A little wine is okay. I once got an awesome bbbj after bringing a fbsm provider a bottle of red wine. Not a 420 fan, but will not leave if a provider used beforehand. It is coke, meth and other drugs that cause problems. I want a low profile and little drama, and drugs usually result in the opposite. I have had several providers who were obviously high. They were late, spaced out, and not into a session. Count me out.
One girl was obviously high during the session then disappeared into her bathroom for 10 minutes and came out sniffing. I cut the session short as she did not look able to perform a second round. She followed me into the apartment hallway completely naked, hugging and kissing and saying what a great time she had. I noticed her door closing and almost had to push her off me to get around her to stop it. It was the self locking kind and would have locked her out. I still cringe thinking about what would have happened if I had not caught the door and had a naked and high provider in her apartment hallway, locked out and probably in hysterics.How and when should a provider inform a client that she conducts her business while under the influence, be it alcohol, weed, E, coke, etc.? Some ladies state unequivocally on their websites that intoxicants are not welcome while others are silent on the subject. Does this subject merit pre-meeting clarification?
Also, can or should a provider's intoxicant use be related in a review? Is a simple retelling of experiences appropriate or should editorial comments of their impact on the session be included? fyi, I am in the camp of the "intoxicants prohibited" providers, that is unless the usage has been discussed beforehand.
(and you're prepared for any blowback), then by all means mention it.
Keep to the facts, don't let your general opinion of "intoxicants" overwhelm the account of your session. That is to say if you knew she used but it didn't REALLY affect her performance (only your mindset), don't mention it.
I've had providers ask at the beginning of a session if I was 420 friendly or admit that they just burned one, but it's never impacted the session. To me it's similar to a glass of wine. If I saw track marks or she was BSC coked up or on meth, I might find an excuse to leave.
If you have any concerns with a new provider, maybe you should mention in your intro that you are drug and alcohol free and expect her to be too.
If the provider is acting weird, drunk, cracked out or stone when you arrive this isn't professional at all.
If you are only ASSUMING shes stone because it smells like an Amsterdam coffee shop at her house yet she's performing just fine and is l functional WHY DO YOU CARE?
if she delivers: great
If she's falling all over the place, not making sense or obviously ontoxicated yes report it.
I can be buzzed Every once in awhile because I just got back from happy hour and doesn't prevent me from delivering a great session, same after a Lil 420 with the girls
So if that impacted the quality of the session report i
Odds are you have had a date under the influence.
I have personally had my own issues (on both sides)
Both taught me a lot
- I over drank during a date (or two) with good friends and was unable to preform. Fortunately we were close enough that it was a swell joke which I later made up for.
- A date over drank and I suspect it was due to "pre-gaming" before visiting (as in he drank prior to arrival). We went through two (maybe three) bottles of champagne and he was unable to leave. He was in fact vomiting into my toilet for an hour and needed two hours to recover and sober up to ride his motorcycle away.
The reality is that you can't do much.
TER doesn't allow you to post reviews mentioning substance use BUT you can get around that with hints or wording to suggest substance use. Mostly I see "she excused herself to the bathroom and she was in there a while which suggested one thing to me" but you can't really say "I think she was doing drugs" in the review. You can say she was "twitchy" or a "space cadet" perhaps "out of it" or seemed overly hyper/energetic.
Really? They all need to be high to see us...
Drugs are destructive and pointless.
A little wine is okay. I once got an awesome bbbj after bringing a fbsm provider a bottle of red wine. Not a 420 fan, but will not leave if a provider used beforehand. It is coke, meth and other drugs that cause problems. I want a low profile and little drama, and drugs usually result in the opposite. I have had several providers who were obviously high. They were late, spaced out, and not into a session. Count me out.
One girl was obviously high during the session then disappeared into her bathroom for 10 minutes and came out sniffing. I cut the session short as she did not look able to perform a second round. She followed me into the apartment hallway completely naked, hugging and kissing and saying what a great time she had. I noticed her door closing and almost had to push her off me to get around her to stop it. It was the self locking kind and would have locked her out. I still cringe thinking about what would have happened if I had not caught the door and had a naked and high provider in her apartment hallway, locked out and probably in hysterics.