Do men prefer Incalls or outcalls? There are a lot of men preferably in CT that won't come to a hotel Incall location ( Wyndham suites, Marriott etc) but can't provide an outcall location themselves. I was just curious.
Since I hire service providers when I am on vacation, outcall to my hotel room is preferred.
And that's what I think would be the norm for all. And me visiting a lady at her hotel while I'm home doesn't bother me....but that's me.
Generally outcall when I travel and incall when home. I have gotten a hotel room myself at home a few times for some ladies I really wanted to see who only did outcalls, but generally I would much prefer going to their place, and I don't care if that is a hotel room, apartment, private residence or whatever. (But they are generally hotel rooms or condos.)
While travelling, I will already have a hotel room, So I prefer she come to me. Also I may be unfamiliar with the area, and traffic etc, in order to go to an incall, and I may not have transportation.
The guys you are talking about just sound odd. They won't go to an incall but they don't want outcall either. Maybe they just need another hobby.
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I'm in Connecticut and I'm seeing this as a growing trend here. The paranoia of going coming to my hotel is there even though I screen and create a level of comfort. The moment I put up that I can only accommodate outcalls so I don't deal with the costs of hotels my phone stops ringing. It's extremely bizarre. I'm going to start touring more maybe it's just here.
here in town (los angeles) i prefer seeing a lady at her place. however there is one lady who i kind of trade off incall/outcall with, depending on if she's booked a room for her other clients or not.
i agree w/perfect storm, the guys that don't want to go to a hotel but won't book a hotel are nuts, or else they are feeding you a line to avoid actually putting out the dough.
if i were y ou i'd stop communicating with those guys altogether.
So the bigger question is why are they bothering to contact you? It's either or right? How can you decline to go to a providers location, yet not have a outcall location for the provider to come to? Maybe they want a car date, I'm not sure. Puzzling, but to answer to your question, I think its both. I prefer incalls when I am in my regular AO and outcalls if I am traveling to another city, unless outcall donations are astronomically higher than the incall rate.
Some clients will not go to a hotel for an in-call date at all.
I've talked to some who have very good reasons for it...... others, not so much, but everyone is still entitled to their own preferences.
There's a gal and an in-call for everyone! ;-
As a single guy with no roomates, I do love me some outcall. There's really nothing like ordering up a fine piece of poon and having it delivered straight to the door of your luxury condo, complete with yoga pants 
Ha you said poon that's hilarious
Pizza wouldn't have been as funny
and I don't go to hotel incalls, so it has to be a house or an apartment location. Nothing like being greeted at the door by a hot woman in lingerie. Not the same effect when they come to you and have to dress conservatively until they are inside your location.
I especially love to have a gal stay over at my house where I can cook a meal.
Nothing like the home court advantage
If anyone invited me over and decided to cook for me I can guarantee you will get the best sensual experience of your life. I love sweet gestures like that and wish they would happen more often.
I am like most I think, When I am out of town with no transportation and already have a room, I always do outcall. When in my own local area I prefer incall.
I really believe the incall provides the better environment as the lady generally has the room set up nice and romantic and she always look so sexy when you arrive. Plus she is generally more comfortable in her incall environment and thus the show gets on the road much quicker.
I get a kick out of being naked in someone else' bed!
If I'm home it's much more likely to be her incall. Unless she's among a very few "special friends." If I'm out of town, it'll be outcall.
If it is a big conference hotel, i am comfottable seeing a lady there. So much going on nobody is really noticing if I am visiting or staying.
Right now, most of the ladies I see have private incalls but when I travel I prefer outcalls.
Outcall to my home would be nearly impossible -- nosey neighbors see everything. Outcall to a hotel/motel near my home? I'm too cheap to spring for that. There are enough incall providers available to make up for outcall-onlys. I haven't had an outcall to my hotel room on a business travel yet, but I would consider it now that I have joined the ranks here.
Because it's cheaper. I don't want to pay your travel expenses if I don't have to.
unless I am planning a longer, special date - all day, or a dinner evening or overnight.
When traveling, I prefer an outcall as I already have a room and it is convenient - but an incall is fine if I know the area and it is easy for me to get to.
I'm fine with a hotel incall. I can imagine some circumstances where a private incall might be desired by some, but it really doesn't matter to me. I'm just not that picky or paranoid.
Have you tried air bnb? I thought about it for my trip to MD but I read somewhere (probably here) that they dig into your life and don't let my kind stay but I do have an alternate number and email
I definitely prefer incall over outcall. I know when I'm searching for a provider I am passing over "diamonds in the rough" when I see out all only listed.
I also think hotels are waaay over priced...but again I guess it depends on location. Of course I wouldn't expect a provider to come to me if I were staying at one of those $70 ( or lower) places. I try to keep it somewhat classy. Sometimes I've even tried to get rooms that allowed smoking ( for candles).
D.
PS. Btw there's a hotel out in Lenox, Massachusetts that has a jacuzzi if anyone's interested.
1. The lady have her own private incall. A home, condo, apartment, or studio. But never in my hometown.
2. The lady have her own private motel room. I know what you're thinking. All the high end, upscale, elite escorts wouldn't be caught dead in a motel. Nevertheless, I love them, if they're in a good part of town, and have a reputation for being clean. You get away from all the surveillance, elevator keys, nosey maids, and paid parking. Again, never in my hometown.
3. The lady have her own private hotel room. This is the third choice, and I've done a few, but all the other ladies must be busy, or one of my favorite ladies is visiting from out of town. There are some exceptions. Some hotels leave the back door open. Some hotels have the elevator adjacent to the front door. Once again, never in my hometown.
4. I've only done one outcall in my life, so to all the beautiful (Kerstan) ladies who do outcall only, get an incall once every blue moon.
1. Apartment incall in a dense urban area, with good public transit and nearby discreet places to wait for her if she's late.
2. Hotel incall in the same dense urban area as #1.
3. Apartment inacall in the suburbs near transit hubs and/or bus routes, and places to wait.
4. Hotel incall in the same suburbs as #3.
5. Private residence incall in a sprawling, car-dependent suburb.
6. Hotel incall in the same suburb as #5.
7. Outcall. (*except* when traveling to other cities)
I prefer to start with incall when I'm seeing someone new...just to be on the safe side. Once she's an established friend, I love to do outcall, complete with a nice meal and some sexy music videos to set the mood.
at my home. Live in a gated community where DL is required to get in after a pass is called in. Some girls don't want to do this-which is not a problem, I have met them outside the gate and driven them in. Just feel more relaxed AND don't have to get in the car and drive when I just want to take a nap LOL.