I pay for NSA sex, I enjoy an hour long paid session. That is more than enough time to have great sexual experience, which is what I pay for. I take pretty much the full hour to enjoy a bit of foreplay, the main event and just a bit of down time before leaving merrily on my way. My chances of finishing twice in a ninety minute or two hour session just aren't that good and I would much rather schedule two different one hour appointments a few hours apart with different women than try to cram two cups into a single session.

Dinner dates and overnights are a different story, but I am not the type to pay thousands of dollars for the privilege. I don't pay for "public time" if a lady likes me enough to go out to dinner with me, that's great. If she needs to get paid in order to spend time with me, I think to myself "why on earth do I want to spend this much time with a woman who is only with me because I am paying her to do so?" I'd rather sit at the bar, order dinner and chat up the bartender at a tenth of the price. lol

I personally prefer 1.5 to 2 hour dates. I like getting to know a little about my dates and I have found most all the ladies i have seen to be bright, funny ladies and some have amazing live story (and I just love looking at and petting a woman's  body!!). 1.5 to 2 hours also gives me a shoot at a second pop which is not going to happen in one hour date.  

Next week I am doing a much long date with some room time followed by Dinner and Elton john concert, and ending with a little more room time.

I'm not the guy who is dropping 5k for a night on the town. I'll take an hour make you laugh and smile and be on my way. If I want a night on the town I got friends I can take who aren't charging me a dime. Most I will pay is 600 which is a lot of money to me. I know who I want to see and save month by month so far I haven't been disappointed.

Im one week away from making my next appointment to a girl who is on these boards.  

I get the feeling she is looking forward to rocking my world.  

I love what I do as a companion! I love getting to know people. I love making friends and building relationships over the long term. I love people who are similar; those who are interesting and have something to say. People who book longer engagements tend to be people like that- willing to share more of themselves in a situation like this.

I'm not into providing sex for money. I did that in Denmark, and while it was fun for a week, it got pretty boring after a while. I prefer companionship- spending time with men, women, and couples. Not a lot you can do with someone in an hour; you certainly can't get to know someone that well. Maybe in one hour increments over several times, but I'm just not that into it.

And because it is my gig, I like to set the terms of engagement. Those terms presently begin at 2 hours for me, but will probably go up to three in the near future. In the past, my minimum began at 4 hours. Those are really the engagements I prefer- dinner engagements and longer. Weekends are wonderful, but I am no longer able to offer those that often.  

I think it's great that there are ladies available at all time increments. But since my business is about me, I'm going to shape it how it serves me best, so that I can serve my friends best. Happy me means happy them!

As for better quality of clients? Nah, not necessarily. But when you narrow your market sector by time minimums and other factors, you narrow your takers- they self-select. That tends to make it so that the few you do get are people you really want to spend time with, and who really want to spend time with you. With a wider market sector, you're doing a lot more work filtering out those with whom you might not feel particularly compatible. I imagine that's where assistants come in handy- they can do a lot of that work for you. But that's just not my thing.

But indeed, the biggest $ would be in the widest market sector, so if that is the goal, don't limit yourself or your clients!


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Gives me time to become acquainted with my date.  I never feel rushed and can take my time giving and receiving pleasure.

two-hour sessions, which can be combined with OTC time outside the incall if we enjoy each others company socially.  I'm over 50, so one pop per hour for me.  That's why I like two hours.  

However, when I'm seeing someone for the first time, unless a trusted hobby friend has assured me we are a good match, I will only book one hour, then repeat for two hours if it was a good session.  Nothing is worse than being stuck for two hours with someone you're just not that attracted to, or connecting with.  Same for the provider.

I prefer longer dates...

1 hour dates are just too short for me; too impersonal and no way I can be ready for a second round in 1 hour.  

2 hours is fine, and I'd consider it a minimum for me. Enough time for some conversation to get comfortable with one another, and (usually) plenty of time for a couple rounds of play.

I also like longer lunch and dinner dates.... I like to relax over a meal or drinks and get to know a gal; it just feels more "natural" to me. I think it also helps to make for a better connection when we do find ourselves BCD. A little buildup of anticipation, a little time for seduction - just my preference

i truly feel that a woman who sets minimum times for dates is probably too high maintenance and inflexible for me.

that being said, i love an hour and a half meeting, almost exclusively (unless we are having dinner or some other activity).

an hour is never enough... it's like eating chinese... after an hour i'm still horny lol.

and with most dates, 2 hours can be a bit disappointing... during the last half hour one of us gets bored with the other.

or maybe i've been seeing the wrong girls lol

I can do all the homework to know that we will get along well with action, but it's more difficult to know if we'll get along well during the down time.

Come on over about 3 PM Saturday and have a drink, then upstairs for some fun while dinner stays warm in the oven.

6 PM dinner, then chat, play cards, watch a video, sit in front of a fire, while the evening away.

10 PM upstairs for some more fun before drifting off to sleep in each others' arms.

7 - 8 AM wake up call.

9 AM brunch.

10 - 11 AM, you're on your way.

I wish I had had the piggy bank to do every weekend this way

Just like my personal sex life.  Never had a truly satisfying hookup that lasted less than 3 hours.  Except for quickies in the woods.  Those are hot even when they're short.  

Even tho I strongly prefer 3 hours or more, I do offer 2 hour meetings currently.  They're just priced in such a way where you sorta might as well book 3.  But not everyone has room in their schedule for that.

I personally find it exhausting to see 5-6 one hour clients per day and would rather see 2 three hour clients per day for the same level of profit, and a higher quality experience for everyone involved.  

Most of the dates in my personal life end up spilling into overnights, especially the best ones.  But most of my clients are married, so alas, most of my professional dates are not overnights.  But I think those are great too and I don't mind an overnight as a first date at all.

I think it's strange that you think it's "ridiculous" to have a minimum booking.  Sex is very personal, and I think its ridiculous to expect anyone to engage in a sexual encounter they're not interested in.  But then again, perhaps you meant, ridiculous from YOUR perspective, since you're okay with a variety of options.  

To each his own. I love eating and love dates so those with elementary deduction skills can probably figure out that I love dinner dates.  

My minimum is 90, but by and large the majority of my dates are for dinner. Who doesn't love to have arm candy, someone who you can have a good conversation with, someone who'll pick the wine (kinda my thing) as well as show you a good time before and/or after all in one lovely package?

It all depends on what you're offering. Some hate making conversation and would rather all physicality. If you aren't into regulars and repeat visits then what's it matter what the lady is like as long as you find her "hot". But many are into that and invest some time getting to know the person they are going to see.  

I'm sure 99% who have chosen to see me loved my pics, but you'd be very surprised how many note that my website really showcased my personality and that's what was the deciding factor for them.

Enforcing minimums does allow a decision, do you want to see me on the terms I've set or do you not? Pretty simple. We get the options to present ourselves how we like and you lovely clients have the option to take it or leave. Nothing unprofessional about having your own personal standards and preferences. Legitimate businesses related to far less personal endeavors cater to the clients they desire, why wouldn't we?

Confusing

Not the actual business model itself, but the premise of "getting to know someone."  I'm with Ga on this one, when I was younger time mattered more, but as I've gotten older, I realize that it's not the time, it's the quality.  Having done this for awhile, I know that if a provider likes you then she will be willing to share OTC time with you at not charge.  And if she doesn't, then it is what it is, a mutually agreed upon fuck date.  I mean it's give and take, but mostly the clients giving (money) for this "getting acquainted" time.  

There's emailing, text messaging, phone convo's, all that can take place prior to the session with a mutual understanding that we are getting familiar with one another, your likes and dislikes, and mine as well, outfit requests, role-play scenarios etc.  I've grown jaded of the introductory or in some cases mandatory 2 or 3 hr minimum on the first date to get acquainted and take our time mantra.  It's P4P, you're here to provide my fantasy for the hour and I'm here because I'm horny, we're not playing with monopoly money.  With that being said, if I have seen you and find you just that intriguing that I want to spend 2 hours plus with you, then great!  But more often than not, one hour gets the job done just fine.

These will not attract better quality clients, they will attract clients with more money to burn.  I do my hobbying by setting aside $20 every week, which means a 1 hour date every 2 1/2 months.  Which means that if I'm going to do a 2 hour date with a provider, I have to wait 5 months.  No thank you, 2 1/2 months is bad enough.  This doesn't mean I'm a lower quality of client (just ask my ATF), it just means that I REALLY need to get the most bang for my buck.  If I was a millionaire, my approach would be completely different.  But it still wouldn't affect my "quality."

But sometimes life is good.  As it was for me this past weekend.

Date with a provider.  We know each other well, as we have seen each other multiple times.  Right now she's kind of in a unique situation as she is in the middle of a major move and "between residences."  She's temporarily staying at a friend's (a retired provider) place, which is a couple hours drive from me.  So, I have to come to her area and get a hotel room.  No problem.

Arrive to pick her up at 8:00pm.  First thing she says to me: "I'm not in any hurry, have you had dinner yet?"  (Before hand dinner was never discussed or planned on.)  So, it's off to her favorite Italian restaurant for a great dinner and even better conversation.  We get to the hotel room at about 10:30pm.  Just about right away the clothes come off and we're making mad passionate love.  When we're exhausted due to the physical portion of the night, we lean back on the bed, still naked, slip wine, and have even better conversation than we had at dinner.  

1:30am, she says to me: "It's not that I want to leave, but dogs need to be walked and a few other items need to be taken care of, so I have to get back.  But, do you want to have breakfast in the morning before you drive back?"  So, I drop her off back at her friend's place.  Then back to my hotel for a few hours sleep.

When the sun is shining brightly, and after I select a suitable place to have breakfast, I pick her up again.  We have breakfast and more wonderful conversation.  I drop her off and we kiss good-bye.

What did this cost me?  Her 1 hour donation amount + dinner + one night hotel + breakfast + gasoline for my round trip drive.  Something like this is never expected but oh so appreciated.  

But sometimes life is good.

I don't want to do a date that will be shorter than the bare minimum amount of time it takes for me to properly get ready (AT LEAST 1hr). Nothing crazy or ridiculous about that.

Longer the better.

My best provider date ever was a weekend.  My second best was dinner + overnight. And I've had several great 3-hour dates.  

But life, and budget, intrude.  So most of my dates are 90 minutes, with a few 2-3 hour dates and a rare 60 minute date when I see someone new.  So providers who specify a 2, 4, 6 etc hour minimum wouldn't get much business from me. Good for you to let your customers decide what they want on duration.

If it wasn't a question of money, I would probably prefer a 3-4 hour evening.  There is no way I am going to blow that much money, however.  One hour does seem to cramp it a bit.  I suppose 90 minutes would be better.  I had a two hour and that had the most unrushed feeling to it.  But for now I will stick with 60 minutes due to the cost and try to get'r done

but alas, he hates me now.

In all seriousness, weekend travel dates are the best dates ever - and as much as I say "I want to sleep" we barely sleep lmao

That's all I offer, straight to the point. But trust me 3 hours is a love making fest. I don't wanna go outside! Anything else after 3 hours,  is rare and I don't have that kind of time to spend with people, I like hanging out with my dog too much.  


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But right now I'm a newbie so I know longer engagements won't happen right away. I just truly enjoy dating and getting to know people from all walks of life. I came for the sugar dating world and easily crossed over into escorting because the men are now treating it as a cheap escort service. For $500 a week they expect to see you 3 times a week with constant phone calls and texts. No thanks!

My preference ranges from 3 hours to 24 hours

Ideally 6+ hours, could go longer than 24 hours if we weren't together every hour and I had a few hours to myself. My guys and I usually connect on more than a physical level (which really, that's all your 1 hrs are about) and, most importantly, it's the best use of My time. Had an appointment that went about 17 hours last week and that was a perfect amount of time. Though if it wasn't for his business meetings, we would have had that lazy Sunday in bed of sex, sports, food, nap and repeat all day long.  

Not all of us are available 24/7, we might have relationships, families and other jobs/businesses that require our time too. It can take me easily 3-4 hours just to get ready, have to get my son ready (he's a toddler so that can be like herding cats), get him off to the sitter, before even making my way to the appointment. Will I jump through all of those hoops for a 1hr? Nope, sure will not.  

Higher time minimums do attract a different kind of clientele, not necessarily better as some of my long timers were hours at the very start. But there is a difference. Some of us are niche practitioners and our carefully cultivated experiences are best suited for longer engagements.  

There is no right or wrong or better way for a lady to run her business. It's her business, she creates it to suit Her. Otherwise, if you are running around 24/7 trying to be everything to every client for the bare minimum, who's really in control of your business? The clients or you? If you want to do one hours, knock yourself out. I prefer to work smarter not harder with 90 min/2 hours minimums. Half of the appointments/time, higher quality of engagement, better use of my time and energy, for the same (or more!) amount of money, how is that ridiculous? lo