe there exists any data from CDC or other source related to US escorts that indicates the risk is any greater or any less than sex in any other form or demographic.

In other words, the general population sex risks INCLUDE data for escorts but do NOT call out data for escorts. Anything else, including stories from people on good ole TER are just anecdotal. Anecdotally speaking, I test quarterly and have never tested positive for anything. Anecdotally, the increased awareness and use of safer sex techniques in the hobby means risks are lower than for the general population.

You can accept the risks of sexual activity and take the precautions you believe are real and responsible, but you can only control your OWN behavior - not that of others.  

As a point of propriety, did you ever consider asking whether any escort has gotten an STD from a client

ThePeopleRule385 reads

Of the 80-some providers I have sessioned, probably around 70 provided BBBJ and I have "provided" DATY to probably 70.  The few massage providers I have seen are the exceptions.

But out of 8 civies I got 3 STDs (if you include crab lice.)

That's telling me something

Doesn't escort pussy, in most cases, taste better and is more fragrant than partners IRL.

I think so, and thank our escorts for taking such good care of their .... piggy bank. Licks and Kisses.

Sorry I don't tend to practice safe sex, but most of the gals seem to be fine with bbfs.  Been doing this for years.

Posted By: Walter.Disney
Sorry I don't tend to practice safe sex, but most of the gals seem to be fine with bbfs.  Been doing this for years.

Posted By: Walter.Disney
Sorry I don't tend to practice safe sex, but most of the gals seem to be fine with bbfs.  Been doing this for years.
Likewise with me. If I find a reliable BBFS provider with a good reputation, I will stick with her.

Get a full screening at least once a year. Never had an STD

never used a condom.  He was this New York Italian guy who thought he was God's gift to woman.  And he just might have been.  We lived in Silicon Valley and he was bringing home three or 4 women home every week.  He never contracted anything in the year or so we were living together.  Then we went to Las Vegas and he woke me up in the middle of night to see if I had rubber.  I told him I had one in my toiletry kit.  He used.  And re-used it.  He banged this hooker for almost two hours and he would take it off and on in between intercourse and blowjobs.  

We got back home to San Jose and he started pissing razor blades.  At least I was able to get a good night's sleep for a couple of weeks while he recovered and didn't bring home anyone so I didn't have to hear those screamers or the bedboard hitting the wall.

I have been active since age 13 and for many periods in my life VERY active. I will soon be 75 and I am tested regularly and always after seeing someone new for the first time.  I have never had an STD. I know at least 3 other men on TER who can make essentially the same statement.

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Sorry but it really is a silly question. First off do you really anybody to come forward admitting that yes they got STD from escort? Not that it necessarily was 100% proven the connection between the escort and her client.

Secondly if one or two guys came forward to say yes how do you know for sure they are not lying? that they may have ulterior motive to try to scare you?

Thirdly, and if that is true how does that change your thinking/behavior?  

Afterall we all know there's a percentage of risk involving in the hobby so a few cases out of millions of encounters are to be expected.

What's more important is that for today's modern medicine there's treatment and cure for pretty much all STDs in the worst case scenario.

Even with the once feared AID there are now people living just fine with it as long as they take medication. It is no longer such a horrible and dreadful fate it used to be

ROGM397 reads

Nope. Not in three years since I've been seeing my current provider. And I go BBFSCIP with her.

HofFer317 reads

After seeing a provider that used a condom with Nonoxynol, I took a yeast infection home and gave it to my SO.

At least she (SO) thinks I gave it to her, not ever sure I ever convinced her that it originated with her.

Don't know if it was a coincidence that it showed up a week or so after my visit with said provider. Since then, avoided condoms with Nonoxynol. If that is the only type condom she had, just skip FS and finish with BJ or HJ

There's a vanishingly small chance to get an std from a high quality, reviewed ter provider whose mouth and genitals you examine before action.

ThePeopleRule345 reads

Posted By: utheryeats
There's a vanishingly small chance to get an std from a high quality, reviewed ter provider whose mouth and genitals you examine before action.
Is this what you ask providers to do?

I push bare dicks away from my leg if it's even close to my lady parts...  

I don't want those germs on me. Oh god...

Mmmmmm...ss...with my g-string on! You can still feel how hard and warm we both are. Oh the tease!

STD are indeed very real , and yes you can get them , luckily most are curable , some  
are treatable and one totally sucks.  

When I started fucking around I was getting tested every month and freaking out over std's
certainly I'm no expert hobbyist  in this group after all I have been very active in this hobby only for 16 months or so, where I know many of our friends here have been in it for maybe 16 years +
I see lots of them say the same thing , yes std's are real , and this notion that hookers are dirty  
is I believe absolutely false , and usually brought up by wives that just hate the idea of hookers cause they fear their man will be more interested in hookers then them . ( rightfully so in my opinion ) I think higher end prostitutes such as on TER , are less likely to give you HIV , or Gonorrhea or Chlamydia , I figure they know what they are doing and are very well aware  
of STD's maybe even better then men . Obviously I am not talking about skin to skin conditions  
such as HPV or HSV 1,2 which most people have weather they know it or not , Including you :)

 
But I Here are some odds of contracting these most common STD ,

HSV 1 ( Herpes )odds are 4 in 5 People have it           Treatable                Condom will not protect
HSV 2 ( Herpes )odds are 1 in 5 People have it           Treatable                Condom will not protect
HPV (High-Risk Strains)    1 in 4 people have it           NOT CURABLE         Condom will not protect
Chlamydia                       1 in 36                               Curable                  Condom protects
Gonorrhea                       1 in 176                             Curable                  Condom protects
Syphilis                           1 in 1841                           Curable                  Condom will not protect
HIV                                 1 in 1250                           YOUR SCREWD       Condom protects

So here you have it boys and girls , getting freaked out over std is not necessary ,
using common sense and condoms is the best way to stay safe.  
And one more thing , keep in mind providers are humans too , and they are afraid  
of contracting an std as much as you are , and one more they have more to loose then us  
men ( aside from our spouse lol )  , If someone gets an STD from one of them and you post it on line , their career may end right there .  One case in particular is in my mind , an agency I use had a girl for couple of days and she had a herpes sore on her mouth , one of the reviewers ( no , not me ) wrote about it and very next day she was gone.  STD is bad for business  

STAY SAFE , AND KEEP ON FUCKING !!! LO

Never caught a cold either despite the fact that several ladies either apparently had one, or warned me beforehand.  I once did, however, pull an intercostal muscle in my rib cage last fall...took over two months to heal, and the pain was 8 on a 10 scale.  Ouch!  Reminded me again why I hate soft mattresses, and that it sucks to be getting old

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