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I've been wanting to post this question for a few months now, but have been shy about it. So here it goes...

I have seen several websites where a provider will say "No men under 35", "Only date men 40 and up", etc., you get my point. I had to learn the hard way why that was.  

My thinking before was there could be a really nice guy out there that although he is young in age will still exhibit gentlemen-like behavior. Now, I'm not saying that isn't always the case. But this is what I am saying...

I have found that I really, really, really, and did I mention really like encounters with men over 50. Every experience I have had with a man in his 50's and above has been amazing. So much so (don't laugh), that I felt like what I was getting in the past was great but now that I have experienced this age group it's been way beyond my expectations.

Now I liked my job before, but whenever I am booked by someone in this age bracket I honestly get excited because I know that it isn't going to be boring, average, and he is going to explore every inch.

I'm sorry, I started talking about other things...My question is, would I be hurting my business if I wanted to cater to men 50 and above? I've never seen that age group being advertised before and feel maybe it's not advertised because no one would want to see that particular provider. Then I thought, how would I find these men anyway.

When anyone 50 and above fills out my booking form its like when you're a kid and you know lunch is coming, or recess, or your mom baking homemade chocolate chip cookies LOL

So yes, that's my question, but I also would feel bad about alienating those that are really young, like the age groups 23 and up. I like to treat everyone fairly and with the same kindness. But we all have things that really get our engines going.

Knows4fun487 reads

Can't say for sure whether this would hurt your business. The inverse... I do feel you'll improve your business with  "but now that I have experienced this age group it's been way beyond my expectations " describing over 50 men.

One of my favorite clients is 60. Growing up I always dated younger. I thought older men would bore me or wouldn't be able to keep my interest, but it was just the opposite.

GaGambler433 reads

I guess this answers the question about whether or not you are going to quit being an indy and start working for an agency.

As for your threAD, I would rate it about a four for originality and creativity. Not one of your better efforts IMO.

And this is why it took me so long to write this in the first place. I wasn't trying to be original. I was looking for an honest answer seeing as how I have NEVER seen anyone advertise for clients 50 and above.  

But I'll just make this my last post, thread, or whatever.  

Take care.

GaGambler331 reads

and yours is hardly the first post looking for clients 50 and above.

As for you staying or leaving, that is your choice of course, if my rather benign comments are enough to chase you off, you probably weren't long for these boards in the first place.

Shit...I have one person challenge me every fkin minute here. LOL

And ten times that with my hate mail. :)

I would say stay but the GD may not be for you

check out the Over 60 board and you will see what a lovable group we are. You will find very few of us go pissing on bushes to mark territories. We adore ladies, young and old and we are gentlemen.  
what's not to like>

I heard that sometimes, on very special occasions, the gals over there let the Johns have their own opinions. Is that true?

The 60 till death "bored" has all the excitement of Downtown Abbey coupled with the wild spontaneity of Mr Rodgers Neighborhood. LOL

What are you even doing over here?  

You might pull a hammy. :D

LasVegan228 reads

world would you want to "make this your last thread?"  Not all..........but a number of the hobbyists on here are "train wrecks."  Anytime one of them insults me.........I take it as a compliment, as they are not exactly, overburdened with intelligence.........or even manners.

Most of the criticizers are either satirists.........or wouldn't know their asses from a hole in the ground.

Hang in there!

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really?

Posted By: GaGambler
I guess this answers the question about whether or not you are going to quit being an indy and start working for an agency.  
   
 As for your threAD, I would rate it about a four for originality and creativity. Not one of your better efforts IMO.

That would be a great way for you to meet potential clientele and drum up business.

While you're changing his bed pan or draining one of his boils, you could just sort of casually ask if he's in to P4P.

You may even find that the 50+ crowd appreciates the attention and gives you more of their business.  

As long as you can meet your financial goals this way then it makes sense.  

And don't worry about being fair to everyone. Just be fair to yourself.

My free advice is to put something on your site saying how much you enjoy the company of a more mature gentleman. This will get the point across without alienating the 35-40 crowd. You have the best of both world at your advertised age! ;-)

Steph xoxo

Posted By: MatureGFE
My free advice is to put something on your site saying how much you enjoy the company of a more mature gentleman. This will get the point across without alienating the 35-40 crowd. You have the best of both world at your advertised age! ;-)  
   
 Steph xoxo
Good advice on promoting business.

If you do ads that are directed to 50+ guys, younger guys shouldn't be put off. If they like your reviews and photos, why wouldn't they contact you?

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If you are lucky, that is.

In any case, the under 50 crowd will have something to look forward to now.

I've made many guys and gals' days by telling them that all of this is headed their way, and the only way to get out of it is to die early

I haven't had the pleasure of being with a woman. I am attracted to them but I have no experience with them. So I honestly wouldn't know.

It's just that I don't have any experience. I wouldn't want to disappoint a woman with skills I don't have. I'm a lady virgin LOL

I know what you mean. As a gentleman, I prefer ladies over 50. However, I can't be exclusive because they're not always available. When they're busy, I have an array of over 40 ladies I enjoy seeing. But sometimes everyone is busy, and I have to dip down into the over 30 range. They're fun too, and I learn so much from them. Yet, still, my heart belongs over 50.  

So I think you should do something similar. Like me, you have to keep your options open. You're a professional, and when an over 40 calls, treat him professionally, even though he doesn't quite do it for you. You can still lean a lot. Maybe the same could be said for the over 30 group, but you have to choose your minimum age. Maybe 35? However, when you do get a gentleman over 50, your preferred age group, treat him beyond professionally. Don't watch the clock. Send him a surprise email now and then. Or at least send him a post session email telling him just how much you enjoyed his company. Find something to share that you really like about him. You could probably think of some other ideas. To be honest, the ladies who go the extra mile get put higher up on the list. The ladies who play it straight by the book, still get a session from time to time, when the higher ones are busy. You might also spend some time in the Over 60 forum. Be friendly, polite, and you'll draw some attention. Hell, the first thing I did, after reading your post, was look up your ad to see who you were.

Ultimately, you're going to do what you want to do anyway.  

    You'll find out once you do your "Test."  

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I don't see puppies either.  I have yet to have an amazing experience with a man who is younger than me...civvie or hobby.  For me,  I am selfish and I admit that.  I want my cake and I want to eat it to. I absolutely want to enjoy the man's company that I am with.  So,  I see men who I want to see.  I am a one a day lady and it works for me.  I don't run out of honey and I don't become robotic.  The people I see are friends of mine.  We communicate regularly.  We have great sex and they stay married. What a wonderful life.  👍

My threshold is 46.
And a few younger  guys I have kown for a number of years who have  learned what to do. 😁

...I'm absolutely fine with these minimum age restrictions. 😉

Come and get me, ladies!

I  didn't realize that you were over 50.  You aged extremely well!   Does explain the midlife  super expensive hoopdie.  Lmao

Thank you, darling.  

Yes, it explains that, amongst various other insecurities.  😉

Posted By: Erin Keevy
I  didn't realize that you were over 50.  You aged extremely well!   Does explain the midlife  super expensive hoopdie.  Lmao

The client starts at the age of 35. Bellow this mark are not clients. Perfect client is 40+. 50 clients are ok. You may encounter difficulties with 70+ clients, who want many hugs, kisses and many emotional and physical activities, but most of them can understand that this is a paid service and not to make trouble. So no, you won't lose business because of your preferences. Xo

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