then FINE! But this is on her & anything less is unprofessional.
Do you have so much time on your hands that you can be AWOL? I don't have easy opportunities & someone who wastes MY opportunity had better have a good reason. OR I lose her number. I have one that went dark on a booked appointment & never responded to my messages. She on MY DNS list... not even if it was free because she wasted my opportunity. Had she told me, I could have at least tried to book elsewhere.I have another former fav who went BSC on me... over her miscomunications... I did the appointment only because I promised I was on my way (I was 60 miles on the road when she blew up my phone) but she never appologized. She could have made it right but chose not to.
So have a dilemma. I am sure this issue has been raised in the past but could not find it in the forum and welcome comments.
I have a provider that has "no showed" on three of six occasions over the last month. The times I was able to see her were fantastic, no doubt. I left happy and fulfilled. However, the last two occasions we agreed to meet at a certain time (and yes I confirmed at least two times on each occasion) only to be disappointed - (lost phone / did not set alarm were the excuses). In the last two "no show" occasions I waited a combined four hours of attempting to see if we were still on only for her to go "dark" on me (voice or text). When she did finally respond she cursed at me via text and accused me of being rude. Trust me when I say my texts to here were cordial and simply asking about what happened with the appointment(s). Everyone has their bad moments and I figured she was blowing off steam so I decided to let it pass and she subsequently told me to meet her the next day at a certain time and again a "no show". Let me repeat that I always confirmed each time. I know if we (men) acted in this manner we would be "blackballed". I know this hobby does not always come with manners or professionalism (even though we (men/women) expect it). I am a gentlemen and always treated this provider and all my other providers with the utmost respect (even gave this particular provider a gift). I am really disappointed in this provider's behavior and given her age I thought she would have realized her actions and acted as a mature adult. Let me say that I do not see many providers (only see two to three. I thought this provider being discussed could have been in that "circle of trust".
I believe in telling people "what the need to know" not "what they want to hear". I have not written a review yet but want to let off hot steam before I do so. So I am soliciting advice from all on what you would do if in my position with respect to the review. Thank you.
This provider no-showed on you THREE TIMES in the past month? Ok, so maybe you forgive the first one, s*** happens. But after the second time.... WTF were you thinking seeing her again?
Yes, you should write a review and mention her no-shows along with the shows (the latter to get the review published). Post it under your alias if you're concerned about retribution.
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That is all anyone can ask of you where it comes to writing a review here.
I certainly hope you have given up on this woman who has treated you so badly. If not, you are contributing to the problem by allowing her to get away with this bad behavior.
Sounds like you are saying you took some of her crap up to now because the sex was just so good. That's usually the case with the BSC ones, the crazy knows no boundaries and it shows up as a good fucking now and then.
So as was said above, be honest in your review. State that she no showed and was a little difficult but it could be it to worth it to some horn dogs. . Then describe the awesome sex.
If you continue seeing her just go in eye wide open and expect to be let down now and then and always have a back up plan.
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I guess you enjoy being a doormat. You've already given her too many chances. So, no, don't book her again. Shame on you for even thinking there's a question here to be asked. Guys like you who are too weak to not put up with bad behavior are a big part of the problem.
NO excuse for multiple no shows.
Is her pussy made of diamonds? Dump her helloooo ok bye 
She's down on you anyways, so what is there to lose?
You might as well also write a review. I'm sure other masochists will flock to her web
Give her at least ten more no-shows then ask us again.
…to be true to yourself, then you cannot be false to anyone. I think you answered you own question. Write the review as you see it; that is, if you want to write it. No matter how great past sessions were with her, the favor you do is informing others who use TER about her reliability, or with your 3-no shows; her unreliability.
Please dump this lady.
There are other good providers who actually care about their clients and business to put up with this bullshit. Please give these upstanding ladies your time and money, and I promise, they will treat you right - like a king.
You had a provider that NCNS'd you 3 times out of the last 6 scheduled meetings???? I'm sorry but, are you high or is she? Wtf...
Honestly, you can't really review a NCNS though. I am sorry this happened to you but come on man! There are fuck ton of good provider's out there! After one NCNS it's time to move on IMO.
Hope it all works out for you!
XOXO,
TL
A) If you want to be treated better and with more respect, find another provider.
B) If you want to continue to be treated shabbily, get sex from a woman half (or less) as often as you'd like, and give said woman a bunch of money when she does happen to pay attention to you, go out and get married.
Hit her in the pocket book. Where did you find someone like that. I bet she is an unreviewed backpage provider. Ter ladies and 411 ladies don't act like that.
If you've ever know an addict well those are the first signs.
A www... I read the title and said WOW. I gotta read this. What a buzz killer. I thought you were giving him advice on how to cope ....
You do know there are other hookers out there right?
Go find one.
Give her a good review based on your last date. Then also add to it how unreliable she is and that fellow hobbyists should be prepared to deal with her flakiness.
I hope she's worth all that hassle and dramas. I myself would tolerate it too but she better gives me a fantastic bargain and exceptional service/menu in return
do not get laid, pay $200 to the Hooker Recovery Fund.
Help yourself up, Reggie, you've clearly fallen.
Only had a NCNS once in 12+ yrs. I didn't kick her to the curb, she jumped off all by herself. Left a message, no reply. Bye bye.
You may consider hooking up with an agency. Near zero no shows, great back up if this to happens to you again.
Being a gentleman keeps you in the game in the hobby. Most guys here are, even when they're in DB bitch mode. If this happens to you IRL, you might consider taking EVERYONE'S advice thete too.
Sorry this happened to you, the first time. The second time, hello-o! A third? WakeTheF**kUp ...
Don't give up, my ex was NCNS the last 3 yrs of our marriage ... LO
Fuck me over once, shame on you, fuck me over twice shame on me, for giving you a second chance to do so.
she is the only woman that will have sex with you that is "fantastic." I don't think I'm unique in being able to stumble across a few new providers that are fantastic each month. I would be inclined to give her a second chance because shit happens, but a third, or fourth chance? Not me. I would move on after the second time she proved unreliable. The excuses she gave you are within lame because they are within her control. Further, if any provider ever cursed at me, they would never see me again. Why waste your money on someone who doesn't appreciate having you as a customer?
I wouldn't be mean about the first no-show. But she'd fall out of the rotation. I have a growing list of who I want to see next, and I keep reshuffling them as my imagination races ahead. Since there is a limited supply of money for this, she'd just have to wait a few months/years for her name to come up again.
And you keep coming back for more? That must be one hot pussy. Most guys would have dropped her after the first. But if a pussy is that great what I might do is to continue setting up sessions knowing full well she may no show. If she no shows have some kind of back up plan, hobby or otherwise. If you do get to see her, don't talk about the no shows. Just enjoy yourself while you can.
If you want to continue seeing her, albeit intermittently, don't write a negative review. However, once you've had enough, go ahead and write a negative review. In all fairness, I'd write a positive review as well.
Three no-shows is unacceptable sorry.Things happen and either a gent or lady needs to cancel.
But that is not what this is...your situation is a lady clearly has no disregard for your time.
I know in whatever city you are in there are other providers to see besides this one lady.
She no-call no shows you three times and then when she finally gets back to you she cusses you out?And you are asking what now...?As everyone has said move on to someone else unless you like having your time wasted.
You had great times with her in the past.great.But evidently something has changed just because you had great times previously doesn't excuse that kind of behavior.
Just my .02
You're the nicest client I ever heard of....Not once I ever dare to treat any client that way yet I'm not a perfect "10." People do deserve second chances but that's pretty much enough after the second time. While others are going out of the way to make it happen for you, why stick around for bad treatment? Especially paying for bad treatment.
I agree with everyone else but keep in mind...there are almost always two sides to a story in anything in life. That's just how it is.
My simple advice? If you know/remember the proximity of where she is, buy her an alarm clock lol
D.
I'm a newbie and even I would know what to do in these circumstances. Jimeny Xmas brother! Ur making us guys look like a bunch of pussys! Kick that ho down the street for Petes sake!
#justsayin
but I agree that there is some sort of problem going on alog with extreme lack of ethics/professionalism/ respect- multiple no shows, angry responses to your responses that do not make sense. I would resist all urges to fix her or support her way of handling you. Find a new provider...has she done this with other men? What were her reviews to begin with prior to you contacting her? At this point, I do believe she must be expecting a negative review.
I'm pussy-whipped, I will say, "No, I am controlled and introspective."
I have had a few DNS its cool it happens we are all human, but they have all been professional called back apologized... hey its the adult thing to do.
This person not only didn't say sorry she berated you for it... now if you blew up her phone then yes its on both of you... but if it was one message with a hey what happen everything ok? and she went off then.. you need to move on... in fact in your description you prob need to move on.
Look give an accurate review. then others will know that yes she is fun but you may be wasting your time waiting and have DNS...
Peace...
then FINE! But this is on her & anything less is unprofessional.
Do you have so much time on your hands that you can be AWOL? I don't have easy opportunities & someone who wastes MY opportunity had better have a good reason. OR I lose her number.
I have one that went dark on a booked appointment & never responded to my messages. She on MY DNS list... not even if it was free because she wasted my opportunity. Had she told me, I could have at least tried to book elsewhere.
I have another former fav who went BSC on me... over her miscomunications... I did the appointment only because I promised I was on my way (I was 60 miles on the road when she blew up my phone) but she never appologized. She could have made it right but chose not to.