Shit, man, hookers ARE my normal sex life.
I'm only 19 and I've seen about 5. And I don't know why I enjoy it. I don't need to pay for it because I know girls my age who are down to fuck and usually doesn't cost me anything unless I take them out first. Anyway when one of my "friend with benefits" isn't available or doesn't want to do anything, I find myself seeing escorts. Is this bad thing since I'm so young? I feel like it's a thing for older guys, but I enjoy it for some reason. I know they usually don't give two f*cks about you and are doing it for the money but something about seeing them then leaving knowing I never have to see them or talk to them ever again if I don't want to. Money isn't a issue, I work a decent job and it's not like I'm doing it everyday. But is this a bad thing? Should I stop?
when one of your girlfriends aren't around.
It's MUCH better than whacking off.
Assuming for the moment that you aren't just a middle aged troll having some fun with us, there is nothing wrong with fucking hookers at age 19, by the age of 19 I had fucked hookers in about a half a dozen different countries, it never kept me from getting plenty of civvie sex.
A lot of these old geezers claim you shouldn't fuck hookers until you are as old as they are, I think they are just selfish fuckers who don't want to share.
Im not trolling, I don't know how it sounds like I am but I'm being 100% serious. Thanks for a serious reply. It's not something I do everyday like I said, but I enjoy it when I do do it. It's so easy, I barley have to talk to them if I don't want to, I just show up, leave some cash, get to it and get out. No asking her if she wants to have sex, or having a long convo to get her horny or whatever. I just thought this could turn into a bad habit since I'm still young and don't really NEED to be doing it.
Assuming for the moment that you aren't just a middle aged troll having some fun with us, there is nothing wrong with fucking hookers at age 19, by the age of 19 I had fucked hookers in about a half a dozen different countries, it never kept me from getting plenty of civvie sex.
A lot of these old geezers claim you shouldn't fuck hookers until you are as old as they are, I think they are just selfish fuckers who don't want to share.
Am I doing this even though I can't afford it?
Are hookers starting to interfere with my normal sex life?
Do I feel bad after fucking a hooker?
Do I feel guilty about fucking hookers?
If any of this applies to you, then maybe you should reconsider this "hobby" If not, don't worry and just enjoy yourself like most of the rest of us.
Shit, man, hookers ARE my normal sex life.
Yes, I fucked my share of hookers, even at age 19, but my ratio was about 90% civvies vs 10% hookers at age 19. Now that I am three times that age, the ratio has reversed. Of course it is a lot easier to get 19 year old girls into your bed for free when you are nineteen than it is to do so forty years later, I wouldn't fuck fifty year olds back then and I refuse to fuck old broads today.
I am embarrassed just reading this horse shit
In case your not a troll and want some honesty here it is.
I'm not a preacher or therapist but if I had to do it all over again I wouldn't have started. Yes I was a lot older than 19 but I'm 33 now with my mind in a different place than where it was 6 months ago. Like you I had options to get free pussy but I choose the excitement and danger of doing illegal activities instead of going the more traditional route. I regret that decision daily now. I always choose the wrong decision because in my mind I was no better than a criminal who could maniipulate anything out of anyone. I have had some amazing experiences but it's hard enough finding a women you are compatible with in the real world. But at 33 that's what I crave more than anything and that's what I am spending most of my time doing now. Had I not started this I might very well be married with kids. I have wasted so much time that I can't get back. I have no idea how these decisions will dictate my future but with my past if you don't need to pay save your money for something more worthy.
Just my two cents.
Good luck.
If you want to PM me feel free.
Zak
I'm not a preacher or therapist but if I had to do it all over again I wouldn't have started. Yes I was a lot older than 19 but I'm 33 now with my mind in a different place than where it was 6 months ago. Like you I had options to get free pussy but I choose the excitement and danger of doing illegal activities instead of going the more traditional route. I regret that decision daily now. I always choose the wrong decision because in my mind I was no better than a criminal who could maniipulate anything out of anyone. I have had some amazing experiences but it's hard enough finding a women you are compatible with in the real world. But at 33 that's what I crave more than anything and that's what I am spending most of my time doing now. Had I not started this I might very well be married with kids. I have wasted so much time that I can't get back. I have no idea how these decisions will dictate my future but with my past if you don't need to pay save your money for something more worthy.
Just my two cents.
Good luck.
If you want to PM me feel free.
Zak
I don't know how this came off as trolling. Im being serious. Thank you for a serious answer. I guess I'm the same way I like the "danger" part of it. I don't know there's plenty of horny girls my age or around my age I can get with if I tried or took them on dates or whatever. That's still kinda paying for it. Theres I know that I'm friends with, we have sex I don't want to say often but if she's in the mood and I am then it happens. So I don't know why I like paying for it but I do. I'll try not to anymore, even know it's like a once every few months type thing for me.
Oh come on already, you're old enough to know better, there simply isn't any such thing as free pussy. Women own a gold mine, they know it (as well they should) and most of them use it to perfection (as well they should). Don't get me wrong, I absolutely adore women, I just can't live with one.
At least in this world, they're honest and up front about it, pay for it and you get it, the simplicity of the arrangement is perfect.
1. I didn't have sex until I was 26, so I'm making up for lost time. Life owes me.
2. When I gave up religion, it freed me of all guilt associated with all sex.
3. When I was 20 a beautiful (well, it was dark) young street walker came up to me, and stroked my cock over my pants. Obviously, nothing happened. But since religion wouldn't let me have sex with all the non escort young girls who also wanted to play around, that mini escorted sex experience seared itself onto my brain. It became my preferred sexual encounter.
4. When I got caught fooling around with the neighbor girl (no sex), my dad kicked the holy shit out of me. That seared in my brain that sex was solely to be done secretively. You see the connection. The irony was that later we found out that my dad had knocked up my mom, and they had to get married. He was a little sex hound too. Why kick the shit out of me? Religion bad!!!
5. It pisses me off (no I'm not going to kick the shit out of anyone) that all the rock stars get to have all the fun. In this world, I'm a rock star.
6. Every lady in this world is 100% different when it comes to sex. Each different lady brings out a whole new world of discovery. I really enjoy, not only the sex, but the discovery. When you develop an atf relationship, the discovery can go even deeper. That's why I enjoy these forums. We get to make more discoveries, without even seeing the ladies. I think a lot of guys feel like I do. When a guy posts something, he gets an average number of hits. When a lady posts something she always gets tons more hits. We gentlemen are very interested in what the ladies have to say about all these different topics. We're like scientists.
7. I'm severely addicted to seeing a number in my inbox, the bigger the better, when I check my secret email account. Unless you have a serious atf, the only way to get a number is to attempt to set up a date.
Do you think that sex can be had without any financial, emotional, or physical cost?
Nothing is completely free my friend. Its relative.
Doing it means more choices of "desirables". At your age, you are too young to settle down with any girl, having a family burden, right?
I moved on from my failed marriage, and I have no problem jumping into the world of civie dating again. But if I don't get a phone number, or a date, or the date ends without sex...I have my ATF to fall back on. Keep doing what you're doing. Sex is good for your health (provided you're taking all the proper precautions).
I don't need to pay for it because I know girls my age who are down to fuck and usually doesn't cost me anything.
You'll learn soon enough that you always pay for sex, one way or another. Not always in the form of money, but often in the form of having to listen to their bullshit, deal with their period self etc.
You see escorts because it's the path of least resistance, you get the best part of a relationship, sex and the intimacy involved without the need to play the stupid fucked up dating or relationship game, and the she or you leaves. It's perfect really.
You're young enough that you'll most likely look to pursue a LTR at some point, and you'll have the delusion that she won't try to change you, or put unrealistic demands on your time, patience and finances. Hopefully you'll find that "right" one, but the odds are stacked against you.
Good luck.