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Re: Hubby cheated with 2 vegas girls.........
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Yes great story! Lots of great stories here! Come on people keepem coming!
 

Posted By: vegasgirllover
we have been married for over 25 years, and have had some hard times....i suffer from ptsd and had a hard time with sex and affection, it started to get better for a while,and we were having a decent regular sex life (or so i thought) he felt i was just going through the motions ( i wasnt) and he wanted to experience whatever it was he thought i wasnt giving him.......well it backfired on him. i found out about everything, he had a falling out with one of the girls he saw ( she was BSC) and threatened to out him, i already knew by then, fast forward about 6 months, i am still shattered but want to make it work as he is and always was my entire world as i was his, i decided if this is what he needs  then i might as well join him, so we started to hobby together, now 2+ years later we are still together and more in love thn ever and still enjoying the hobby together, i have always been curious, now im a convert and love what we do.  
Posted By: NaomiGrey
A few years ago, back home in NYC  I had lost my job because I don't think I can work under someone else.    
     
     
  Either way. I had 4 bucks in my pocket, car without gas, I watched a show on tv I think Oprah. An escort was on there talking about going to dinner and getting paid, not giving out details. So I got curious and googled escorts and craigslist ads came up, Eros ads for agencies looking for girls " do you wanna make 1k a day etc"    
     
  I called the number and someone answered, she said come Saturday at 12pm, come ready to work"  
  So I'm thinking " hmm dressy skirt blouse and nice heels"    
     
  I took the subway with my last 4 bucks, when I walk in there's 7 girls walking around in a 3 bedroom apt.    
     
  As soon as I arrived I knew what it was but was nervous. Young fresh 19 year old. So I was brand new, never done anything like this before. New face lots of money to be made.    
     
  I worked 12 hours that day and made 900 bucks. Filled my tank with gas and drove to that place in midtown instead of taking the train.    
     
  Worked at that agency for 3 months made a ton of money, got a boyfriend, a regular job. and stopped working this hobby in til about a year and a half ago that I moved to San Diego and found out that hobbying here is awesome. I have met many people who are amazing and make me feel amazing thank you.    
     
  What's your story?    
     
   
   
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A few years ago, back home in NYC  I had lost my job because I don't think I can work under someone else.  

 
Either way. I had 4 bucks in my pocket, car without gas, I watched a show on tv I think Oprah. An escort was on there talking about going to dinner and getting paid, not giving out details. So I got curious and googled escorts and craigslist ads came up, Eros ads for agencies looking for girls " do you wanna make 1k a day etc"  

I called the number and someone answered, she said come Saturday at 12pm, come ready to work"
So I'm thinking " hmm dressy skirt blouse and nice heels"  

I took the subway with my last 4 bucks, when I walk in there's 7 girls walking around in a 3 bedroom apt.  

As soon as I arrived I knew what it was but was nervous. Young fresh 19 year old. So I was brand new, never done anything like this before. New face lots of money to be made.  

I worked 12 hours that day and made 900 bucks. Filled my tank with gas and drove to that place in midtown instead of taking the train.  

Worked at that agency for 3 months made a ton of money, got a boyfriend, a regular job. and stopped working this hobby in til about a year and a half ago that I moved to San Diego and found out that hobbying here is awesome. I have met many people who are amazing and make me feel amazing thank you.  

What's your story?  



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I've always found it interesting how people got into this business on both sides

...it a second time?  It seems that all was well with your world after you got on your feet.

So I said you know what, I used to work for an agency, now let me try this on my own. Because my regular job wasn't paying well and I was in school full time too so money was not too much. That's why, and to be honest now it's balanced, my life is much better, I have a great place, goals and plans for my permanent future. Because we all know as a female this business is not permanent, at least that's my theory. :)

At least, I happen to find the reasons behind my own "comeback tour" more interesting than how I got started. LOL.  

Full Disclosure: this is not my second ride on the hobby roller-coaster. No, this is my fourth or fifth go-round, depending on how you count it. ;-)
 

I was gone from the business for more than 5 years; during that time I spent a few years involved in the swinger/lifestyle scene.  Had a lot of fun, but then got outed as an escort and was largely ostracized.  
That led to some soul-searching and I realized that one of the reasons I'd gotten into that in the first place was because I really MISSED doing this.  

I often daydreamed about days gone by and the possibility of returning. Even fantasized about it! ;-)
However, I really didn't think I'd be able to do this successfully anymore. Figured my "prime years" were gone, and I didn't want to find that the only dates/work I could get would lead to me feeling "less than" in some way.  

But then..... some pretty big life changes occurred and I realized that life is passing by at an ever-increasing pace.  
And I started asking myself, "If I put out a couple of ads, what is really the worst that can happen?" to which I replied (Yes, I talk to myself!).........
"Nothing.  Crickets is the worst that can happen."   Now, that could be disappointing but I will know that at least I tried, and won't have this particular "what if" for the rest of my life.  LOL.

So, after a lot of second-guessing, I contacted Cathy at RS2K to ask about putting an ad up again after all this time.  
I really was afraid she'd turn me down.  Not sure why now, but I was.  

Omygoodness she was so friendly and cool about it!!!  Got my ad up right away!

And then...... the dreaded crickets,   For a whole month.   Got a few nibbles but once they did their homework and found no recent reviews they disappeared.  A few guys I knew in the past reached out but didn't schedule.    
So my ad lapsed with no dates and I thought, "Well, ok.  I know that my time in that world is over."  

But then.... the calendar got into a new year and with it I started thinking that maybe I hadn't given it a "real go"... that I'd barely dipped my toe in, not put any real effort into it, and gave up too easily.  That didn't sit too comfortably with me.

So: One more time, WITH FEELING!!! ;-)

Saying to myself that I'll take one last shot at returning then hang it up for good: I reinstated my RS2K ad so I could verify any takers.  Then I joined TER and ran a free ad at an uber-low discount rate, acknowledging that I had no recent reviews but including the profile of who I once was.  
And what do you know??   I got a handful of dates from that, got a few reviews (without any asking, hinting, or prompting from me)  and I was off & running!!!    

Took awhile to figure out my image & branding stuff and to be honest I'm still tweaking it.  I consider that (and hey, me as a whole) to be a constant work-in-progress.   :-)

 
So yeah.... that's my story.  LOL.  

 
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Nooner: A sexual encounter at lunchtime; especially one that is illicit.  

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Do NOT make light of R2D2, the REAL hero of the first 6 films.  :-)

These aren't the droids you're looking for.  ;-)

xoxoxo

This is my second - third go around. I've been on "hiatus" for almost a year. Went back to the 9-5 (8-6) while still being a student. How in the hell do you accomplish that? So, I had a choice to make..stay at the entry level job and place college on the back burner or find something that would allow some flexibility?

After giving it a nights sleep to think over..I'd opened the cob web cover door and pulled out 'Kenya'. Nervous was I? Yes.  
I wasn't sure if a comeback would be as lucrative as before.  

A heavy decision indeed. The heavier question for me was, where do you want to be in the next five years?  

My reason for coming back was for the support, money, freedom, and a peace of mind. Reaching towards something more.

I was invited to a very exclusive private party that had over 40 ladies in attendance.  Yes, ONLY ladies.  It was a weekend long event, in Miami and Fort Lauderdale and it was hosted by a great friend of mine, ironically somebody that I met while I was dancing in Miami in my earlier years.  The gracious host kicked off the weekend event with a gift of perfectly sized new sexy high heels for each lady who RSVP'd.  Prostate massage lessons followed, food, booze, and ladies.  I fell in love with so many ladies that weekend.   We went swimming with the dolphins, we bonded and I was hooked.  I was introduced to a lifestyle and people that loved to love.  It was an easy step to make, as I hated dancing, escorting seemed so much more authentic.  My only regret is not having started sooner.  

XOX

Elle Vegas

After graduating college I got a decent offer from a company I had intern for, in my head I was thinking " okay great got a entry level career to start off with". What I did not realize is that entry level in Southern California does not make that much when I took into account of paying my student loans off. I like my entry level career it's just not cutting it, so I was in LA with a few of my sorority sisters when one brought up "escorting" she told me about a few boards along with some safety tips. Her & I met up again she showed me how to make use of the boards, I recall my first meeting I was slightly nervous. After screening him we meet, he was very polite not the stigma that some people assume about this line of work, not saying everyone will be nice but he was and made it that much more fun. After our meeting, I decided this can be a line of work to help supplement my income to make paying off my student loans way more manageable. So far I like providing, I have made nice with a few providers/hobbyist who have been helpful.

Thank you for letting me share my background on "how I got started" Naomi Grey xoxoxo

I get to fuck sexy men on a weekly basis.what's not to like about the sex industry!?Loving it

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I asked her why she did this, since she had a degree and parents who had money, she told me exact words: " I was a slut in high school for free, why not get paid, to have sex with different guys. Plus it's safer than being a slut"

with a lousy sense of humor can get laid.   Well, that and the fact that I am socially awkward and nobody really likes the hump on my back, it scares people - now, no jokes about humping my back please, I may be differently-abled but I do not want anybody to make fun of my hump although the stump is fair game.

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I am 56 y/o, single, never married, not children and retired.

At 44 y/o I broke up with girlfriend of 5 years and sworn off women. She was driving me crazy but I did not want to hurt her, so it went on way to long until i sort of hated her and our relationship. My fault not hers as I should have ended it 2 years earlier. Anyway, no women for 10 years ( not even a date or a kiss)but since I still loved the female body and orgasms, I jacked off daily to porn.  Sad.
Then I was in Vegas and meet this young lady at a bar one night. I was naive as hell but eventually the light went on in this bald head and I realized this girl is a working girl. Holy Shit. Well it did not turn out well, I woke up with $4K missing from the dresser and the mini Frig empty. Great Lesson Learned!!!!!!!! painful but will not ever be forgotten.
What that experience did do for me however was introduce to me the possibilities out there. ON my next trip to Vegas (every 3 months for me) I was still ignorant about the industry but I did find a nice young lady at a bar and off we went. Locked up my cash this time and made sure I did not fall Asleep. She was nice, cute and it was descent time. After that trip I started really researching the escort business and I joined TER first. I had no idea how big this industry was or how sophisticated the business/marketing really is. Very quickly I joined P411 and enjoyed my new Hobby eve since.

WOW this is perfect for me. I really love woman, and I really, really love good looking women , and I really, really, really love good looking women that like sex.  
Also, providers don't get mad when I have sex with them and then .eave, They don't tell me I am gambling too much, And they don't want to get Married or come live with me.!!!

SO TO THE  LADIES OUT THERE OPEN MINDED ENOUGH, FREE ENOUGH AND MOST IMPORTANTLY BRAVE ENOUGH TO BE IN THIS BUSINESS, THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Culturally I grew up with the mentality that a man should never pay for sex, and to tell you the truth I've never had a problem with getting laid outside of the hobby.  I was on deployment in Spain and some of my buddies came back from liberty raving about some brothel they had went to in Barcelona.  I had mixed feelings because it went against what I was taught but I thought to myself, you only live once and I have regretted not going to at least visit during the entire deployment.  Fast forward to 2007 and beyond, I was stationed in good ole San Diego, CA. Keep in mind this was pre TER, and even BP. My avenues during that time were CL and Cityvibe.  Around that time I had received a a nice sized re-enlistment bonus, so i had a quite a bit of disposable income and I created some lasting memories with some if it (wink wink).

I stumbled upon CL and I was intrigued by the quality of ladies they had in display.  I met a well known porn star whom has since retired, this was before she became well know.  Her name was Austin Taylor, so we met and she was the most awesome looking specimen I had ever seen in person (providing we were about to bang).  Of course I've seen more gorgeous women since then, but she was around one of the first women, whether porn star or not, that I had been able to have access to.  She was friendly, sweet, sexy, and super accommodating, so much so that when I saw her in her thong and matching bra I asked her if she would just walk to the door and back so that I could get a look and take it all in and she did so with great enthusiasm.  

In a way this session ruined me, because i thought that even session would go like this one, but alas this hobby has its ups and downs and you live and learn and gain experience through both.  Needless to say I dumped that childish view of paying for sex.

Since then did you ever travel to Barcelona to see what that brothel was about? I would go!! :)

No, I didn't go back to Barcelona, but we had a wash down in Rota, Spain before we were to head back to the U.S.  I visited a brothel there, it was unreal, bar styled with hotel rooms connected.  Seriously some of the most gorgeous women you've ever seen just walking around in lingerie and bathing suits.  I made up for missing out for so long!

I was doing well. I just thought I was good at this and I had flirted with escorting before. Then met the right person at the right time who gave me great advice. I had money saved. Was going to school. My job was changing management and I used that as my Segway to get the hell out of there.  

Don't u think it's funny that most escort stories start like this: I had no money, no job, I was homes less etc... Then I started hooking and my life changed.  

It almost never starts with: oh I was a successful accountant but I just love to fuck, and I make just as much money doing either so I went with what I liked more.  

Sometimes I think we ten to make up sob stories to justify liking to fuck. Let's keep it real :-).  

 

Posted By: NaomiGrey
A few years ago, back home in NYC  I had lost my job because I don't think I can work under someone else.  
   
   
 Either way. I had 4 bucks in my pocket, car without gas, I watched a show on tv I think Oprah. An escort was on there talking about going to dinner and getting paid, not giving out details. So I got curious and googled escorts and craigslist ads came up, Eros ads for agencies looking for girls " do you wanna make 1k a day etc"  
   
 I called the number and someone answered, she said come Saturday at 12pm, come ready to work"  
 So I'm thinking " hmm dressy skirt blouse and nice heels"  
   
 I took the subway with my last 4 bucks, when I walk in there's 7 girls walking around in a 3 bedroom apt.  
   
 As soon as I arrived I knew what it was but was nervous. Young fresh 19 year old. So I was brand new, never done anything like this before. New face lots of money to be made.  
   
 I worked 12 hours that day and made 900 bucks. Filled my tank with gas and drove to that place in midtown instead of taking the train.  
   
 Worked at that agency for 3 months made a ton of money, got a boyfriend, a regular job. and stopped working this hobby in til about a year and a half ago that I moved to San Diego and found out that hobbying here is awesome. I have met many people who are amazing and make me feel amazing thank you.  
   
 What's your story?  
   
 

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Hahaha that is a great explanation but most girls actually won't admit that the first reason they get into this is money. Lol I just talked about this with someone lol  

Of course we love to fuck! :)

Too deep and too intelligent for normal conversation and relating to others. Too busy also with work and hobbies. Prefer much younger women, have lots of money. There ya go. I'm finding I make a fantastic sugar daddy though to girls that like to laugh- my wit is sharp as a samurai sword and they end up having alot of fun. There's never been much more to my relationships than just laughing together- I have no interest in revealing myself more or getting to know them better. Every therapist I've seen says I'm a fascinating man, and not one has been able to help me. Too bad they don't have sex with their clients, one of them was a dmoking hot petite Latina. I imagine she might have given me a celebration fuck if the therapy had been successful, she was really into her job.

 

Posted By: NaomiGrey
A few years ago, back home in NYC  I had lost my job because I don't think I can work under someone else.  
   
   
 Either way. I had 4 bucks in my pocket, car without gas, I watched a show on tv I think Oprah. An escort was on there talking about going to dinner and getting paid, not giving out details. So I got curious and googled escorts and craigslist ads came up, Eros ads for agencies looking for girls " do you wanna make 1k a day etc"  
   
 I called the number and someone answered, she said come Saturday at 12pm, come ready to work"  
 So I'm thinking " hmm dressy skirt blouse and nice heels"  
   
 I took the subway with my last 4 bucks, when I walk in there's 7 girls walking around in a 3 bedroom apt.  
   
 As soon as I arrived I knew what it was but was nervous. Young fresh 19 year old. So I was brand new, never done anything like this before. New face lots of money to be made.  
   
 I worked 12 hours that day and made 900 bucks. Filled my tank with gas and drove to that place in midtown instead of taking the train.  
   
 Worked at that agency for 3 months made a ton of money, got a boyfriend, a regular job. and stopped working this hobby in til about a year and a half ago that I moved to San Diego and found out that hobbying here is awesome. I have met many people who are amazing and make me feel amazing thank you.  
   
 What's your story?  
   
 

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You say you lost your civi job because you don't think you can work under someone.
So you. choose THIS profession?

I mean you do get the irony , right ?

Sorry , this slow pitch down the middle just is tooooooo easy....lol

Actually I consider your new career to be an ancient and honorable profession. That is , when it is a matter of free choice.
Glad you have embraced the life and it is working for you.  Sounds like you indeed are an amazing lady enjoying life in the city with perfect climate.  Good for you.

So the mother tells the daughter who is 12 what she does for a living. Daughter turns 18 and then goes into same biz as the mother. (BTW: both of them work at a place where it is legal.)

Howard asks the typical question to how they got into the business, which in every case it offers more money and the fun and enjoyment of sex; then he pushes the boundaries to how far they will go...

(I’m wondering if this will get pulled because of the language, but the dicey interview does raise questions to what is acceptable and not acceptable towards an open mind regarding boundaries; you decide.

There was a lot of bullshit going on in her family.  That, and other factors, led me to question my beliefs about everything, and I became an atheist (hence the number on my handle).  She couldn't handle my atheism, and her response was to drink like a fish and start having affairs...with thugs and gangbangers.  My response was to start looking for a girlfriend.  That wasn't working so well, and then I saw a news article about some Canadian politician getting busted as part of a national police sting on pageback.  I figured the cops would be tied up with the courts, and the pimps would be in hiding, so I decided to try it out.  I met my ATF three days later.

The advert asked for ladies for an upmarket gentlemans club and I had no clue. I was backpacking in Australia and had run out of money so needed to work fast and when I called the advert they told me to go there immediately. I thought I'd be a barmaid or a waitress or something and when the recoetionist told me she'd take me upstairs and show me the bedrooms I nearly had a fit!!  
As it was I thought well why not? I dont know anyone here and I've never put sex and love in the same category and I'm pretty and young so I'll give it a go. I made more in one night there than I'd made in the previous two weeks and after being there for a while and learning the ropes and then taking a long travel break, I went independent and have done that on and off for a few years :)

Then katie-bar-the-door. My last couple years in my marriage were sexless. Lot of porn and having off. I decided not to "cheat" ... really my mistake. That's it's own story.

After my divorce 14 years ago, a friend told me about the Erotic Section on Craigslist. I poked around for a while until I had the balls to actually call somebody. Maria, bless her soul, answered, agreed to see me and the rest was history. She was beautiful, passionate, and we had a great time together regularly until she fell off the radar. Hung around Craigslist a bit longer and realized I needed more consistency and less risk and got verified by three Boston agencies. That was heaven, Nirvana,  just what the Cockter ordered.

Fast forward to joining the fun at a recent soiree, well that's a long way from Sexless in HerSaddle ..... Now, it's Babes in Toylan

I mean they know, but don't really know. Ya know? Haha

But seriously, a few years ago I seen a bunch of guys here at work, when we all accidentally got internet access were going on Craigslist and checking out the escorts. So what did my addictive ass do? Started checking out the ladies myself. Daily!
Pretty soon the company found out what everyone was doing and put in firewalls so all we could access is company shit. But it had opened up a whole new world for me. I fiddled around on and off for a few years and everyone prolly knows what happened to CL. So BP here I come. Just started enjoying looking at all these hot ladies as a habit for a while before I took the plunge. But as I went thru BP, I kept hearing every now and then about "reviews". So I started to look up ladies reviews(not really knowing how important they were at the time) and stumbled across TER, the other board and certainly Eros.  
Took me a while before I really understood everything. And what needed to be done. But I'm truly fascinated by this world of escorts. It's awesome!! And I believe safe too!  Just surprised that this world hasn't been discovered by more people.  

So CL and BP is how I got into it. But I'm a newbie. And looking forward to a lot of good years ahead

Not a great story, but I like it! And love this thread! I hope people keep telling their stories.  

Thanks Naomi

All good Naomi! We have smart phones and tablets now. And at my job(major airline) we have lots of time in between flights!! Exactly what I'm doing now and every day. Scrolling thru TER. Fun fun fun! I love this site

Posted By: NaomiGrey
It's a great story!!! So unfortunate that your work blocked your access :(

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After my divorce, I got custody.  Between my job, long commute and taking care of my 10 year old, I had no time to go out and try to find a normal romance.  Somehow, I don't really remember, I heard about finding escorts via the internet.   This was about 20 years ago, before TER but AOL was a source, believe it or not.  I found a local agency run by a couple of young gals who would do outcall to my house.   When I tried it, and pretty girls came to my door (late at night when they tyke was asleep) and all it took was a phone call, wow!   I was like a kid in a candy store, calling 2 or 3 times a week. Even some doubles.  Took care of my itch, and kept me sane.   Eventually the kid got big and on his own, but I still enjoy the hobby from time to time.

A lady of the evening walked across the street, came up to me, smiled, and stroked my cock. From that moment on the idea of forbidden sex has had a hold deep in my brain. If it would have been one of the church girls to have done that, it would have been a different story.

When I graduated college I didn't want to go back for more college. So I moved back to Atlanta and started bartending while I decided what I wanted to do...  

THEN student loan payments were required and I got sick of roommates. So, I found an ad online for a Massage Therapist and they offered cash daily, make your own schedule and no experience required.. I thought this is too good to be true.. BUT applied any way. A few minutes later got a phone call from a sweet woman explaining sensual massage to me..  

I honestly didn't know if I could do it but said I would come in for an interview. I got to speak to a few providers *by the way this was not full service yet* and found out how easy it was and how much fun I really had doing it and decided to leave bartending all together to pursue my life as a Body Rub specialist..

My first week I made more than I made in a month bartending and thought "I am never going back to that"  

A year later I wanted to make more money and switch to working with an escort agency. It was extremely scary for me and I was so nervous but ended up loving it the same. I've always been an extremely sexual woman with a hungry appetite for pleasing and this was the outlet I needed. .  

Here I am now, independent and still learning so much but loving every step along the way.  

xoxo

Hallie Brooks  
Atlanta

I like blowjobs, always have and always will.  Dated around when I was young and single and most girls did not like giving BBBJ.  Met my wife (35 or so) years ago and found she had the skill and did not mind giving BBBJDTCIMNSNQ on a regular basis.  She moved in with me, kept me smiling and we got married.  I never touched another woman during the 5 or so years we were living together and the first 20 years we were married, not one!  Then one day she tells me she won't be servicing me anymore.  One month later I found TER and started hobbying.  Have had a fantastic time hobbying ever since.    
 
Our marriage has endured because we both have what we want, or at least we both have what we say we want.  We both enjoyed sex when we were young.  Early on I remember having sores on my dick, not because of STD but simply abrasions from having so many hours of sex everyday. Have always believed in fitness and was a regular runner for many years.  I was 32 inch waist and 155 lbs from high-school till my early 40s. At around 40 the wife tells me to stop running to spend more time with the children, so I did.  Five years later I was 200 lbs 38 inch waist.  This is what led to that day the wife told me my blowjobs were at an end, because I was too fat.  Doing what she had asked was the reason I had put on the pounds.  Well the hookers didn't mind my beer-belly, and I didn't mind being sucked off by pretty young hookers, and every night I would come home to the wife and sleep next to her and everyone is happy.  I slimmed down to 185 shortly after hitting the 200 lb mark because I could not see past my beer-belly while receiving blowjobs, and I was totally disgusted with my body for not being able to cut my own toe-nails (and a few other reasons too disgusting to post) while at 200lbs.  
 
About two years ago I was at home reading TER and sharing emails with hookers and fell asleep.  The wife was out somewhere and I did not expect her to come back until late.  Well, she came back early and found my laptop open with TER and my hobbymail.  She woke me up and I knew instantly from the look on her face that I was in trouble.  She cried: “how can you do this” and I told her the story written above, I tell you no lie.  I also told her I would be much happier “getting it” at home.  I would never stray as long as she takes care of me.  That put an end to the argument, and leaves us where were are now.  She knows I hobby.  She could stop me by taking care of me herself but she does not.  She enjoys many of the finer things in life and is happy letting other women suck my dick.  And that's my story, till death do us part.  I still appreciate the great service the wife gave me for 20+ years, and we are both happy (more or less) with the way things are now.  I have seen others divorce and it is always a disaster, even before considering the effect it has on the children involved.

Your outcome is actually also great, as long as your wife has an understanding of your physical need and that's all you get then everything is ok. Because you love your wife it's not like you're falling in love with providers.

we have been married for over 25 years, and have had some hard times....i suffer from ptsd and had a hard time with sex and affection, it started to get better for a while,and we were having a decent regular sex life (or so i thought) he felt i was just going through the motions ( i wasnt) and he wanted to experience whatever it was he thought i wasnt giving him.......well it backfired on him. i found out about everything, he had a falling out with one of the girls he saw ( she was BSC) and threatened to out him, i already knew by then, fast forward about 6 months, i am still shattered but want to make it work as he is and always was my entire world as i was his, i decided if this is what he needs  then i might as well join him, so we started to hobby together, now 2+ years later we are still together and more in love thn ever and still enjoying the hobby together, i have always been curious, now im a convert and love what we do.

Posted By: NaomiGrey
A few years ago, back home in NYC  I had lost my job because I don't think I can work under someone else.  
   
   
 Either way. I had 4 bucks in my pocket, car without gas, I watched a show on tv I think Oprah. An escort was on there talking about going to dinner and getting paid, not giving out details. So I got curious and googled escorts and craigslist ads came up, Eros ads for agencies looking for girls " do you wanna make 1k a day etc"  
   
 I called the number and someone answered, she said come Saturday at 12pm, come ready to work"  
 So I'm thinking " hmm dressy skirt blouse and nice heels"  
   
 I took the subway with my last 4 bucks, when I walk in there's 7 girls walking around in a 3 bedroom apt.  
   
 As soon as I arrived I knew what it was but was nervous. Young fresh 19 year old. So I was brand new, never done anything like this before. New face lots of money to be made.  
   
 I worked 12 hours that day and made 900 bucks. Filled my tank with gas and drove to that place in midtown instead of taking the train.  
   
 Worked at that agency for 3 months made a ton of money, got a boyfriend, a regular job. and stopped working this hobby in til about a year and a half ago that I moved to San Diego and found out that hobbying here is awesome. I have met many people who are amazing and make me feel amazing thank you.  
   
 What's your story?  
   
 

-- Modified on 4/20/2016 5:07:59 AM

Yes great story! Lots of great stories here! Come on people keepem coming!
 

Posted By: vegasgirllover
we have been married for over 25 years, and have had some hard times....i suffer from ptsd and had a hard time with sex and affection, it started to get better for a while,and we were having a decent regular sex life (or so i thought) he felt i was just going through the motions ( i wasnt) and he wanted to experience whatever it was he thought i wasnt giving him.......well it backfired on him. i found out about everything, he had a falling out with one of the girls he saw ( she was BSC) and threatened to out him, i already knew by then, fast forward about 6 months, i am still shattered but want to make it work as he is and always was my entire world as i was his, i decided if this is what he needs  then i might as well join him, so we started to hobby together, now 2+ years later we are still together and more in love thn ever and still enjoying the hobby together, i have always been curious, now im a convert and love what we do.  
Posted By: NaomiGrey
A few years ago, back home in NYC  I had lost my job because I don't think I can work under someone else.    
     
     
  Either way. I had 4 bucks in my pocket, car without gas, I watched a show on tv I think Oprah. An escort was on there talking about going to dinner and getting paid, not giving out details. So I got curious and googled escorts and craigslist ads came up, Eros ads for agencies looking for girls " do you wanna make 1k a day etc"    
     
  I called the number and someone answered, she said come Saturday at 12pm, come ready to work"  
  So I'm thinking " hmm dressy skirt blouse and nice heels"    
     
  I took the subway with my last 4 bucks, when I walk in there's 7 girls walking around in a 3 bedroom apt.    
     
  As soon as I arrived I knew what it was but was nervous. Young fresh 19 year old. So I was brand new, never done anything like this before. New face lots of money to be made.    
     
  I worked 12 hours that day and made 900 bucks. Filled my tank with gas and drove to that place in midtown instead of taking the train.    
     
  Worked at that agency for 3 months made a ton of money, got a boyfriend, a regular job. and stopped working this hobby in til about a year and a half ago that I moved to San Diego and found out that hobbying here is awesome. I have met many people who are amazing and make me feel amazing thank you.    
     
  What's your story?    
     
   
   
 -- Modified on 4/20/2016 5:07:59 AM

Holy moly your story is compelling, it's so wonderful that it turned around on both of you for the better, love wins :)

thank you, its still hard at times, im still putting myself back together, but hes the one i want to do it with!!!!

it all started i was in charge of my best friend bachelor party many years ago (more than 20 years ago), so i started to look for strip club, well, i was lazy at that time, plus very career oriented so without much search we picked some club in mid-town manhattan and went with it.  they serve dinner and entertainment so everyone though it was good but i was cuious if there was a review about clubs so I seriously started to look and i found one of the site that talks about clubs and all, and it also review on escort and massage provider.  Long story short I started with few massage provider here in nyc (they all well reviewed on this board) and after year or 2 seeing massage provider, i started seeing some escort providers (as you can see from my review list).  It wasn't any issue for me because the great reference i got from my massage provider and now you know the rest..

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