A ladies ethnic background is irrelevant to me. I either find you physically attractive or I don't. From that point, then I'll start applying my own criteria. Her age, her body type, her personal grooming. I know what I like. Then from that point on I want to know something about her personality to see if she gives me a positive vibe. I'm looking for an experience, not an encounter. I'll read her reviews, but only the general information. I don't need to know the juicy details because as we all know, its always a YMMV situation.
After we've met and we know each other, a lot will depend on how things went whether I'll reach out to see her again. Sometimes it's her initial reaction/comment when she realizes that there is more to me than what she initially expected when she meets me that gives me pause. She's either totally game or she's not. The last few that the got the motor running full tilt were left exhausted and their legs where shaky.
Everyone has a preference for one reason or another but does a providers ethnic background matter when selecting one to accompany you. I'm aware some providers have age/ ethnic limits when it comes to who they will spend time with but I want to know what do hobbyist look for when selecting a provider. Please no bashing on this thread if you feel like say something rude or putting someone down write it on a piece of paper and throw it away. Excited to have a discussion about this.
A ladies ethnic background is irrelevant to me. I either find you physically attractive or I don't. From that point, then I'll start applying my own criteria. Her age, her body type, her personal grooming. I know what I like. Then from that point on I want to know something about her personality to see if she gives me a positive vibe. I'm looking for an experience, not an encounter. I'll read her reviews, but only the general information. I don't need to know the juicy details because as we all know, its always a YMMV situation.
After we've met and we know each other, a lot will depend on how things went whether I'll reach out to see her again. Sometimes it's her initial reaction/comment when she realizes that there is more to me than what she initially expected when she meets me that gives me pause. She's either totally game or she's not. The last few that the got the motor running full tilt were left exhausted and their legs where shaky.
you should do it someplace besides the camper. Just a suggestion.
What took you so long? I knew you would be the first to offer up some "intelligent" comment. That's how predictable you are.
Since your work is done for the day, you can go back to your troll cave and declare the day a success.
The boards were a lot more pleasant before Los Angeles Lion Butt with the big wallet, a lot of free time, and a small brain showed up.
Don't they allow humor in San Diego? I'm surprised you can even have sex at all with a stick up your ass. You folks need to lighten up. It's more fun here if you do. Maybe change your handle to grumpy camper?
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Strange to say, I look at the eyes..which is hard to do when a lady hides her face. There is something about the eyes that I have found is very accurate as a first impression
I totally agree. It's in the eyes that lets you know how much fun a girl can be.
I never hide mine
I'll go with eyes. Love Roxy's eyes. Mesmerizing!
Don't care about their ethnic background.
I never hide mine
First, I want to find a provider I can connect with, regardless of ethnic background. I like them to be over 30 years of age, unless somehow comments on their maturity have been detailed with reviews on this site.
The more I see a provider, the better time each of us has. I like to see them multiple times.
For instance, I started seeing a FBSM provider about a year ago, have been a dozen times, and we now enjoy each other in a full service session, which I know she does not typically (if at all) provide.
Notice I didn't say no preferences.
To be specific to Jez, and since we've met, I can say your ethnicity (Nigerian/Ethiopian) made no difference to me in making contact. It was first your look (back before you hid your face) and then your demeanor during PMs. You could have said you're a black girl from New jersey and it wouldn't matter to me.
I definitely have some biases based on RL experiences with people from certain countries. Maybe from my travels I find Germans are pushy and rude, or Italians aren't very smart, or Brazilians are vane, but I can't think of a time I avoided a particular nationality/ethnicity. On the other hand, if I found Greek or East Indian woman to be exotic and I had never been with one, I might take extra interest.
Thanks bofia. How one conducts themselves in a pm/email is a factor when it comes to if I would like to spend time with them. Glad that I'm not the only one who takes this into consideration.
My criteria is pretty basic, I suppose.
I first read a couple of her TER reviews. After that, I go to her profile &/or website(s). I do this to see her photos and read more about her.
After doing all of that, if I'm interested in meeting her, I follow the directions that she has posted - which usually means sending her an e-mail.
When she responds, I continue to dialogue with her to get a better feel and understanding of her.
If we hit it off, then I make arrangements to schedule a meeting/session with her.
I've met a few providers thru TER, most of whom I haven't hooked up with more than once. (This is for many different reasons, none of which I'll disclose here because it would be ungentlemanly to do so.)
However, this is how I met my ATF - Miss Eva Bliss!
Like I said, pretty basic.
I prefer women that are well over 25.
Skills, Attractiveness, Personality, and reputation are my key concerns.
I like women who are just a tad bit aggressive.
Ethnicity isn't really a consideration.
Looks, excellent reviews, website and comm are important to me. Ethnicity is not. All I see on a date is a woman period; not a white, black, Asian, hispanic or whatever woman.
Thank you all for being able to elaborating on your preference. It's nice to know what one looks for deciding whom to they want to spend time with.
I don't see Asian providers. It feels far too creepy to me.
As I understand it, the father of the birth-mother of one of my adopted daughters owed money to loan sharks. They wanted her to become an escort for them to pay off his debt. She refused, and they tortured her 4-year old daughter, physically disfiguring her. The mother then relented - but first she left her daughter sitting on a park bench about 50 yards away from a police station. A couple of hours later the police noticed this 4-year old sitting alone, and she ended up in an orphanage. The orphanages did not have the funds to pay for reconstructive surgery, so she was made available as a "special needs" child when she was 8 years old.
I and my wife adopted her, and when she was 12 we started a 6-year process involving three major inpatient surgeries and about 30-40 outpatient surgeries.
When people rudely ask about the remaining scars, sometimes she tells them the story, but usually she says "I was surfing and got bit by a shark."
Except for now seeing Asian providers, I have seen all types: white, black, hispanic, native american, arab.
Situations like this I understand completely why not wanting to see someone who may remind one of a loved one.
You and your wife are clearly first class human beings bb3. Thanks for sharing that beautiful personal anecdote.
providers younger than my daughter, who is 30, so I just don't go there. I look for girls 35+.
Attraction, reviews, cost all go into consideration. Love exotic looks.