guys on that pic are sooo my type
and i am super nervous
i have never been with another girl
i am so nervous
how do you guys overcome nervousness and not bail out on something you've never done before?
for example guys who were nervous before their first bdsm, dominatrix, threesome or ts session?how did you overcome nervousness or did you just bail out?
i cannot believe i am so nervou
I would practice my scissoring technique lol. Sorry for milking that joke. 😜
Congratulations! If you have as much fun with the girl as I have with the ladies it will be a blast 
A glass of wine or an adult beverage of your choice. Just enough to relax you not to get drunk. Also if it is a fantasy of yours or a turn on check out some girl/girl porn beforehand.
Gawd, it's been so long since I felt that way. I remember always being nervous for years b4 P4P, then it faded away.
A glass of wine or two. Take a few breaths. Think of her as an old friend and break the ice accordingly, small talk, geography always works e.g; where you from, where you live. Don't think about the sex. (I know: easy to say, hard to do). Of course if you are really horny that's hopeless.
Seems to do the trick for me at least.
Good luck on your hot lesbo action, Octavia. I'm sure things will go just fine. And I hope you don't permanently switch teams because I'm still hoping you will come around eventually to what a nice guy I am. Ha ha!
You might not be able to get it up if you are too relaxed with alcohol.
Oops. Never mind. :-
shady
Oops. Never mind.
i have never been with another girl
i am so nervous
how do you guys overcome nervousness and not bail out on something you've never done before?
for example guys who were nervous before their first bdsm, dominatrix, threesome or ts session?how did you overcome nervousness or did you just bail out?
i cannot believe i am so nervous
Would you like some company you can fall back on? JJ?
Expectations for you to "perform". So just relax and be yourself. Lord knows you have no problem breaking the ice and establishing a rapport with complete strangers.
You will do fine. Let things unfold as they do.
Best of luck (you don't need it) and I hope you have an amazing evening!!!
i have never been with another girl
i am so nervous
how do you guys overcome nervousness and not bail out on something you've never done before?
for example guys who were nervous before their first bdsm, dominatrix, threesome or ts session?how did you overcome nervousness or did you just bail out?
i cannot believe i am so nervous
embrace it -- that's part of the experience.
i have never been with another girl
i am so nervous
how do you guys overcome nervousness and not bail out on something you've never done before?
for example guys who were nervous before their first bdsm, dominatrix, threesome or ts session?how did you overcome nervousness or did you just bail out?
i cannot believe i am so nervous
We are all assuming this is going to be a sexcapade.
But is it just a date, to go hang out, go to a movie or concert or museum, or dinner and a show ... and then see what develops?
There is no guarantee that you'll be getting into her pants using those lame methods! They don't work for most of us XY types, either!
Relax, enjoy her company, have a nice time, have a good time ... At least if nothing happens, you won't have blue balls
it went well,no sex
But is it just a date, to go hang out, go to a movie or concert or museum, or dinner and a show ... and then see what develops?
There is no guarantee that you'll be getting into her pants using those lame methods! They don't work for most of us XY types, either!
Relax, enjoy her company, have a nice time, have a good time ... At least if nothing happens, you won't have blue balls!
guys on that pic are sooo my type
That's me in the white hat
yes and yes
i am nervous as f.ck...lets wait till i am more comfortable with her...
i have never been with another girl
i am so nervous
how do you guys overcome nervousness and not bail out on something you've never done before?
for example guys who were nervous before their first bdsm, dominatrix, threesome or ts session?how did you overcome nervousness or did you just bail out?
i cannot believe i am so nervous
One way to overcome nervousness is to enjoy it. It's just anticipation. What will happen will happen despite any feelings you have, so just enjoy the excitement of looking forward to it. Is a roller coaster frightening or thrilling? It's only a matter of how you look at the rush of emotional reactions.
Just think about the reasons why you choose to be with her and you will realize that are because you want to enjoy this moment and if you are going to enjoy it then why to be nervous,it is all mental,you don't have to overcome nervousness,you have to overcome your mind,congratulations and enjoy it!
thank you)
lol yes, Papasan
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tWbLkXhGEmo
Who else would you be, after all
I find when I'm really nervous, it helps to just say so. "Wow, I feel like a kid on a first date, I can't believe I'm so nervous!" You won't be able to hide it anyway. I find it charming when someone is nervous to be with me. It tells me how important this moment is and I rise to the occasion to put them at ease and give them a memorable experience. See the good in it; how great it is to feel ALIVE again. God I wish I could be there. Kisses, Lily
Take notes. We'll want to hear the play by play.
Maybe take a video as well while you're at it.
(JK8o)
Hi hon. I can't believe a woman as beautiful as yourself and who has been in this industry for a bit would be as nervous as you claim. It's good to be a little nervous....hell, I still get a bit nervous when I'm getting ready for a date with one of my regulars (but that's just me).
Octavia, just go with the flow. Be yourself and have fun. Who knows, maybe it'll just be one big make out session with some touchy-freely stuff thrown in.
Regardless, I wish you the best of luck and have fun!
Duane
she is very pretty too ,so i guess it is intimidating a little bit )
Octavia, just go with the flow. Be yourself and have fun. Who knows, maybe it'll just be one big make out session with some touchy-freely stuff thrown in.
Regardless, I wish you the best of luck and have fun!
Duane
It can make you anxious or paranoid.
Your nervousness is trying to give you a warning. Some ladies in these types of situations will go postal on you if you break up. They become very attached.
Watched too many episodes of Orange is the New Black, maybe???
I told ya'all women are extremely beautiful creatures 
if i can't get it for free, i'll bi it!
we met on tinder...no mini review yet...it is civie date,so not sex on the first date...but she is amazing and very inhibited...so maybe our second date...
The number of Tinder downloads in Boston metro just tripled....I'm praying I get sent to town for work soon myself...
i just don't get it up. then my nerves are replaced by complete depression.
problem solved!