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Re:Interesting Topic at St. Pat's dinner
Poopdeck Pappy 2254 reads
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Now let us take a look at this from another angle.

She has no problem with married men seeing escorts. She rarely has sex with you.

I may have a sick mind, never mind, it is twisted beyond repair. I am always thinking of what the other persons objectives are and in this case, I may be wrong here but this is my take.

She is either sleeping with your father or she is an escort herself. She was not giving you a green light, she is feeling you out. Determining whether or not you can handle the truth.

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So I invited my dad over for our somewhat traditional St. Patrick's Day dinner last night.  It was my dad, my SO, and myself.  My dad starts telling me about my cousins who I haven't spoken to for a couple of years.

One is in prison, and has been in and out for the past 20 years, and the other one is now moving on with her life after LEAVING THE ESCORT BUSINESS.  "What did you say I ask" as casually as I could.  

Then my dad proceeds to tell me that my cousin has been providing (he uses the term escorting) for years.  The whole family knows it, he says.  Well which freakin rock have I been under.  All these years I had an inside source for references and an open forum for Q & A on provider etique.  Why didn't I know this before, it would have made the first couple of years of my starting in this hobby a hell of a lot easier.

At this point, I am a bit stunned by the news.  Then the three of us engage in a discussion on the topic.  As I gently urge the conversation in that direction. Of course I am trying to ask naive questions as to not tip the SO off on my knowleged of the hobby, and I think I pulled it off.

So my dad, and my SO seem to think the is nothing wrong with providing and they don't have a problem with it.  I COULDN'T BELEIVE MY FREAKIN EARS.

The discussion turns to when it is justifiable for a married guy to see a provider.  My SO says she can understand a guy who doesn't get it that often at home going to see a provider to "bridge the gap."  

Now, let me digress for a moment, I refer to my SO as FB (Fridged Bitch).  We go weeks and sometimes longer between conjugal visits. That's a discussion for another day.  So the SO finds it perfectly understandable for a married guy to see a provider as opposed to having an affair.  Again, what freakin rock have I been under.

Does she not know what she is saying here - yes honey I don't put out and I think seeing a provider is understandable.  Does she not realize I just got a green light. :)  

Sorry for boring everyone with this story, but it is the kind of discussion you just can't share with people that are not in the hobbying and providing arena.

Play Safe.



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Poopdeck Pappy2255 reads

Now let us take a look at this from another angle.

She has no problem with married men seeing escorts. She rarely has sex with you.

I may have a sick mind, never mind, it is twisted beyond repair. I am always thinking of what the other persons objectives are and in this case, I may be wrong here but this is my take.

She is either sleeping with your father or she is an escort herself. She was not giving you a green light, she is feeling you out. Determining whether or not you can handle the truth.

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GLisHJ5649 reads

either sleeping with your father or is an escort.

She may be able to halfway convince herself that she believes what she said, but I wouldn't bet the relationship on it.

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netmichelle3078 reads

Green light? What shade of green? Chartreuse? Better get a paper shredder and start shreading. Wow. Is the cousin hot? Do we get a peak see? So when and what are you going to say to the kissing cousin? Invite her over to your place and cook for her and the SO.

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Catlin3606 reads

Well, if you not getting any or at least not very much and she is an SO and not a legal spouse why don't you ask her to move on?  Or, is it that she owns the place and your just there for the free ride?  Perhaps the old saying applies here "It's a lot easier to move them in than to move them out"  My .02

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Bob714664153 reads

Remember the movie Tootsie?  Jessica Lange tells "Dorothy" that she wishes that a man would just come out and be straightforward when they want to hook up instead of all the cloak and dagger moves they usually make.  Dustin removes the makeup and tries out the approach that SHE requested and he gets summarily slapped in the face and sent on his way.

Although most of the women in the hobby tend to be MUCH more enlightened, those women out in the vanilla world are NOT that in touch with their feelings to say what they really want.

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luv_women1868 reads

So if it is OK for a married man to see an escort, what would you do/say if I were to go to one?  Make sure it is totally hypothetical in nature, perhaps on a business trip or the like.

That response would have told you volumes...

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PeterPickle3008 reads

Seeking foregiveness is a hell of a lot easier than seeking permission. She just gave him the get out of jail free card!

If he asks her that question now she no doubt will respond with something along the lines of she will cut his balls off if "he" does it.  So if he knows this in advance and then she catches him in the act, he's a dead man walking.

But, if he's silent now and then she catches him in the act in the future, he can always reference the statement she made at St. Pats dinner where she thought it was OK for guys to do it.

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poonhntr2427 reads

Never.....(eom)

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