No need to ask lol my real name is Erin
If a provider lets you know her real name, do you continue
to call her by her stage name while on the date?
Obviously not talking about names like "SexyHotGFE4U"
Do you give providers your real first name?
Your thoughts if any?
...another question is what do you call a provider after she has changed her name? This has happened to me three times and it's always amusing how I stumble over her name(s).
Did she show you her Drivers License or Passport? LULZ!
Gawd you boyz R dumb.
Lol I learned that game when I first started going to stripclubs. Every stripper had at least 5 "real" names!
I know it's her real name as she is a professional musician and I have seen her perform live on stage.
I know it's her real name because I have meet her kids
I know it's her real name because she has traveled with me and she was able to get on the plane.
I know it's her real name because I have seen her more than once and she opened up to me.
I know it's her name because that's what other people have called her in a social gathering.
The more you see someone the more you know about them.
How do you dispute this?
Gawd you boyz R dumb.
Oversensitive much? Chillax.
LULZ!
are you a total asshole..........or are you just too ignorant to know how offensive your posts can be?
that you are at least as big an asshole as you claim I am.
To be specific: just because you claim you have all this personal info on 1 girl (which is pretty creepy in itself) is a classic "exception that proves the rule."
And, to clarify, I did not claim EVERY girl lies about her "real" information, simply that many do and in most cases you have no clue whether she's lying or not.
Oh, and thanks for using less of your little dots........Talk about an annoying device.
my post mentioned NOTHING about any "girl." Maybe you lack as much in the intelligence category as you lack in social grace........of which you have NONE!
Could it be, you ARE trying as hard as you are able..........and are simply intellectually bankrupt?
As for being intellectually bankrupt, pot=kettle=black. Also, anyone who needs to punctuate...... his..... inane...... vaporings..... with.........dots.....is on VERY shaky ground criticizing what anyone else writes.
Also your Kicked Ass Detector if you think Zak did any of that. Do you really think anyone's claim re a single hooker applies to the rest of us? (that was a rhetorical question). Read my reply to LilVegan. I won't waste any more time repeating it to someone as dense as you.
We can only assume you're a bit over-sensitive on this issue because you think you "know" lots of girls' personal info. Please don't be butt-hurt about it.
sorry, did you take that personally? chillax afro.
you called all the men dumb, and then you are amazed someone took it personally?
your mo: you go lobbing insults right and left and then pull back when someone reacts, laughing it off like it's no big thing. what are you rush limbaugh?
'performing live on stage'. btw, can you
see someone perform "dead" on stage?
SIC
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I met a gal years ago who had an obvious stage name, but after a few week she told me her "real" name, and I had no reason (Being a bit naïve.) not to believe it. This went on for years until we decided to take a trip together involving buying plane tickets, when she had to level with me. I felt like a boob, but understood that sometimes gals just have to be ultra careful
So they have their hooker name/s, their "real" American name, which really isn't real, and then finally their REAL name which I only use when we do something that requires ID.
It's never really been that important to me. I know a few hookers in Latin America who use hooker names, but have to provide ID in order to get past the front desk at hotels, so I have a copy of their ID with their real name. I still call them by whatever name they want to be called by, as I said, "it's just not that important to me"
...when the fun starts it's usually "babe", " baby girl" or some other pet name...
When I know their real name I never use it...I don't like to break the illusion...
I've had a few let me know their real name, but I never call them by it because I wouldn't want to out them by mistake. They know my name and I'm "out" proof so I don't care.
to call her by her stage name while on the date?
Obviously not talking about names like "SexyHotGFE4U"
Do you give providers your real first name?
Your thoughts if any?
i have used it when discussing her real life and problems therein, but when we are client and provider i call her by her stage name.
another atf is deciding whether to tell me her real name, in that she wants my help getting introductions to people in her chosen field of work, which i happen to also be in. if she chooses to tell me (and i have told her this) i will only use it for introductions in the other industry, and she will still be her stage name to me when we play
It's John
I will use the name that she has used during contact. Unless she's a regular then once or twice I've been told a real name.
It doesn't matter too much to me as long as the date goes smoothly 
D.
Several months ago a series of on-line connections, lead to the real name of a regular. Once I realized what had happened, I contacted her so it would not happen with others. Two weeks ago we had a session. I smiley asked, do you want to be called A or B. Her choice, her professional name is what I called her. Seems she hates her real name. Best to just ask.
Normally it is no problem, but one time things got rather sticky.
She told me her real name, so I started to use it; but then she seemed irritated at me for using it, so I reverted to her stage name. But then she told me I was being silly using that name, and when I reminded her that she was irritated at me using her RL name, she told me that was not her real RL name, and gave me another name to use, which I did but found that she never would respond to me when I used it, so I doubt that's her RL name anyways. (Yes, she's on the flakey side.)
Now I just call her "Love", and leave it at that
"Hello love, bend over love, don't orphan me balls love."
She told me her real name, so I started to use it; but then she seemed irritated at me for using it, so I reverted to her stage name. But then she told me I was being silly using that name, and when I reminded her that she was irritated at me using her RL name, she told me that was not her real RL name, and gave me another name to use, which I did but found that she never would respond to me when I used it, so I doubt that's her RL name anyways. (Yes, she's on the flakey side.)
Now I just call her "Love", and leave it at that.
No need to ask lol my real name is Erin
I don't ask for her "real" name because of a few reasons.
A. Privacy - None of my business unless she wants to share
B. Rude - If her name isn't acceptable who am I to ask for another?
C. Confusion - You know how hard it is to remember every providers real name after they tell you once and then they expect you to remember it forever even though you are exhausted and half asleep after 2 pops. Then you see them 3 or 4 months later and they expect you to remember? At least the stage name is in the email and in the ads and in my TER favorites. I will never ever write down a ladies real name and have to rely on my own poor memory.
...and yes, I give out my real first name, its an extremely common name.
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...and never say their name. That's what I do whether I know their real name or not.
