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I become very strong and sex drive goes thru the roof. If I am planning to see a provider I keep my underwear on at night so my wife won't try to have sex with me. Sometimes you can't help and fuck the wife first. Then take a long time fucking the provider. One asked me last me last week (you already had sex today). I did not answer.

I'm thinking it's about 5-7 days for me.  I've  gone a little longer since last fall, mostly due to nagging minor back injury.  I feel I'm more comfortable on a date if I wait 7-10 days.

D.

That's what I did for years.

But don't worry, age will cure that problem, as it has for me, sadly.  Some problems are good to have

I can go about 6 or 7 days without stimulation, but back in my 20's it was like 1 or 2 days.  Since I was single in my 20's it was lots of jerking off (2 -3 times daily) dating and hookers (didnt know the term providers back then) whenever I could afford them.
Now I am married and still jerk off at least once a day or sometimes. Every other day, get sex about once or twice a month from the wife and once a month from a provider.  The pinnacle of my year is when the wife and I go on vacation and she actually gets horny.  Then its 2-3 DAYS of nonstop fucking, sucking and me eating her out.  If she were a provider it would be a 30 thousand dollar session and worth every penny.  Unfortunately, as soon as we get home we go back to the same pattern.

I went 3 or 4 weeks once without jerking off/having sex once. If I'm exhausted when going to bed, it's pretty easy to do. Normally I'm a 2+ times a day guy and it's noticable, not necessarily uncomfortable,  for me if I've gone 3 days without jerking off.

And that sucks, because I have no wife, no girlfriends, and my hobbying budget only allows me to play once every other month.  Obviously I have to masturbate a lot.

For me it depends.  To put it in context, I'm 50, married, one SB and a couple "regulars".  If I haven't had a release for several days, I might be ready to go again in less than an hour under the right conditions.  But if I've been having sex on a regular basis, by that I mean 3 or 4 times in the last week, I may not get fully aroused again in that amount of time.  It might be after we have dinner, see a movie, or just talk for a long time playing cards or whatever.  Maybe 2-3 hours later?  
I think that optimally I would have sex every other day with one of the above.  But it comes in waves.  On one occasion it was 3 (a regular, then an ATF, then wife the next morning) in the same 24 hours.  That was fun, but left me drained for about 3-4 days.  No interest whatsoever.  I typically wake up with morning wood, but didn't and was getting worried!  Then it came back and all was good with the world.
So, I guess my answer is, it depends.  
One thing I have noticed, is that in periods where I don't get it regularly, I crave it less.  Has anyone else noticed that?  I don't like those periods.  It makes me feel "old" and out of shape. I figure its like anything else, if you don't use it, you lose it.  If I go 4-5 days without sex, I'll go masturbate just to "exercise" and keep "fit".
At this point it is stream of consciousness so I better stop.
---lat