San Diego

Sadly, the answer to your question is yes. And that's why so many reviews
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are imbelished in one way or another. A lot of providers build their entire business on ter. So scores mean everything to them. One bad review (even if honest) can end up costing them a lot of $$. So some providers would rather avoid a hobbyist all together than take a chance. One way to avoid that is not to tell providers your ter name

2 via email, 1 via a P411 appointment request.  Not a single response.  These aren't BP girls either, all are 9+ overall rated on TER.

What gives?  Busy time of year in SD?  I get being busy but the no response at all thing is frustrating.

Summer is a busier time for a lot of us.
Some ladies won't respond unless you submit all the info they need in the initial contact so be sure you're including reference info (including their contact info) as well as details about you to remind your references. Another thing that gets forgotten a lot is the date/time/duration request.  

Another reason ladies won't respond is if the content of your request is graphic or sends red flag. Never mention services, menu or anything like that if you want a quick response. Also never a good idea to submit a rate "offer" if you would like a discount or special rate. If you can't afford the date message someone you can.  

 
Not saying you did any of these things but it could be something you didm't realize. Also another small challenge is if your mail for some reason is only going to spam. Try sending another message - it could have just been missed.

 
Take care!

Posted By: doublemac
2 via email, 1 via a P411 appointment request.  Not a single response.  These aren't BP girls either, all are 9+ overall rated on TER.  
   
 What gives?  Busy time of year in SD?  I get being busy but the no response at all thing is frustrating.

Has it been a day? Or 4?

Some ladies don't check their mail daily so perhaps it's just a small wait to hear back.

1+ week in one case.  About 5 days in the others.

You're booked for LV while I'll be in town!

Sorry I'm gone - but maybe someone else has time.
Post your travel dates and desires either here or start a new post.
Ladies who respond are usually going to be good on the emails ;)

Posted By: doublemac
1+ week in one case.  About 5 days in the others.  
   
 You're booked for LV while I'll be in town!

You dont give 10's so your viewed as a potential liabilty, lol.  Seriously, size does matter to some, aka score.

Is it how this site works?  You have to lie in your reviews to get appointments?

Posted By: mrroberts69
You dont give 10's so your viewed as a potential liabilty, lol.  Seriously, size does matter to some, aka score.  

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will be looked at by some and they may not like the ratings.  I had one turn me down strictly due to the scores I gave to others.  Not saying that this is common, but there are those that "size" does matter.

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are imbelished in one way or another. A lot of providers build their entire business on ter. So scores mean everything to them. One bad review (even if honest) can end up costing them a lot of $$. So some providers would rather avoid a hobbyist all together than take a chance. One way to avoid that is not to tell providers your ter name

That's only three strikes. You've got 2 more outs and although I don't know what your type is, there are plenty of highly rated ladies in San Diego.

Just be sure to back-channel if you have any concerns before you lock in an appointment.  

From what I understand, it's actually a slow season. Some girls travel/take vacation too.

Or perhaps these Providers have Cox Internet, which is intermittent at best,
especially in the downtown area of SD.   They may not get their messages?
I'm just offering up a kind reason.
I'm on the horn with this company (Cox Co.)
continuously attempting to troubleshoot, the lack of internet connectivity.
That's all I got

Something's not right.

I'm having really good luck with p411.  159 active, screened providers.  Nice complement to TER.  

I would ping the girls again nicely.  You've waited a reasonably good interval.

I would also use p411 and TER pm as a followup.  If I didn't hear anything from the p411 girl I would contact their admin, again nicely.  Do you have a lot of okays on p411?  That should count for something. p411 has a standard that girls are supposed to respond to date requests promptly unless you are coming across as a jerk.  

The San Diego market has changed dramatically.  BP is a joke

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