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Good question. And a good answer from NYE. But now I'm wondering.

I understand if her performance and attitude was different, hate to hear that happened to you. But did her looks really go down two rungs, or are you just upset about how she treated you.

I'm also kinda wondering what was wrong with all the nice answers you got to this question over the last two days on the newbie board, but bringing that up would probably be an asshole thing to do.

gotframer756 reads

I saw a provider a year ago and wrote a review back then, let's say the score was 9, 10 . If I see the same provider now and she took me for granted and it was a really bad session. I write a new review with the score 7,7 does this new review go over the old one? Will the old review disappear?

Or will my old review stay and my new one will be the latest with my handle ( 2 reviews with the same handle just different time)?

 
I am not asking about the free VIP days..

NoYellowEnvelope253 reads

And for those who aren't aware, no VIP days for that new review.

Why you're asking this question again.    

The responses you received on the Newbie board seemed pretty clear & easy to understand.  :-)

Are you just making sure?

 
Here's the link to that thread.......

OP's post did have a familiar ring to it. Thanks for linking to the previous replies in Newbie.

...8/9 to 10/10 in his newbie board post. Here he is lowering her scores. What's up with that? Sounds like this situation isn't real to me.

Good question. And a good answer from NYE. But now I'm wondering.

I understand if her performance and attitude was different, hate to hear that happened to you. But did her looks really go down two rungs, or are you just upset about how she treated you.

I'm also kinda wondering what was wrong with all the nice answers you got to this question over the last two days on the newbie board, but bringing that up would probably be an asshole thing to do.

Posted By: Fearghas
I'm also kinda wondering what was wrong with all the nice answers you got to this question over the last two days on the newbie board, but bringing that up would probably be an asshole thing to do.
I already did the asshole thing for you!  :-)

See how helpful I am??  :-P

 
Actually, my guesses as to why he's asking again, but this time on the GD are as follows:

A.  He just wants more voices to chime in so he feels reassured by more answers

B.  He never went back to that thread to read the answers, maybe looking for PMs instead

C.  This was just a troll post to begin with, to get folks to do as you did and comment on his lowering her Appearance score

 
;-)

Oh I would never call you an asshole, Debbie:>) I think it's the delay from the moderating or whatever. Your post wasn't there when I was writing mine. Helpful, though, yes I'd call you that.

As for the guesses:

A) How much reassuring can a guy in alias need here? It's not like he's trying to disconfirm a rumor his atf has the hiv, just write the damn review and then he'll know first hand just how the rules work.

B) He posted in the thread after Impposter answered this question in all caps.

C) DING DING DING I think we got a bingo.

Posted By: gotframer
I saw a provider a year ago and wrote a review back then, let's say the score was 9, 10 . If I see the same provider now and she took me for granted and it was a really bad session. I write a new review with the score 7,7 does this new review go over the old one? Will the old review disappear?  
   
 Or will my old review stay and my new one will be the latest with my handle ( 2 reviews with the same handle just different time)?  
   
   
 I am not asking about the free VIP days..

NoYellowEnvelope168 reads

... you might want to stop and think if that's the best way to handle this situation.  

A year ago you gave this provider a very high score. A year later, she's dropped off significantly in appearance (9 to 7) and more so in performance (10 to 7, which on the rating scale is "hot time" but you said it was a "really bad session.")

Think about whether this session could have been simply a bad day for her, or if it's something important enough to put into a new review to inform other mongers. For example, are her pics now significantly misrepresenting her appearance?  That's something that other mongers should know. Also look at her other reviews.  Is your experience a rare exception, or do you see a trend e.g. a decline in scores since you first saw her?  If it's rare, it could have been the "bad day" scenario.  

Then consider if you'd ever want to see this provider again. If so, you might reach out to her and explain your concerns over your last session, and that you're disappointed because of how much you enjoyed your first meeting. That gives her a chance to explain what happened and offer to make it up to you somehow.  Depending how this goes, you can decide whether to submit a new review or not.

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