there is an intimacy to a ladies private incall that makes it more comfortable.  Hotels are fine, but the private residence enhances the possibility that "chemistry" or "connection" will occur.

There are discomforts to a private residence, though.  I met a lady in the fall that had three huge dogs BCD with us.  When we got on the bed, she sent them to their separate doggy beds (in the same room with us) while we got on with business.  Over the course of the next hour, standing doggy with her holding the post of her four-poster occurred, and she was a fairly vocal lady -- I couldn't help notice that all six canine eyes were riveted on us while we were quite obviously enjoying ourselves a few feet away....hmmm...one wrong step and I was Alpo....lol...

as hobbyist, i do prefer private incalls.  I have seen provider who uses hotel and there are pros and cons in both situations.

Re: I prefer her private residence since I can easily fit in any neighborhood .

You are kidding ! Wax her car !  

The big issue is the condition of the venue.

I've gone to some cheap motel locations that were downright creepy; and some provider's places were dumps.  This was mostly back in the pre-TER days, so fortunately, I don't run into that too often now.

Clean and discreet either way will work out fine

Medium to upscale clean Residential incall with easy/discrete parking.

I dont mind hotel or private residence .
As long as you have AC  

Many times i go to especially the big appartment complex and you get to the room  
And its like sauna in there ...  

Crap ! Do i hate that ,
I like nice and cooler environment about  
70 degrees not 170 lol

I like it when she has lots and lots of birds in her apartment.  Birds that drown out our lovemaking noises, parrots that perch on my shoulder while I'm doing her doggy style.  The birds would draw too much attention at a hotel.

Doing Incall to a hotel can be a bit problematic depending on the facility.   Some of the 'By The Week' places some providers have used are seedy and even slightly scary.  Traditional hotels have their issues as well, I aborted one meeting when I met the lady downstairs and it was obvious to me that Security was watching her and knew what she was doing.  

Apartment houses seem to work well as there are many people coming and going (so to speak).   I've visited a few ladies in very traditional single-family homes.  While this gives me a good sense of security, it does make me wonder if the nosy neighbors are taking note of men arriving and leaving an hour or so later.   I would presume all these homes are rentals as it has been discussed how a home owner could lose her home under Asset Forfeiture should LE ever get involved.  

Since I'm writing, I'll add the biggest reason I do incall (other than the obvious that, as a local, I don't have my own hotel room) is the added security of being on her turf.  Reading the 'Rip Off' listing in TER, I have never seen one at an incall - ok, someone tell the story of a rip-off at an incall, sure I guess it has happened but it is rare.   There can't be a 'cash and dash' from her own place and other issues are less likely as, lets face it, you know where to find her.   Having said all that, using TER and well reviewed ladies takes most of that worry away anyway.    

MM

Horrible dirty not save places and this wording as INCALL outcall motels and security?  
Why you would not have own little(or big)  apartment ( or "dacha" just for your pleasure?  
That means all of you have lives that your wives do know all of your properties and you can't escape to own world and escaping is just those motels and hotels? Husband's recommended have own place at any count - even on count of divorce!  
Set up own love nest so no one would not know just you and your established well reviewed women  
You may even find yourself falling in love with one and making her your regular and giving her the key from the place so she already be waiting you there when you want to stop  
Single men do not have such need as have second house But married - should start work on that from fist day of marriage.

A private residence is fine for later meetings, but for a first meeting I prefer a hotel.

Overwhelmingly I prefer hotel rather than personal residence. Hotel is typically clean, neutral, safer. I have been to several residences, and almost all of them are not nearly as clean, neat, etc. as a hotel. Also, for me, its odd seeing pictures of kids or boyfriends or family in terms of the fantasy I have created in my head!!