Sometimes I'll get really horny and want to schedule a date but I won't schedule one with someone I'm not attracted to just to get laid.  There are so many beautiful women on here I always seem find someone I'm interested in seeing.  However, I do have a list of women I want to see and our schedules just don't sync up so it's hard to cross them off my bucket list.

I wait, I wait, I wait, I wait.

There was a time as a younger hobbyist when it was all about quantity.  I try to not impulsively scratch that itch so to speak anymore.  I just tell myself to put that money towards extra time with a girl I really want to see.

I never just settle, thank God for ATF's

I know what I like and look for in a woman and I make sure I do my research and get it.  Don't have time to waste just "settling".

Guys definitely do this.

It hasn't happened often, but clients have told me that they were trying to see someone else but couldn't, and since I'd been on their radar for awhile, they saw me instead.  Because I was available.  Sometimes they wind up becoming regulars so it's a win-win.

Also, I've had a few who saw me to fulfill the reference requirements of the the provider he REALLY wanted to meet.  
That always makes me smile.  

Come to think of it, I have one client I see infrequently who only books with me when his ATF isn't around.    
So that makes me at most his 2nd choice.....  

My point is that quite a few men do indeed "settle" for what's available.   Which is great!  Because if everyone waited for his 1st choice all the time, there'd be less business for everyone, IMO.  

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NOONER: (noun) A sexual encounter during lunch hour, especially one that is illicit.

but yes, at times when a gal cancels last minute, I'll generally go to a massage parlor

Had a call for dinner booking at 9.20pm last night!! He admitted he'd rung a few :)

He was very open about the fact he'd been blown off and let down by a couple of other ladies so he'd been googling to find someone else. He was already in the restaurant when he called me!!!
I laughed and said dinner time for me was about 7pm and that I was in my hotel bed with my makeup off watching TV

I just keep a rotation of about 3 women going, and usually have things planned a few days in advance.

Why would I "settle?" I'm never that desperate. I see providers who I want to see, who are within my budget, and who are available when I am available. I can go very long stretches of time without seeing anyone.

I always have a number of girls on my To See list.  

There are a few touring girls I will find time for when they visit Boston.  I would name three names here, but don't want my post pulled for shilling.  Otherwise I simply book whenever the stars are aligned in terms of Incall location, free time available, and having the cash in hand.

If I'm in the DC area, where I live, I don't settle. I'll wait for my ATF or someone I want to see (or see again) is back in town. My first appointment was canceled by the provider last minute, I waited 3 months for her to return to town before scheduling another first appointment. I may be willing to settle when I'm hobbying away from where I live. But still, I haven't really had to settle on the road.

When I was in Atlanta, I saw my first choice.
When I was in Pittsburgh, the only local escorts I wanted to see where out of town, looked on another board and someone who I did some research on for a potential Detroit trip that never happened, was available (I don't really call that settling since she was my first choice for Detroit but my third choice for Pittsburgh but others might)
When I was in New York, my first choice was medically unavailable, she recommended one of her friends. Didn't have VIP so I couldn't really do major research. I guess that's settling but I had a great time and would see her again.
For my upcoming Philly trip, I'm "settling" for my 3rd choice so we'll see if it works out. I'm betting it will since my 3rd choice was well researched.

a couple of times I've really regretted it, but I can remember one lady in Phoenix that I contacted at 9:30 after a last minute cancelation, and she rocked my world....so, yeah, I'll take a chance on a "last-minute fix".

Availability

Good questions (I think)  
Most of the time I like to plan my dates at least a few days in advance.  Starting with a friend text or call saying "hey, so and so, how have you been..."  Usually that leads to setting up a date.  Some times I will plan a date a week or two in advance, depending on who I want to see.

If I'm really horny and no one is available I'll scan the dreaded B-pages lol.  Believe what you want I've had uncanny good luck (so far) with BP.  I know it can be the melting pot for disaster for some though.

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I try an set things up a few days in advance. Call one, no response, call the next. But they're all the ones I want to see so I don't consider it settling

Once told me, sometimes it's not about who is or isn't available, it's about who answers the call.  He was referring to his personal business of course.  He alluded to the fact that he got a plethora of his business because he simply answered the phone or returned a voicemail.  Sometimes "settling" works out for the best.  I find it best not to get your hopes up for someone who you really want to see, because shit happens.

Can't speak for anyone else but I usually go for my own "type"
However, and this is a biggggg however, as the old saying goes: a stiff dick has no conscience. Meaning when I'm in the mood I'm looking for the first available consenting adult when I can't find exactly what I'm looking for.