My job often brings me in contact with electrically alive parts or moving machinery. Rings are therefore verboten.
I only wear my ring to family social events, and the likeIt's something I see a lot on the boards, that you seem to assume that your clients are all married and either cheating for thrills or not getting any at home...in a post a couple threads down Alyson Parker said something to the effect that all of her clients already have a best friend that lives in their home with them...
I'm not married, never have been...don't have a girlfriend either...in my 51 years I've met plenty of women I wanted to have sex with but not one (well, ok...maybe one) that I would want to be married to...this life is the perfect answer for someone like me who doesn't really have the time or inclination to deal with a "relationship"...and the only friend living in my house with me is my cat (dogs don't like being left alone for days at a time, cats seem to prefer it)...
I can bet you ten million dollars Alyson Parker saw someone who wasn't married who lives with anyone. I know this because I spent a good hour with her three months ago. I think I was the youngest person she saw when she agreed to spend an hour with me when she came to NY. I liked her a lot. She is a great provider I know people were blasting her today based off her thoughts on OTC. I don't think they were justified. I'm not going to kiss her ass but I think some people were tough on her and no one should blast her for running her business the way she sees fit. I know another good provider who also makes those same claims so I guess most of the people in this hobby are married but more and more people like the OP and me are coming into this hobby looking for fun making lasting memories. I also know a different top 10 NJ provider who won't do OTC either doesn't even enjoy dinner dates. Just wants to take it an hour at a time. It's all based off what the person is comfortable with.
I'm fine under either circumstance. I'm not the picky type.
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I'm not married, never have been...don't have a girlfriend either...in my 51 years I've met plenty of women I wanted to have sex with but not one (well, ok...maybe one) that I would want to be married to...this life is the perfect answer for someone like me who doesn't really have the time or inclination to deal with a "relationship"...and the only friend living in my house with me is my cat (dogs don't like being left alone for days at a time, cats seem to prefer it)...
I don't mean this in a harsh way, but you are generally spineless and let people walk all over you, especially women. It's all too common around here, as many guys are either used to being browbeaten by their wives or are so socially inept that paying prostitutes is literally the only way they can get a woman to have sex with them.
Fortunately not all men, and not all whore mongers are wired the same as you. Some of us actually can stand up to a woman with whom we disagree with, and we can do it without going to the complete other end of the spectrum occupied by the likes of OTM and others who truly don't like the women they pay to have sex with.
Some men treat hookers like "Goddesses" others treat them like dirt, there is a middle ground where you just treat them like anyone else based on how they act as individuals.
Duh!
Plus, quite a few take the ring off before walking into my hotel room. Sometimes I'll notice they pull it out of their pocket & slip it back on just before they leave.
Once, it fell out of the guy's pants pocket and we didn't notice it because it had rolled out of sight.
He contacted me later, in a panic, having already practically torn his car apart looking for it..... I found it & returned it to him but he damn near had a heart attack while he was waiting for me to search my room and get back to him. 
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Nooner: A sexual encounter at lunchtime; especially one that is illicit
I have never been married but many of my family members and friends who are married never wore rings.
My dad never wore a ring. Neither did any of my brothers, most of my uncles, some cousins and many friends. Some men just don't do jewelry. Many people in certain kind of jobs never wear rings, because of occupational hazards. I come from a very blue collar background. Could be why I know so many who don't.
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My job often brings me in contact with electrically alive parts or moving machinery. Rings are therefore verboten.
I only wear my ring to family social events, and the like
my ring, watch, et al, end up in my glove compartment when I have an "appointment."
I've seen some calculations of the cost of being married, number of times having sex per year, and cost of a divorce, compared to hiring escorts for the same number of sexual encounters. They claim it is cheaper to hire escorts.
Having been divorced, I can concur that it is incredibly expensive.
Because it's worth it
to be very special that for all your life you wanted to marry JUST her ?
Just curious ...
there many men may marry few times in life and feel that they can marry al women they sleep with
From American male point of view - what makes a woman to be suitable for marriage?
As ell may be you will give bit of background on yourself?
As education, occupation, interests, looks, habits.
Pure hypotetical question . not a practical . just want to compare to my own experiences in states.. to know American men even better then I already learned for 10 + years ( and made it here as a result
It would be a good sense of humor.
My last wife did not have one. My current one does
I'm not married, never have been...don't have a girlfriend either...in my 51 years I've met plenty of women I wanted to have sex with but not one (well, ok...maybe one) that I would want to be married to...this life is the perfect answer for someone like me who doesn't really have the time or inclination to deal with a "relationship"...and the only friend living in my house with me is my cat (dogs don't like being left alone for days at a time, cats seem to prefer it)...
I'm not married, never have been...don't have a girlfriend either...in my 51 years I've met plenty of women I wanted to have sex with but not one (well, ok...maybe one) that I would want to be married to...this life is the perfect answer for someone like me who doesn't really have the time or inclination to deal with a "relationship"...and the only friend living in my house with me is my cat (dogs don't like being left alone for days at a time, cats seem to prefer it)...
Don't ask. Our time together is our time and if the subject never comes on (him bringing it up, not me) then, it never comes up. It is really none of my business.