not to laugh at the weird shit we sometimes seem to ask for. At least, not to laugh visibly. It's cool if she chuckles to herself, IMHO. Laughter is so shrinkage-inducing!! LOL
She open to various ages? willing to see black guys? 420 friendly?
You can stick it in her butt?...she doesn't mind pissing on ya? doesn't care if you know her in real life?
Seems pretty open-ended. But I'd like to know what it means....preferably from a provider if it's complicated.
Open minded means she's open to some ideas of men's fetishes or bi-curious/bi or willing to explore some sexual desires that she may or may not have done before.
That pimps put in the ads. It is a signal that a client can beat her etc according some articles I remember seeing that in an article I read.
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...NOT code for a specific set of services.
When I say I'm open-minded, I mean that I'm not judgmental about people's kinks, age, racial background, disabilities, etc. It has nothing to do with where you can or can't stick IT. -eyeroll-
fair enough.
Way back at the dawn time (or at least escort review boards), in a land called The Krylon Underground, someone coined a term to describe their meeting. "It wasn't like a business transaction. She treated me as if we'd known each other a while and really liked one another. The experience was like being with a girlfriend."
At first, GFE, meant the attitude and atmosphere that made it feel like the cash transaction was secondary to the encounter.
It didn't take long for the term to acquire the baggage of a itemized list of musts and should required to qualify for the term. (In point of fact, I strongly suspect that the encounter that first used the term wouldn't qualify at all under current expectations).
Open minded will end up the same way. It won't describe an attitude or atmosphere. It will almost certainly become code for a laundry list of services, if it isn't already.
At this time, based on the BP ads from some ladies that vanish when they were more explicit, and then re-appear with the term in place of a term that does not pass the BP censors, I believe the term is most frequently used to indicate that a door on the opposite end from the mind will open.
Seeing some of the comments below, I have no doubt it it is well on its way to including other services.
It kind of threw me off because I was like "well what are you looking for?." To him he asked if I offered facials, or if I ever did videos, would I consider an appointment with two guys, how about an orgy. Lol. He said he really liked me and wanted to see me again, but how open minded was I?
The answer to his questions? No. All No. I felt pretty boring, answering No to all of his questions. Lol I was just being honest.
So to me open minded means anything out of the norm GFE, kissing, DATY and the basic positions? And I normally considered myself open minded! I just have SOME things I will not do.
This and other phrases are thrown around in BP ads so much as to mean nothing.Do your research, develop a deep favorites list, use it, and enjoy.
....at least hearing what you're interested in without freaking out/getting judge-y.
It's meant to get attention, to provide some shred of hope to someone who is feeling really nervous about what he thinks he might like to ask for if he's not afraid of being shot down. "I'd be really embarrassed if I asked her to wear a plaid miniskirt while I banged her, and she said NO"...
Of course, there's no real guarantee, and if they can manage to get you to pick up the phone and call them, you're a lot further along to making a date (and, incidentally, giving them money). It's a term without any precise definition, much like "fetish friendly".
"Fetish" is a term with a pretty wide definition, and you'd be surprised at how common some people's requests actually are. That's not to say that they are certain to be granted -- a lot of providers don't want to have anything to do with anal, for instance. Then again, if all you're asking for is that she wear thigh-highs throughout the entire appointment, that's unlikely to be an issue. You might need to tell her that you really want her to keep the stockings and heels *on* until you leave, though.
I called a lady on BP, who advertised as "open minded", and asked her what she meant. After several questions about LE, and me assuring her that I was legit, she informed me that she was willing to anything for a price, not to exclude BBFS.
I considered that good research and know to stay clear of the open minded BP gals
Just realize that many BP providers started out as street walkers. If you see one on a regular basis you might hear all types of stories about working on the streets. BBFS is common in Baltimore area with street walkers. Several survey indicated that 50% of the BP providers offer BBFS. You will be be surprised to find out the careers (healthcare) of the guys who are asking for BBFS. You would think they would know better.
maybe you should stay away from them as well, lol.
Anyways there's legit girls that do BBFS....ain't no guy has the balls to put it in a review cause ain't nobody trying to hear it....plus the ridicule and the girl would ask for it to be deleted. But i'm pretty sure girls have a regular or three they BBFS with either in real life or the hobby.
it's on the dude to determine if he wants the BBBJ and DATY. to think providers ain't BBFSing a couple of single guys is kinda naive. just sayin, bruh....
I considered that good research and know to stay clear of the open minded BP gals [/quote
not to laugh at the weird shit we sometimes seem to ask for. At least, not to laugh visibly. It's cool if she chuckles to herself, IMHO. Laughter is so shrinkage-inducing!! LOL
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