When excited and in a state of sexual excitement, that sensation take up space. Once that is gone, the torment becomes more exquisite, more intense.
I think it takes particular skill and really good empathy with the sub to do this right.
Anyone know what this is? It was posted on the fetish page of a provider that offers it.
You get off first, then you get tortured...no pesky hardon to get in the way.
K
When excited and in a state of sexual excitement, that sensation take up space. Once that is gone, the torment becomes more exquisite, more intense.
I think it takes particular skill and really good empathy with the sub to do this right.
...and I'm not sure why. A typical POT scenario is where your partner (Mistress, Top, whatever) gives you a nice long teasing hand job (usually with you restrained). Eventually, you're "allowed" to come (although sometimes even your O gets "ruined")--and then she keeps on jerking you off afterward. Since you're hyper-sensitive at that point, the stimulation is just too much, and is no longer pleasurable or exciting. You'll be begging your partner to stop: "Oh, what's the matter? First you want it desperately, and now you want me to stop? Which is it?", she'll ask faux-innocently.
It may not be your cup of tea, but there are some true freakazoids who really get off on it....not that I'd know anything about such things, myself...
I will not beat around the bush (no pun intended) again.
I should add, that this works as well with female subs, (tho I have not heard this term used when the sub is a female.) Even multi prgasmic ladies reach a point where continued simulation is "too much."
This is not a favorite of mine either to give or to receive.
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...it's known as "forced orgasm torture".
I also consider the type of torture mr. Rokk described as "forced orgasm torture" as well. I guess it's just different terminology
I, for one, would prefer to be water boarded
Post-orgasm??
I'm in, LOL !
K
Gosh, this isn't the only play I consider "post orgasm torture"...there are many times when I want the focus to be on the other activities, NOT the orgasm, so I get the orgasm out of the way first, then move on to the other activities.
I don't always want your orgasm to drive my fun
K
You have more control of the one in your power post climax. A sexually exited sub is simply not paying as much attention and not with the same urgency to your wishes as one who is post climax.
If you are a sub in a medium- or long-term "lifestyle-y" type deal, where you might not be allowed an O for days or weeks (rather than "not until the end of the sesh"), then you are just going to have to learn to channel that sexual excitement in another direction.
(Ask me how I know about stuff like this...)
This is why I love chastity...it makes my boy rethink his submission, and refocus his attention where it belongs, which is NOT on his cock. Chastity is an excellent teaching tool 
But I think chastity is different from post-orgasm torture. With chastity, there is always the chance that today might be your lucky day, while post-orgasm - you've already had the fun you were hoping for, now it's time to pony up with the fun for your Mistress, and that is a tough thing for a lot of guys to do.
K
POT scenarios are not really in the same ballpark as (non-short-term) chastity play; except inasmuch as both involve not being focused on one's own pleasure, but rather on one's dominant partner.
My bad, sorry.
and yes, I ought to be tortured for that.
8o)
Their mind is completely discombobulated---
so many sensations and then there's the throbbin bobbin..