LOVE
that he is not someone that you need to service? Do you find that it is hard to shift gears?
If you are able to successfully shift gears, what helps you to do that?
Thanks.
Unfortunately, while in the biz I feel I can have no SO.
Reasons are: partly because it is very hard to shift gears, and because I'm used to measuring what I give in the sexual realm with what I receive in the material realm; and partly because the kind of man I admire would find it very hard to accept my being sexual with other men when I am sexual with him.
Also because I put almost all of my sexual-psychic-emotional energy into my work.
(Good thing I love my work!!!)
Atria
I would never think along the same lines as a client. (No offense to any of my clients.) I enjoy my time with my clients, but when I am with my lover...I AM WITH MY LOVER.
She gets all my special attention and I put so much love into our intimate time together.
Clients are clients...S/O's are S/O's.
Shaye