Extremely true! And well said, but I still like GaGambler's post:
"I will beg for pussy, I will pay for pussy, but I will never beg to pay for pussy"
I also want to thank all the ladies and gents who emailed me their take on this. Thank You.
So I get an email from a provider saying she's coming to Raleigh. I check the ad and see she does outcalls and say "OK". I send off an email with my info and numbers of reviews, OK's, and referrals (I'm really starting to sound like a man who're LOL) and I get a reply that she has a two hour minimum .. Um OK, travel fees paid... Not unreasonable, AND that you be in a hotel. .. WTF!? Must be a mistake. So I send back an email saying that I'm local and was the hotel requirement a mistake? Nope. So 2 hours minimum, travel fees paid and a hotel room. What are references and memberships to verification sites for then? I'm thinking she really just likes the little soaps they have in the hotel rooms. LOL Yeah I know her safety comes first and the dozen of so girls I've seen are all foolish risk takers. Whatever. I'm getting off my soapbox now.
why wouldn't she be hosting? Not unheard of, I guess, but it is somewhat unusual.
I would understand if she was traveling there just to see you, but that doesn't sound like the case.
Oh, well, you can always say "no." And presumably, you did.
Yup. I passed. I didn't bother asking about an incall. I doubt I'd be able to find a pink unicorn or whatever else she required. Sometimes I wonder about people.
If she hasn't met you, it's understandable that she would be skittish about meeting at your place...which is way out in the sticks, down a long dirt road, far from where anyone can hear you scream, no?
Um no never lived there, but I did see that in a movie once. She advertised outcalls. My point was she should have said outcalls to hotels with travel paid and a 2 hour minimum. I get it. Girls have to make bank to cover their tour expenses.
I don't blame her for asking for a neutral site. My last outcall to a residence in Myrtle Beach was a disaster. Clearly we had different ideas on housekeeping.
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I doubt her incall has the high thread count sheets I have on my bed.
...has to be one of the more dangerous situations for a lady, especially if she's touring and doesn't know the various neighborhoods. When I see an ad that mentions outcalls, I assume she means outcalls to a hotel, where there's a modicum of safety and sanitation (or, at least, certain expectations based on the hotel chain in question). I'm sure it was nothing personal, just normal precautions. It does raise an interesting point: the word "outcall" can mean different things to different people. It never hurts to get clarification before making arrangements.
I rarely do out calls. I feel like I am giving up control over situations that I want control over.
Cleanliness
Safety whether it is a hotel or a home
Privacy
Mood
There are too many unknowns
I think this year I have only had a half a dozen out calls if that many
I definitely do not feel an outcall to a home of a married man whose wifey is out of town is a TURN ON
To each his own
If I were a guy I would like a provider to come to my place so I could get off and just lay there after she leaves
But fortunately for me I have Gentlemen who want the whole sexy experience that I bring to my incall
It is a reflection of who I am
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I can only hope there is something in your pants I can USE
Was she visiting with a car or did she fly in? Of course a lot of the local ladies prefer outcall unless they host at a static incall.
Just sayin! 
Steph
No clue Steph. I lost interest due to some of the "requirements".
Just sayin!
Steph
"I will beg for pussy, I will pay for pussy, but I will never beg to pay for pussy"
Words to live by, I only wish I could claim them as my own.
Seriously, if I get down on my knees in front of a lady, begging is the last thing I'm thinking about.
I will beg for pussy, I will pay for pussy, but I will never beg to pay for pussy
They are not familiar with the surroundings and forget where they took off their panties.
I've found all kinds of things on my floor ( thankfully I'm single ) one lady even left her bag of condoms LOL
A string where one end is attached to the girl's panties and one end attached to a velcro strap that wraps around her wrist.
Oh now I remember some white ones a while back!
xoxo,
Steph
This hobby relies on mutual comfort with the verification process and location. If either party is uncomfortable, then it's time to look for other options. The safety issues -- both physical and privacy -- run both ways. Nothing trumps having the kind of information that this and other websites provide in advance of even that first email or telephone contact.
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Extremely true! And well said, but I still like GaGambler's post:
"I will beg for pussy, I will pay for pussy, but I will never beg to pay for pussy"
I also want to thank all the ladies and gents who emailed me their take on this. Thank You.
That depends on what your definition of "correct" is. I used mine because it fit better and I really never gave a shit (or is it zero fucks given?) about other's perceptions of correctness. Put that in your Google search bar.
Idioms are strange things, but not as strange as some of the crap I've read on this board ... 'I'm Right! You're Wrong!' -- 'No, I'm Right! You're Wrong!' My Google is better to your Bing ... 'I'm Right! You're Wrong!' -- 'No, I'm Right! You're Wrong!' Good news! Your compulsive need to correct everyone has finally resulted in becoming universally beloved! At long last — and without any warning whatever — your habit of beginning sentences with “Actually,” has brought you total acclaim. Former lovers and Internet acquaintances alike have joined together to celebrate your heroic habit of never letting a slightly incorrect statement go unchallenged. I think I just threw up in my mouth a little.